Have you ever groped a stranger without their consent? Why or why not?

[mistixs]

[MrOracle]

I've done it a couple of times in settings where it wasn't likely to be objected to (and where in fact it was welcomed), but that's a bit different.

I have inadvertently groped girls in other crowded situations, but usually the option of not doing so would be worse. Some examples:

- In New Orleans during Mardi Gras, the gutters of Bourbon Street are full of garbage - crushed paper and plastic cups, beads, paper, etc., plus whatever liquid is there. But because people don't want to stand directly in those dirty gutters, it's often the only place to walk when the streets are packed, and so it's common for people to use the gutters as a path to move through the crowd. I was standing just on the edge of the sidewalk listening to some people talking on a balcony on the opposite side of the street, and people walking just in front of me were constantly slipping. And a lot of them were female, drunk, and not wearing sensible shoes for walking in the gutters on top of wet garbage, so many of them were falling, and I was trying to steady them as they went past me. I probably helped in excess of 100 people (including guys) not slip and fall, but at least a dozen times, I had a girl, usually in heels or other inappropriate shoes, who slipped, and if I hadn't caught her, would have fallen into the gutter or bashed her head on a pole. And in the process, at least 4 or 5 times, I ended up with a handful of boob and another couple of times with a handful of ass. Of course, none of them were at all upset, because at best, they'd been covered in filth if they'd fallen, and at worse, they'd be bleeding severely and waiting for an ambulance.

- In somewhat similar circumstances, I've been to a lot of concerts and festivals, and there's often crowd-surfing and mosh pits. I go for the show, not to mosh or surf, so I tend to stay more towards the edges, but that means when a crowd-surfer gets hurled towards the edge of the pit where the crowd is much thinner, either someone has to catch them or they're going to slam to the ground - and on more than one occasion, there were crowd-surfers who got carried out of shows strapped to trauma boards. There were a few shows where people seemed to keep being ejected towards me, and I was grabbing people and getting them safely to the ground constantly. You don't have any control over this happening - you just see a shadow over you and you have to react and grab the body above you before they fall. So, again, many of these were girls, and a number of times, I've got one hand around her torso and maybe I've got one leg in my other hand, and it wasn't unusual to be grabbing boobs or anything else to try to keep them from hitting the floor. One girl got thrown really far by the crowd - she was on her back but as she got thrown her feet were flying up and she was about to come crashing down onto the back of her head at about a 45 degree angle, and she was about 2 big steps away, and I just barely caught her and it took a few seconds for me to stabilize her - she was scared to death and flailing around for something to grab onto, and it was probably 10 seconds before I could get her to let go of the back of my shirt. The whole time I was solidly holding on to her boob because it was the only thing I could grab until I got my arm under her legs and lever her body around and get her feet on the floor. I started to say "sorry for grabbing you like this" but she smiled and shook her head, then put her hand over mine and squeezed, gave me a kiss on the cheek, and kind of bounced away back to find her friends.

So, it's not always a creepy guy being intentionally sexual, and it's not always offending to the girl - context is everything.

[MrNameless]

i swear, every time i read your replies, I read it in Quagmire's voice

[mistixs]

I don't think those situations qualify as groping

[MrOracle]

Well, it wasn't intentional groping, but I wouldn't have been shocked if one of the girls had felt that it was, because in the end, my hand was on her ass or boob, and some girls are going to make an issue about that no matter what the situation was. Thankfully that didn't happen to me - everyone recognized that I was helping them - but I know it could have, and that's why I mentioned it. In virtually all other situations, the only "groping" I'm doing is visually... LOL.

[Anonymous]

I did ONCE in high school, first day of freshman year. I was tired of being called "gay" just because I had a higher pitched voice and did not sleep around. One guy promised to shut the hell up if I did it (not an acceptable reason, but teen logic). I decided I would do it quickly and then run before she realized it was me. I initially got away, but the guy who dared me to do it snitched. She found me and made me promise to buy her school lunch for the rest of the year so she wouldn't have to spend hers, give her my lunch money, help her with her homework so all she had to do was reword it and let her paint my fingernails pink for a month and not wash it off until the end of each school day. She also told me that I had to explain what I did and why to her friends and sit with them and listen to their stories of what they did to boys who did what I did. It was this or she would report me, which would have been automatic expulsion. You can guess which option I picked.
On a side note, I got lucky and these girls ended up being some of my best friends, two of which (including the girl I groped) I still talk to today. I am lucky that, instead of hitting me or reporting me, this girl got creative with her terms of punishment and gave me a chance to learn my lesson when she did not have to, nor did I deserve it.

