How can I find a consistent fuck buddy?

I have a pretty high libido, but I’m going through a bit of a dry spell. I haven’t had sex in about 2 months and I really just need a good night of passion. Women have needs too!

I have a decent list of guys who are interested in me, but I’m not attracted to any of them. The guys I actually want to sleep with always play games. Should I just come out and ask for it?
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Update friends, I found one! BUT it seemed that he wanted more than just sex. We had sex, and he asked me if he could take me out on a date. And he asked if I’m single/open to a relationship. When I tried to give him more, he disappeared. Guys are weird lol.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think in your case you have to because you're selective about who, which is fine, but you may have to select the guy you want and make the move. My fwbs was the one that asked me.

    • And be very clear with him about what you do and don't want. Don't hint or assume anything, make sure it's said directly and understood.

    • Okay I’ll be sure to do that! I’m not sure how to bring up a conversation like this? Should I just hit up a guy around booty call hours and ask him to come over? Lol

    • Sure lol. And if he agrees, then you can ask him if he's interested in a fwbs type situation. That was kind of what mine did with me. The situation was a bit different, but after we had sex for the first time, she then just asked me if it was a 1 time thing, or did I have any interest in a fwbs thing.

  • 1. You could PM me and we can see where that goes.
    2. If you are only interested in sex, then lower your expectations.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Be HONEST about your wants and needs when approaching the person and question! Otherwise it's not fair to either you or your prospective partners!

    • Gotcha! How can I go about asking? Lol.

    • Be straightforward, like you were here. "Hey! I think you're cute and am looking for a NSA fuck buddy? You interested?" for example, or any variation thereupon. But always negotiate your wants and limits when entering a NSA relationship so no one gets more than they bargained for!!

  • yup! who cares if they play games if you dont want to be in a relationship with them

    • You’re right! I just want one thing lol

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  • Shrink one!

    How can I find a consistent fuck buddy?
  • I don't know what you mean by they play games when all you want is a fuck buddy lol

  • I’ll fuck you. No games

  • Sounds like to me you need to become an anonymous and hit me up sometime we can talk about this probably

  • Definitely, just plan a night where you put yourself in the situation and show him you want to get it on.

    • Is it okay to call a guy up/text him to come over? Will he get the hint then?

    • Do you live alone?

    • I sure do

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  • 2 Sexless months? Damn girl better get on that how are you still living?

  • Why not?
    The worst outcome is you get a no. Ask nicely and sincerely, don't slut yourself for it - who could fault you for it?

    • Yeah, it's not hard. The hard bit is to find EXACTLY what you are looking for, not _just_ sex. Just sex takes an hour or two to find on pretty much any evening. But to be honest, you have to know/clear things up with yourself - and that's a question of life, universe and everything else... (:-))

  • Yeah right here

  • Where are you from?

  • You need to have good partner for please you well.

  • Craigslist

  • Don't be a fucktard