Has your gynecologist ever hit on you?

Went to see this new doctor, and I may be wrong but what happen was:
He is a bit too touchy, asks a lot of questions about my life that aren't related to the matter.
Said he noticed I was shy when he compliments me and I should get used to it cause I am an attractive and wonderful lady.
Asks if I have a boyfriend though I told him I didn't have intercourse.
And insists that intercourse is a wonderful thing to experiment when there is love and mutual respect.
Finally for the boob examination, he was like may I with this cheeky stare.
And he decided to touch my knee (not in a medical way) when I told him my knees used to hurt because of stress and he said what stress you are very lean.
I might be looking too much into it but that was my impression and the meeting was awkward 🤣
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Most Helpful Guys

  • He's a doctor he's in a position of power over his patients so this smacks strongly of a predator. My guess is you're not the only one getting this treatment. Something is wrong here. You should get recordings of this clown or just report him to the medical board. I think if you can get audio of video it will be better but you'll have to expose yourself to this creepy behavior. It might even be a matter for the police if he's putting his hands on you the whole thing seems very off. There have been doctors in the past who have done some very bad things to women that acted like this.

  • I dunno, that all sounded pretty normal to me up until the compliments and telling you you should have sex. Kinda seems like a conversation you have after more than just one visit.

    But he just might genuinely be one of those emphatic types who care. They say everyone's on the "autism scale" So maybe he doesn't realize how he's coming across.

    I mean, when your job is to constantly look at and examine naked women all day every day, that's gonna affect anybody right?

    Maybe he'll calm down once he gets to know you more.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Ewww. It's not waaay over the line, but I do think it is over it. Doctors have to be extremely careful about professional conduct, and especially one that is a gynecologist. I would move on (and preferably let them know this is why, he made you uncomfotable, so that he changes his behaviour and doesn't think this is ok to do to patients.) Finding doctors sux, but you don't want to get scarred by this experience and then dread it even more.

  • This doctor crossed the line in so many ways. Also was there a female nurse in the room while he was examining you? There is supposed to be. This is exactly why I have a female gynecologist. I love my gynecologist. She is awesome.

    • Noo😅

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  • Get a new gynecologist.

  • be blunt and ask him if he is flirting with you?

    and if he is, are you interested?

    if not, tell him NO

    • Hell no. Don't confront him. Report him if you want, but find another physician.

  • I find it hard to believe a doctor would stray so far in so many ways without receiving signals that it is okay. And I know you would not send those signals. Either you misjudged a lot, or he was way out of line and had some kind of feeling that he was immune to being held accountable. Either way, switch gynos to a different one.

    • He is a friend if the family for one. And from what i heard he is into BDSM and showed a friend of my mum a bag full of gadgets. I don't know why they decided sending me to him🤣

    • And yes I might have misjudged him yoo who knows🤷🏿‍♀️

    • Ow and I of course didn't send any signals😅

  • I don't know maybe sounds like he was just being friendly I would say you would have learned more by his touch if he was coming on to you. It would be hard for me to do thst if I was a girl. But ur beautiful and smart u Wil make the best judgement

  • No SHE has never hit on me. As for you, I'd probably search for a new gyno.

  • I have my relative aunty as my gyne.. so never faced such issue

  • How tf do you have a MALE gynecologist. Wtf

  • I've only been to female gynecologists so nah but yours is definitely acting in a shady way, it's not uncommon for male gynecologists to act out of line

  • Well, it’s hard to say sometimes. Only you know the signs and vibes he was giving off towards you. At the end of this encounter, how did you personally feel? Turned on? Disgusted? Creeped out? Scared? Awkward? A combination of a few of these?

    • I am in a relationship with a girl so not turned on. I felt awkward and uneasy.

  • Eww, that sounds a bit too friendly for that kind of exam. I would request someone else next time if I were you.

    • He also caressed my hand when I shook hands with him😅

    • Yeah, that's kinda weird. Maybe it was his strange way of trying to put you at ease but he was being too familiar and it was inappropriate in my opinion. Next time choose someone else. Or I'll do it for you. Umm... I MEAN... NOTHING 😐😗🎶

    • Hahahhahahahhaa

  • Yeah 2 of them actually

  • That's so unprofessional you could sue him but you would probably get a lot MORE MONEY if you recorded it and got him to do it again my thoughts is it's creepy if someone has a thing for you because your his PATIENT he or even she should be flirting OUTSIDE the work place

  • Extremely unprofessional and unethical, report him to health care authorities.

    • exactly

  • Well over the line. See a different doctor.

  • That sounds creepy. I don't think there's anything wrong about doctors examining and treating patients of the opposite sex, even when it involves genitalia. I've been examined by a woman doctor before "down there" but she was very professional. In that situation it's especially important for the doctor to maintain the highest standards of professionalism in order to protect the dignity of his patient and make him or her as comfortable as possible.

  • Yes doctors are humans too, of course he does and probably did, probably jerks off to his mental images of his patients 100%...
    Im kinda surprised you wouldn't go with a female doctor...

  • I have a woman gynecologist! He’s crossed the line!

  • He wasn’t hitting on you just creepy

  • Nope, change doctors that's awkward and you should go through this

  • Not right, it's unethical

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