Is there still a man that respects women's wishes?

Question

I wonder why men are always horny and all they care about is sex like that's why they even started any relationship. My last relationship ended because he started cheating and when I asked he said I didn't give him enough sex. He doesn't even care how I feel about everyday sex as long as he gets it and he's satisfied. It's been over two years now and I still feel that's what all men want since I've been meeting men and going on dates

Dargil · Accepted Answer

I am not defending them.
Many men do not want to invest time, treasure and emotions in a non-productive relationship. Even "nice guys" are validated primarily by sexual intimacy. Men honor women in a relationship by being useful. Changing your tire in the rain or fixing your sink drain are not side benefits. They are central expressions of love. If we do not try to be useful to you, we do not love you. Women honor men in a relationship by feeding us (!) and with sexual intimacy. Men who think that "dicking you down" is an expression of love. Nonsense. While sex is central to guys, it is a sideline for women. You want to be romanced and taken care of and want us to be faithful. We want to be heroes (even with the sink drain) and rewarded by sex (and food!) because we are.

This is a "deal" that can be made, but rushing into sex rewards a guy who hasn't earned it and it has little value to him as a result. "My last relationship ended because he started cheating and when I asked he said I didn't give him enough sex." What did he do for you to earn it?

Berethor · Accepted Answer

Well if you not keep a man satisfied then he would likely look for it somewhere else.

SueShe · Accepted Answer

There is a lot of truth in that statement but there are also a few girls that act the same way.

Guys tend to be more sexual and place so much more emphasis on that issue than girls do. It seems that their entire lives revolves solely around being sexual even though intimacy takes less than one single percent of an adult's life.

I guess that guy set their priorities wrong and need to prove themselves that they are capable of being sexual way beyond what is normal and acceptable.

This mentality has been going on since the beginning of mankind and is not likely going to end anytime soon.

But there are also a number of guys that do think with their brains rather than with something else, located much further South on the anatomy.

irielion82 · Answer

He would be cheating regardless. Cheaters cheat. And if you had the right boyfriend maybe he'd have given you love affection and sex that you craved more frequently instead of that dipshit

Gatman34 · Answer

You just now realized guys want sex? Guys are finally done being little bitches and telling it like it is. A lot of men know what we want and if you don’t satisfy us we will find someone who does. In a way you can blame dating apps. Lot of Guys can get sex from trash hoes very easily now

Giggletr0n · Answer

Sounds like you need to date an asexual guy, that'll either change your mind or fit right in for you.

clampfan101 · Answer

Always!

soleil2666 · Answer

Are you very sexy?

paul6965 · Answer

Men sometimes accept wishes of women, when their brain work in their head not between their legs.

Pipeliner87 · Answer

It's pretty clear you have not come across the right man.

Taurus90 · Answer

I have solutions

HawKHounD · Answer

There are lots of guys respecting women's wishes. Sometimes it's the person you say " I wish I could date a guy like you"

Anonymous · Answer

I accepted my wife’s wishes to not have as much sex as I wanted in our relationship. Now it has been four years with no sex at all. And over time out physical contact has fallen away too. No kissing very few hugs. No cuddling. So our marriage has now basically turned into a business arrangement.