Did you or are you saving your virginity for the right person?

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  • I'm not saving myself for marriage because I don't plan on getting married. But I am definitely saving myself for someone that's a good person. Ideally, I'd want to make a good friend that is looking for a monogamous relationship. One that doesn't sleep with just anyone. That way we can see if we're compatible as the friendship grows. If not, then no hard feelings because we'd both still be good friends. But if so, then it works out! I wouldn't want o thrust myself into any type of commitment if I don't even know the person well.

    But I'm definitely in no rush to have sex. I'm not really good looking but sex is easy to have when you know where to look. And I recognized that I want something more than sex. So I don't want to rush it, especially if I could potentially benefit more/feel more fulfilled by waiting.

    But believe me, if masturbation wasn't a thing, I'd be clapping cheeks every day.

    Did you or are you saving your virginity for the right person?
    • Yo. lmao 🤣.

  • I definitely do not regret my decision, not because it was good the first time... but the more experience you have, the better it gets... plus, I have found, you need more than just good chemistry with a person, It would suck to marry someone and then to realise you both enjoy different things, don't feel comfortable talking about things or doing new things in the bedroom... You need a sexual chemistry and your normal chemistry

Most Helpful Girls

  • Honestly I always wanted to save myself for my husband not only for religious reasons but because I didn’t want to give myself away to just anyone. I think sex is beautiful, artful, a great expression of love that should be shared with someone special

    I don’t feel that way anymore 😞

    • I'm trying to save myself for my husband *hugs* How come?

    • After that guy saying that to me I don’t even want to think about marriage or anything because I feel like it won’t happen. I’ve had a lot of mean things and rude behaviors towards me because of my looks and it’s become more overwhelming

    • imma pm you

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  • I want to lose it to someone who will take the time to make sure I enjoy it. Ideally I'd only want to give myself to one person who I can give my heart, soul, and body too.

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  • Too late for that. But I saved it into my 20's.

  • I didn't and I wish I had... what a waste

    • sorry to hear that

    • Thank you, but it is what it is. It was a lesson if nothing else.

  • Yes I am saving it for the right person. I'm at least trying to anyway...

    • same

  • Yes, but he wasn’t the right one

  • No. I knew and I know now that person will never come along.

  • Depends on what you mean by the right person. Some people take it to mean the person you think you'll marry, but I just see it as tge right person to be intimate with for the first time. I didn't marry the first person I had sex with, but he was absolutely the right person for me to have my first time with

    • well i mean the right person in whoever answers opinion. nice answer by the way

    • Thank you

  • I tried to. But it turned out to not be the right person.

    I don't fully regret it because he was a good guy.

    I was too young to know how to be a good girlfriend.

    All that mattered to me was my sprinting and when I wasn't at practice i was hanging out with my friends first and he was always put to the back burner making very little time for him which eventually drove him off.

  • Too late for that now.

  • yea or im waiting for someone thats not from my city to show up into my life.

    • lol.

  • i already gave my virginity to the best person

    • that's good

  • I suppose.

  • I was going to wait but it just happened and I was kinda talked into it I guess

  • Yes, I am. I don't know who that person will be, but whoever she is, she is going to get all of me.

  • Not really, you can’t tell who’s the right person

    • That's fair enough

  • As a man it's hard to save one's virginity, so much judgement, I tried a hookup once and I haven't done it since, no desire for that kind of sex

  • I had sex with my girlfriend when we decided we were both ready. I never intended to wait until marriage was a foregone conclusion.

  • Nope it's too late for that lol

    • lol.

    • What about you are you saving yourself for marriage

    • Yes, I am

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  • I didn't save myself for right person

    • Did you regret it?

    • No I was young at the time

    • oh ok

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  • I store my virginity in the back of the freezer next to Jake’s penis.

    • 🤔 any room in that freezer.

  • im not a virgin, sorry

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