[mistixs]

"buy her school lunch for the rest of the year so she wouldn't have to spend hers, give her my lunch money, help her with her homework so all she had to do was reword it and let her paint my fingernails pink for a month" This sounds like a femdomme fantasy

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Bro, none of that happened hahaha

[dancing_in_nebulas]

I do this thing, where I will touch men on the chest, shoulders or forearm when I talk.

A customer at my job actually brought it up. He wasn't angry, but he said it made it feel like I was a friend or relative he hadn't seen in a while.

Men are more fond of touches by women though, and other women don't mind mostly. Probably because women are associated with a tender, nurturing, warm touch anyway.

Men do mind though, if you're not attractive to them.

I haven't had an issue there, tee hee, and admit to caressing and I guess yeah, gropin guys inappropriately.

It's a double standard indefinitely.

Guys have been completely fine by it, whereas as women are most likely to freak out just by a guy seductively eye balling them lol...

[chantrllr]

My parents always told me to keep my hands to myself. Yo. No way in hell am I going to court for touching a stranger 😂 how embarrassing. Keep ya dirty mits to yourself and if you can’t do that go to a brothel and spend your hard earned cash to touch someone who’s willing.

[kaylaS91]

No.
I’ve never done that or even thought of it because I’m not turned on by anything non-consensual.

[MorticiAddams]

No. I respect other people.

[OjosOscuros3]

Yes, lots of times. Guys with tight shirts are just asking for it.

[jakey122]

I’ve only done that in highschool, but it was sort of “ expect” I’m sure you know what I mean? I’ve Never done it since I was like 18 though. And even then it wasn’t really strangers they were from HS

[Daniela1982]

I groped my own boobs and played grab ass with myself, does that count? I think I had just woken up and felt super horney.

[ohshee]

Lmao I just tried it didn't fix the horny part

[purplepoppy]

Slapped a few bottoms but never went as far as a unwanted grope

[PondyPand]

never groped because I'm not a piece of shit

[Duckysback]

No, I’m not a complete piece of shit.

[Moonchild714]

I've been violated... I will NOT do that to Another Human Being!!!

[Evil_Laughter]

I voted C. I don't even like it when people put their hands on my shoulders so I'm not about to grope anyone.

[HomoFuge]

No. I find the idea repulsive and in my country groping is categorised as sexual assault. I don't want to go to prison and doing something like that ruins your reputation as a person.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Groping a stranger? No no!

[jemismyname]

Sometimes I grope myself without content... and I'm stranger than most people...

but otherwise, no way... i wouldn't want to do that to someone...
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if, on the other hand, if a random girl groped me, i really doubt it would bother me in any way. I would probably like it.

If a guy did it, it still probably wouldn't bother me, but i probably wouldn't like it. I guess it kind of depends mostly on what was the person's demeanor.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I've definitely seen women who were just so attractive, fighting the urge felt like fighting off some kind of monkey, primal instinct. lol

But I'd never, just because I don't know how that could effect someone. I mean on top of the fact that most girls would probably be a little creeped out, what if you grab a girl who's been through some type of terrible experience.

But I wish things weren't like that. Like wouldn't it be great if everyone was just grabbing ass all the time! I've been groped before and I thought it was fun.

[SkipStop]

I would never do that. Don't just touch random people unless you are ready to face consequences.

[Hamsteroids]

Nope never

[akobun]

No, being sexually harassed isn’t fun, I’ve been groped on my breasts and bum and wouldn’t want someone feeling as humiliated and violated as I did.

[kathy1121]

I would never do that it happens to me and it makes me so mad

[TremorJay]

I pinched a girl's ass in a busy night club. I didn't want to ruin her night. I did it selfishly, so I'd say I just didn't care.

[IAMNathanael]

I never have nor would I ever do it