What’s your body count? Does it matter?

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I’ve only been sexually active with my boyfriend. Sometimes I feel like it was weird of me to wait so long.

Buckzor · Accepted Answer

Here's my opinion.

Mine is 3. Those were in the span of about a year.

I think it matters, i'm actually insecure about my lack of experience, like I feel I could meet someone and due to my lack of experience I could ruin it.

On the other hand it feels like most girls think it's a good thing I haven't really slept around much.

I don't really care about it on girls too much, as long as it's not something crazy, or that i'm just adding a number to her count and that's the only reason. I don't really care for or care against virgins either, in my eyes I see a virgin as someone i'd need to lead/teach (and I just don't want to do that), and I don't care if she isn't so to speak.

For girls obviously the higher the count, the more likely they'll get called a hoe.

If they're a virgin they'll be called frigid or waiting for marriage etc.

At the end of the day, if she's slept with a HEAP, then I won't be as interested as I think "she's had plenty of opportunity for really good sex/dick, so i'm at a loss", and i'd probably just get too scared anyway.

irielion82 · Accepted Answer

I just asked why people people le would still ask this question. people over or under exagerate and ask for answers they dont want bv to hear or shouldn't want to hear. If I'm lucky enough to be with you I dont care about your past I care about our present and possibly our future. This creep was booty shaming a young lady on here and I remarked he must have never have lived with or been around women to which he replied "fucked over 40". Such a douche. He was 58 I believe too. Why ask a question or telk an answer that migh th make you or them feel jealous or inadequate? I don't know imho nothing good comes of it. I stopped counting after freshman year of college.

Sheyhoney · Accepted Answer

It does matter sometimes like if it’s a lot 🤷🏻‍♀️ Mine is 10 and it’s not gonna grow anymore. You’re good girl everybody at their own pace, it’s not weird.

thegirlfromthething · Accepted Answer

Zero. I guess in some cultures that has great significance but to me personally it only kind of matters.

MORPHEUS_12 · Answer

Uno, one

razelove · Answer

I don't know. Honestly I don't want to know. If you're still counting it's less than 10. Why worry about a number, or waiting too long? Worry about what you enjoy. I can remember the women who made me happy, and I made happy, that's what matters.

Duckysback · Answer

Higher than average. And no.

HOAAH · Answer

Same as you. Only been with one guy at the age of 24

ohshee · Answer

Yes I started young i don't really know my body count I don't look at it like that I see it as experiences because it one is different and beautiful so what ever it might be I'm thankful as it his made me grow as a person and has made me become a naughtier more passionate giver and lover and I think it's cool that you waited as long as he makes it all about you

Apple1996 · Answer

One😊😊 and nah it doesn't matter

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I've had sex with 6 or 7 girls.

Yo, people who say they had sex with over a hundred people, calm tf down! I wanna believe you're all lying but I know a pretty honest guy who told me he lost count and he's probably hit around 200. Like what tf kinda lifestyle do you need to do that. You're fucking a new girl almost on a daily basis at that point. Lmao like if it's possible to have that much game than I quit. lol

nah, jk numbers don't really matter. Whats more important is why two people are with eachother and what their values are.

BlacklightShade · Answer

I lost count after 1.

tzdc21 · Answer

For men, a woman's body count does matter. Let me explain the four big reasons why it matters to a man when dealing with a woman. Buckle up, this is gonna take a while.

1) Men and Women are both biologically hardwired to be attracted and disgusted by certain things. It just so happens that one of the things we guys are instinctively disgusted by are promiscuous women as our girlfriend and/or wife. That's just our nature, just like how it's in a woman's nature to look for a man who can provide and protect. Now when it comes to just sex, they won't care, but a committed relationship is a whole different ballpark.

2) Stats show that the higher a woman's body count, the more likely she will initiate breakups ans divorces. AND it's more likely she will have mental problems down the long run. You lose your ability to pair bond with every new sexual partner you have, and that's what helps relationships work through tough times... or in general.

3) When you (a woman) are in a relationship with a man, you are becoming a representation of that man, whether you know it or not. That means that what you say or do is gonna affect him to. So therefore, if you're a hoe, or you say or do some crazy and stupid stuff, not only are you putting yourself in a bad light, but you're putting your boyfriend/husband in a bad light. Because everyone is gonna be like, "This crazy girl is his?" or "This hoe is who he is taking seriously?" That is embarrassing for any man, even if he won't admit it to others or himself.

4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON. There is a reason why since the dawn of time, men have demanded that the woman they take seriously are virgins. Not all guys nowadays want virgins now, but still want lower body counts from the woman they take seriously. And the reason why is because they want to ensure paternity. I assume I would be correct if I were to say that a deep dark fear for a lot of women is being r@ped in a dark alley by some creep. That deep feeling of fear that you get, the male equivalent to that is when he busts his ass, investing his blood, sweat, and tears into raising a child, and then finding out one day that the kid was never his. That's why guys have an issue with taking promiscuous women seriously. Because if you take a promiscuous woman seriously, and she gets pregnant, there's a good chance that child may not be yours.

Blublub · Answer

1 and no

MikeTheBartender · Answer

Almost 200... No prostitutes or anything... I just got issues... But some were girlfriends too.

sammy2toes · Answer

Better than getting std or worse. It is easier to look back and see what you missed out on or learn something that could have changed everything but you cannot change the past

mimi051998 · Answer

Zero sadly 😭😭

Lmmm326 · Answer

It's not weird, less is almost always better.

archiz · Answer

I am weirder, I still didn't have intercourse.

MackToday · Answer

Yup, sure does.

NickiB · Answer

2 guys 1 girl.

jamesgoldman · Answer

2 and it doesn't matter

Danny_dan92 · Answer

I have slept with 14 women. And no, it doesn’t matter.

Although I will say that depending on your appearance and age, (at least for males)

It can leave women having second thoughts of sleeping with you.

Example: Say you have a looking male in his late 20’s is a virgin and hasn’t had sex at all.

And you have another male that is just as appealing to the eye yet has had sex with a handful of women.

Which guy would you rather take to bed? I’m not generalizing here but most women would pick the non virgin cause it suits his image

dovido · Answer

It's not weird. It's you. Being "weird" is being not normal. So is being *special*

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