Do you typically experience physical pain or discomfort while giving oral sex?

Such as a sore jaw, etc
Do you typically experience physical pain or discomfort while giving oral sex?
I've never given oral sex
Vote A
I've given oral, but typically don't experience pain or discomfort while doing so. I enjoy giving oral, for its own sake (not solely because it pleases my partner)
Vote B
I typically don't experience pain or discomfort while giving oral. However, I don't enjoy giving oral for its own sake. If I enjoy it, I only enjoy it because I enjoy pleasing my partner
Vote C
I typically experience pain or discomfort, but I still enjoy giving oral, but only because my partner likes it
Vote D
I typically experience pain or discomfort, but I still enjoy giving oral, for its own sake
Vote E
I typically experience pain or discomfort. I dislike giving oral. I only do it to please my partner
Vote F
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm not the kind to be overexcited over a blowjob so when a girl do me I'm always stressed not feeling shit.
    But there is a girl, the goddess of bj, I won't cum from that but god it feels good but it's just her and a bit with a friend. Other that I'm not at my ease as I don't want her to be dissapointed.
    Like that time my D went back to sleep in he mouth... But when she came back she was like super sayan showing new moves and stuff lol

    When I give head to a girl I feel really unconfortable when they shaved every hair they got there. Even just have sex with a girl who shaved her (vulva?) forgot the word, let's go with pussy even though I don't really like it. It's I got sex with a teenage girl and it's soooo cringe. No for real I always ask girl to not shave their pussy but if really they want to, I just hope she has the shapes of a grown up woman so it's not too cringe. I don't even understand why the hell they would shave it, because some men told them they like it? What's the difference between that and the Asian girls wearing thigh shoes all their life just to not get tall feet?

  • I voted that I've given oral but typically don't experience pain or discomfort while doing so. That said, it's important to be in a good position where your head and neck are at a comfortable angle so that your neck doesn't tense up. And for a long session it's good to take short breaks to rest your tongue and stretch or relax any muscles that may be tensing up, and while doing so continuing the stimulation with a finger (s). It IS an enjoyable activity and very much a turn on and I like giving for BOTH reasons: Pleasuring my partner and for my enjoyment.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think this is nothing to do with sex, because oral sex can promote the joy and stimulation of sex. I also sometimes find people I like on some online dating platforms, and these relationships can be unbounded. Recently I played more kinky things on KinkDr, a BDSM hookup site.

  • I usually experience some discomfort while giving my boyfriend a blowjob. He is wuite big and my jaw is usually quite sore afterwards. I do it mostly because he enjoys it so much. I also use a numbing spray on the back of my throat to help me not gag because he is so big

    • Wow i never heard of some one go to such measures just to go deeper?

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  • My jaw dislocates and I dread when my S. O. asks me to do it longer. I am just 3 weeks from having several vertebrae in my neck surgically fused. I hate the marathon dick sucking sessions.

    • Lol whattt

  • Voted E.

    Oral takes too long to finish. I have one partner who deliberately delays finishing just to prolong his enjoyment and my discomfort as my jaw starts to hurt.

  • It used to not be an issue for me until I got TMJ. Certain days are better then others but I'm always taking a few second breaks and using my hands to allow my jaw to rest.

  • Maybe sore knees if you been on em too long 😉

    • You know you can lay down. Not painfully for the knees.😉

    • @JeremyT lol yes I do know that. I also know what 69 means 😉 lol

  • I imagine the women I sleep with enjoy giving me head, but not gagging on my dick. Having a sore jaw or holding my breath squeezed between thighs is a small price to pay to please someone I care about and have some fun :)

  • I've had cramp in legs when squatting down and toppled over.

  • after a long time, yes my tongue & jaw do get sore...

    • Wudnt he just cum after a long time

  • Yes! It’s like a jaw workout lol and if he’s big it will ache later

  • It’s simple. You won’t get a sore jaw if you don’t like doing it. You’ll have a sore jaw from not wanting to stop. It’s like an indicator telling you it’s been a while you’re doing, but you both still enjoy so you keep going.

    Would’ve loved to include some stats, studies of some sort, but I currently don’t have any on this topic for now. The only one I heard from a human sexual behaviour professor, was that oral is something that’s given more often by women than men. Now, correct me if i’m wrong, I have a feeling that women giving oral is less uncomfortable than men’s giving. Maybe that’s a reason why there’s some men that don’t or rarely give oral?

    Although, be aware that the stats you will receive from your poll will be higher than usual, since GAG’s community is more open minded to sex in general, from what i’ve seen.

  • only if it's going on too long but thats never really an issue.

  • I enjoy the act.
    I enjoy pleasing my husband.
    His large girth is pretty difficult to take in though that I feel discomfort.

  • Sometimes your jaw gets sore

  • I can last for 30-45min down there before it hurts, but I love giving oral. They typically cum before that much time has passed.

  • I dont mind oral but my jaw does hurt after awhile

  • Pain and pleasure are part of great sex

  • I like it and had no pain during it

  • It's only painful because girls take so damn long to cum. Takes my tongue a week to recover from too much workout!

    • Lmao. You're not doing it right.

  • I've definitely gotten a sore jaw more than a few times, but only if he's pretty thick and or I'm doing it for a long time.

  • The jaw is fine, and yes I do it for her pleasure but when I ingest her pussy drool and squirt, it does come out slimy when I go for a No.2, never really noticed it till a lad mentioned it in one of my questions 🤔🤔🤔

  • Yeah, sometimes a sore jaw.

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