Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?

If you are OK with it, is it just because you are in a friends with benefits relationship and that's how it is suppose to be?

If you are not OK with it, is it because it makes you feel like you are being used... you're just his play thing or sex doll and he doesn't really have any serious emotional attachment for you?

What do you think about couples in these situations?

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Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
A. Yes, that is our arrangement. We just enjoy getting each other off and there is really no more to it than that
Vote A
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
B. OMG, YES! I hate it when he does that! It makes me feel like he is using me to satisfy his own fleshly desires and then when he's satisfied he suddenly has to go or be somewhere and it makes me feel like I'm being abandoned and neglected or worse
Vote B
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
C. I am one of the ODD GUYS OUT, and actually have sex with a girl like this. Once she is finished she has to go get ready to do something else and doesn't seem to need me anymore
Vote C
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
D. No, I have never had this happen, my partner makes me feel loved and adored after sex and continues to pay attention to me
Vote D
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
E. This is very common in this day and age. I don't really expect any more than that from a casual sex relationship
Vote E
Is it wrong when guys just leave right after having sex, or are you OK with that?
F. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Casual Sex Plaything" survey
Vote F
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That’s just wrong unless it’s an emergency but I would never do that to a girl whether she is a friends with benefits or whatever that’s just ignorant , for someone to do that just goes to show that they are using you and don’t really care about you in my opinion it also means they are probably cheating on their current partner with you as well , I use to sleep with a girl that would. come over to have sex with me and then make up an excuse to why she had to leave shortly after we finished I found out she was married after a while until I started analyzing what she was up to she would get done work 2 hours before her husband so those 2 hours she was coming to see me then racing home to her husband like nothing ever happened , she played me good for quite some time , well the sex was good but the fact that she was leaving fast rose my suspicions, I played investigator and followed her home to find out the home she use to take me to wasn't even her home long story short it was her parents vacation home , so yes if someone is taking off after sex then they more than likely are up to something and using you

    • Thanks again for MHO Beautiful

  • How do you feel about it? That's the only issue that matters here

    • friends with benefits = OK Relationship = Stay right were you are or you die! ... lol

    • Lol and see that's all that matters.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Well i don't really mind if they leave like that due to 2 reasons
    One because thats the arrangement
    2nd because someone getting sexual with you is already loving enough so even if they leave later it shouldn't be any problem (both girls n guys do it)
    But no arguments that when they stay n cuddle n kiss a bit it feels so great

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    • @Guardian45 😊😊

    • Thanks for MHO honey

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  • its okay but sometimes I like it when they stay lol

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  • Even when I've had friends with benefits, I prefer to stay unless there are outside circumstances that require one of us to leave (such as an early work schedule). There was one girl who definitely didn't want that - she wanted me to come for sex and leave when we were done - and there were a few who obviously enjoyed having me stay but expected me to want to leave and didn't presume to even ask me to stay (but were happy that I did) - and the others just came out and asked me to stay.

    I mean, I DO get why many guys leave - because some girls, no matter what you tell them, will believe that you want a relationship if you stay and cuddle and hang out, and so some avoid that by leaving right after sex - but I enjoy women's company and cuddling after sex (and another round in the morning), so I like to stay or have her stay.

  • Whatever kind of sex I plan to engage in , I would first discuss how we both like things to go after, before.

    So whatever his or my preference is , We will both know in advance and there will be no surprises. And if I’m not OK with it I won’t have sex. If he does something sketchy after Sex, I won’t do it again 🤷‍♀️

    I am open minded but I don’t like surprises.

  • Honestly these days it's so common that the ones who stay feel wrong. Unless its with a girl that I j intend to have a deep connection to I usually opt for the less awkward choice and leave.

  • I had understandings with FWBs that we don’t usually stay overnight. No awkward breakfasts the next day. Now someone I’m interested in is a different story.

  • I voted D.

  • I have had that happen before, but I don't know why it would have made me upset. I think it is a bit rude, but people are rude all the time. Getting upset doesn't help. If all she wanted to do was have sex then it would have been nice to know that up front, but having sex was also in my interests at the time, so I didn't lose anything either.

  • I think you both have to be in agreement at the start. I personally don't agree with the practice but let's call it "f" buddies, you have to have that mind set from the start

  • That almost never happens unless I'm just hooking up with him and I make it clear I don't wanna cuddle after. And I haven't hooked up with anybody in over a year.

  • I'm never in a hurry to leave after sex- quite the opposite.

  • Unless they need to be here, I’m fine with it personally.

  • It’s okay and Norma guys are different then women and have a detachment feeling after orgasm that is how we are wired. Men and women are different. men want to leave when done that is how we are.

  • No, I'm a serial cuddler, I'll be big spooning you to sleep @WhiteShoulder @Apple1996 because that's how Ronald rolls 😎

    Which leads me to my question: is it wrong if a girl just leaves right after sex? Because I'm not ok with that 🤨 I need me some cuddling 😉

  • Unless she's a hooker that has fulfilled her duties or, if was predetermined that he'd have to leave as soon as he came or if he suddenly realized he absolutely HAD to be somewhere else in a few minutes!!

  • If it's a serious relationship, then it's dead
    If it's a friends with benefits or just a hookup, a woman should not expect the man to stay.

  • Honestly I'd rather stay, after to be honest, I'd probably only leave if I had somewhere I actually had to be like work.

  • I'd be ok with it

    I just wanna get laid

  • Seriously..
    Leave right after sex is stupid.
    After sex.. Our body are going under hormonal and psychological change... That is quite Enjoyable..
    I think that is time to cuddle with your partner.. Enjoy some food Snacks..
    And then joke about few things...
    That...
    Is the time when women's body releases pheromones to make the male stay..
    If a male walks out at that time.. he will never fall totally in love with her.. I think staying with the girl after sex and enjoying those pheromones is like eating dessert after a dinner..

  • I wouldn't have sex with someone who I couldn't stand to be with after sex. Even in situations like friends with benefits and one night stands you need to connect with the other or else it's way better to use a dildo instead of wasting time with some douche just for seconds of pleasure

  • I’ve only had sex with my boyfriend. I couldn’t imagine being left alone lol I love cuddling.

    • It's the best, right?

    • @Guardian45 it is

  • If they're a couple, why would he not stay?

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