Get shitfaced before sex. I am not kidding. Your senses will be altered and you may more likely have fun with him in you. At the same time, you will be less inhibited and may blurt out something that will induce some drama.
0 0 0 0Only problem is, he doesn’t drink. And doesn’t like when I do because of the smell. So, that’s a no go.
Weed? Look, you have a choice: 1. Continue as is. A) He's a good guy B) He does oral well So C) You are lacking only in the intercourse department. Ask yourself about marriage vows... "In sickness and in health". What would you do if he got ED or his penis amputated? Would you get a divorce? You need to do some introspection about the value to you of intercourse. I want to be clear though: If intercourse is vital to you, that does not make you shallow. 2. Continue as is, but get your needs met privately with a dildo or vibrator or, if he's open to it, another man. 3. Move on.
See if you can find or 'borrow" a Cialis or Viagra pill. I am not saying he has erection problems, but, with an ED pill, his dick will remain good to go after he squirts so he can keep going and maybe meet your needs. You two should also consider different positions or techniques.
You need to talk to him about it and get him to let you tactfully and diplomatically coach him. Would he rather you be miserable and ultimately leave him or learn how to please you?
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Is there not a position where you can take controll and try and hit the places you really like? I love being on top and some times my partner doesn't barely at all and i ride it so it hits exactly where i want it to.
0 0 0 0What if he manually/orally stimulates your clit during intercourse?
How about researching and trying different sexual positions? Maybe you could be on top (cowgirl)?0 0 0 0
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1 5If you run because you encounter a problem in a relationship, you will always be running.
0 1 0 0I wish he would let me have a second boyfriend hahaha
You are not prepared for a long term, committed relationship. Do him a favor and break up.
I’m sure that would do ME the favor lmao. 😂
Is it just as blah if you are in charge of a ride for example?
0 0 0 0No matter what position it does not feel good, I guess because he penis is on the short side plus he just is not great at sex.
So what's the specific issue? Doesn't last long, not big enough, not rough enough etc?
It depends on the issue.0 0 0 0He has a smaller size and does not know how to use it. When we have sex, it does nothing for me.
Really small, or just smaller? Guys aren't magically taught "how to use it" either, you need to COMMUNICATE and talk to him. It can be during sex or outside of sex, can be simple words or an actual conversation. You need to do something to help, he might not even know you aren't enjoying it.
Oh gosh. I think you missed the part where i states he’s EXTREMELY hypersensitive! Bringing it up is pretty much out of the question. If I bring it up I might as well be prepared to break up because it will NOT go well.
Ask him to use a strap on to do double penetration. Then tell him to just use the dildo only lol.
0 0 0 0He would be highly offended if I asked him to do that lol.
Maybe buy some butt plugs and see if that spices things up.
Whats wrong with his penetration
0 0 0 0His penis is a bit short so it doesn’t hit my gspot
Damn girl time to dump em you said he doesn't make you wet penetration seems important to you
Having intercourse in the missonary position isn't going to hit ur g spot. Just have him use his fingers to get 2 ur g spot
It's worse for ur relationship not to tell him. Once ur wet during sex have him rub ur clit and tell him u like it when he does that. If ur super shy about breaking the bad news to him, try just telling him what u like during sex.
0 0 0 0He doesn’t get me wet. Smh.
Have him give u an erotic message
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