Why does he need to pound pretty hard in order to cum?

[Anonymous]

We're a young couple, so I dont think there's anything wrong with him. But it makes me feel like my pussy is a bit big on the inside, because when we fuck, we start out gentle and loving. But before he finishes, he has to go really hard and pound me. Dont get me wrong, i do like rough sex. But I feel like my boyfriend goes harder and faster because he can't cum while going slower in me and it makes me feel like maybe my pussy isn't providing enough stimulation. Could this be why he goes so hard and fast during sex? Because we start out slow. If I could make him cum while he's being gentle, he wouldn't have to be so rough, right?

[MORPHEUS_12]

You make it sounds as if you have a 3 bedroom apartment in your vagina. Your vagina is fine and there is no such thing as having a loose vagina in a woman as young as you are who have never had kids. It drives me absolutely crazy when I see questions like that. The problem is 100% him. He likely has started out masturbating with so ferocity that its the only way he knows how to ejaculate. He needs to retrain his brain. If not then you need to move on and find a man with more versatility and experience.

[chandrebad]

I agree

[Anonymous]

You’re really overthinking this. I’ve had sex with a lot of guys and it’s pretty common for them to thrust faster and harder at the end. It’s not because there’s anything wrong with you or that they can’t cum from slow sex. Thrusting faster and more aggressively provides more stimulation than going slowly and gently. It’s their way of pushing themselves over the edge. It’s because you feel so good and he can’t, or doesn’t want to, hold back any longer that he does this. Relax, it’s normal.

[Asker]

Is thrusting like this in the last 2 to 5 minutes like that normal?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah pretty much.

[ArnoldClark]

Different guys need different methods to climax. It has nothing to do with the size of you.

Can't believe the other comment. Bloody dipstick.

[Asker]

If I can fit 2 to 3 fingers inside me, is that a bit on the bigger side?

[ArnoldClark]

Nope. Not at all. One thing that might have an effect, do you get very wet? Over lubrication can reduce friction a little.

[Asker]

Yeah, I get pretty wet. But not too wet. So you don't think this has anything to do with me?

[genesh]

All the guys needs to be faster at the last 15 secs before cuming so it's normal

[ArnoldClark]

All sounds normal. Personally I'd say it's just him. I'd suggest you say something though. If it carries on you'll be forever concious of it and it'll stop you enjoying sex.

[Asker]

@genesh yeah, but he gets faster during the last 2 to 3 minutes..

[genesh]

Lol check if he take pills

[EmmaMary]

The first thought that comes to mind is have you actually talked to him about this, and if so what has been his reply.

[Asker]

He doesn't like it talk to me about sex because he says I'm too insecure about it. I asked him if he had to go that rough in order to cum, and he said no. But he continues to do it which makes me think maybe my vagina just isn't stimulating him enough to cum without him going hard and fast.

[EmmaMary]

In that case you need to ask him to go slower, because at times you don't like being pounded. He needs to remember having sex is not purely for his own pleasure. In having said that, I do hope and trust that you experience deep and pleasurable orgasms.

[Asker]

I dont have a problem with rough sex. It feels good, but I'm worried that my vagina isn't stimulating him enough if he goes hard like that.

[EmmaMary]

Then ask him, tell him you're having insecurities and concerns regarding your vagina. Just be completely open, honest and upfront with him. Communication is first and foremost in any relationship.

[slurreyboy]

Maybe you all loosy goosy in the vagina area.

[imaguy72]

Is your pussy big?

[Asker]

I don't know. That's what I'm wondering.. could this be why he has to be so rough?

[imaguy72]

Guys tend to do that when they cum

[Asker]

Yeah, but he has to be rough within the last 2 to 5 minutes before he cums

[imaguy72]

Working up to it. Shows he's really into it!!

[Asker]

Okay. So it doesn't have anything to do with my vagina?

[imaguy72]

Nah.. I would not worry too much about that

[imaguy72]

Of course id have to see it... Lol

[Maturewife66]

Pounding is good. I got a good pounding last night.

[Anonymous]

Probably needs more stimulation, I bet he had to hit you up first.

[Anonymous]

Probably cuz he Pastor who've it's hard and fast so that's what he's used to do to get off

[Anonymous]

My husband and I opened up our marriage about a year ago. At first I wasn't sure if that was a good idea, but I'm starting to get into the swing of things. If I want soft and gentle sex, then my husband is the best of the best. But when I've had a really bad day at work and I don't want to even talk about it, I call up one of my married guys. My favorite is an older black gentlemen. He hardly speaks at all, and I like that about him. He just undresses me, throws me on the bed, and fucks the living shit out of my tiny little pussy. Oh, man, I just love that sometimes. My husband totally gets that I need that from time to time, and that's why I love him so much.

[Romeo0071234]

Damn.. let's chat