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Will it hurt losing virginity?

At this point I can insert 2 fingers inside me with only a little bit of disconfort... not pain. So Maybe im not that tight. Your opinion?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Every virgin I've had sex with thought it hurt like Hell.

    Two cried at the pain, one had to be held down and forced (this is consensual as that is what she wanted in order to get through it because she reacted by closing up and wanted me to overcome her reaction in spite of the pain).

    But for most, the intense pain was very brief and then it was bearable.

  • Mine is that it's not painful if your turned on and ready. There might be some hymen ripping which hurts but opening you up should not hurt if you have enough good foreplay.
    I always make sure my partners are ready by teasing them and kissing them all over till they beg for.

Most Helpful Girls

  • This is different for every girl. Sometimes yes, it will hurt because it's something you're not used to. for others, no it won't hurt. For me personally, yes, it hurt. My first time was - more or less - just trying to get through it instead of enjoying it. But this isn't always the case.

  • Sounds fine. You might get a bit of stinging, but not the full on pain some girls get. I did a lot of stretching, for a few weeks before, and had no pain or bleeding.

    • Bleeding on first intercourse is a myth. I suppose a guy could make it bleed by being rough.

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  • If fingers are causing discomfort your in for a bad time. Try not fingering until your fully aroused and you'll see a big difference.

  • If you are able to insert 2 fingers inside already then it would not be a big deal for you.

  • Not an expert but you sound normal. Be sure to use personal lube and be sure that first penetration is in baby steps, not all at once.

  • I have no clue. It differs from girl to girl I guess. Some girls feel pain and some don't really feel much at all.

  • It really depends on a lot of things. The larger the male obviously is a big factor. But each woman is different, some will feel pain, some won't. It's something you won't know until it happens

  • Ya it's hurting too much for female first time...

  • It shouldn't matter. Most women hurt losing their virginity because their hymen is broken. So the number of fingers you can put in shouldn't matter.

  • It will but its like gym. The nice kind of pain.. Pleasurable type

  • Definitely be fully aroused before having sex. From what I've seen the first time will hurt. Two fingers is pretty average.

  • Ladies, you are the best to answer this one!! I am sure it will hurt some...

  • only a little but the pleasure covers it

  • It might, no guarantee. I've heard if women who didn't feel pain at all, mostly with gentle partners, while others were screaming in pain. Just try it and go slow at first.

  • You should purchase a realistic size vibrator or dildo and answer the question for yourself.

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