Does my girlfriend owe me sex if I am nice to her and do things with her and for her?

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okay the other night I watched the notebook with my girlfriend and afterwards she didn’t have sex with me. I mean if a guy watches a chick flick with his girlfriend or wife then she owes him sex. Plain and simple. I mean If I am nice to her and do things for her and with her then she owes me sex. I mean that’s the only reason men put up and listen to women is because of sex. I mean she is my girlfriend and she is supposed to always make sure to keep my stomach full and my balls empty. I am really mad at her because she still owes me sex. So what do you all think about this

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sounds to me like you need to put her on a clock. You need to first communicate that you feel like you're meeting her needs but she isn't meeting yours. If you come to an understanding and you get some loving then problem solved. But if not then first you need to stop meeting her needs. Secondly you need to start getting friendly with other women. I don't mean cheat. But you need to make it very clear she is replaceable. Don't say it, Just show it. At this point she either going to want to discuss it in which you make it clear that clearly she doesn't love you. At rhis point she's either going to see how neglectful she's been and comply. Or she's going to go the other direction with it. At that point you cut your losses and break up. You were being reasonable. She wasn't.

PrudentGuy · Accepted Answer

"Owe" is a debt. Its business and in usual situation, the lender usually sues the borrower who fails to pay back. When legality is involved, the business relationship fails.

Hence if you think you deserve sex because of what you gave her, then its business and if she chose to ignore you, you may "sue" and I'm sure the relationship will end.

But if it's not business but based on love, then it means you nice to her because you love her and she choose to have sex because she loves you in return, then it's not business but affection. Such a relationship will last.

You choose.

yucychan · Accepted Answer

I think you are a piece of shit. Since you treat women that badly, you don't deserve anything, let along sex. I hope your girlfriend leaves you immediately and look for another guy that is way better than you.
And also, the reason why your girlfriend didn't have sex with you is because you are so bad at sex and you have a useless dick. I think she having sex with another woman is way more satisfying than you.

ciitruskiwi · Accepted Answer

Wow you have a lot of growing up to do. No one owes anything to anyone. Do her a favor and break up with her. Say to her "babe I'm a piece of shit who thinks you own me sex whenever wherever and I'm breaking up with you so you can find a better man who actually deserves you and appreciates you for more than just sex".

AustinMan · Answer

You need a severe attitude adjustment. Women NEVER owe us sex.

Justacatlady · Answer

Hahaha nice try. No one OWES anyone something because they did something nice.

N192K001 · Answer

lol In a significant number of jurisdictions, 'marital rape' exists as an actual, legitimate charge. So,  even lawfully, wedded spouses aren't entitled to sex . You're just a boyfriend. What more you?

Wishfire17 · Answer

That is not how this works, by your definition, you are treating her no better than a prostitute. Only difference is, you will give her love instead of money if she sleeps with you.

razelove · Answer

No man, just, no, a hooker owes you sex for cash or services rendered.

Maybe I should make it simple for you. You're being a fucking child. I really hope this post is a joke, because you are in for a rude awakening if you have to find another woman with that attitude.

If you get married in a religious ceremony she owes you sex because they're all about offspring like grains of sand.

I'm spacing these because you seem simple. Real goddamned simple. I'd smack you before talking to you to make sure you weren't playing fucking call of duty.

PondyPand · Answer

She owes you nothing. Well done for being the typical reddit nice guy. But nice guys don't have girlfriends so nice attempt at trolling, go back to your little hole.

Bluebell17 · Answer

She owes u fuck all she's not ur fucking sexy toy or a object Sorry but this shit fucks me off

byowell · Answer

You literally only made this question to try to start shit. Grow up and find something better to pass your time. I'd suggest fucking yourself since apparently your girlfriend doesn't want to. If she's even real you don't deserve her anyways

Astarlessnightsky · Answer

Honestly, NO! If you are just "keeping up" with women, than you better off staying single and paying a prostitute from time to time.

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

Lolz troll

SydneySentinel · Answer

Wow. No.

Hannah_98 · Answer

Yikes

ecfresh · Answer

Hope ur trollin

WhiteShoulder · Answer

Nooooooo lmao

slatyb · Answer

I think you should end this relationship.. If seems that your girlfriend thinks sex is something she gives you as a reward and you've accepted that. That isn't love, that's business. I would never be with someone who wanted to trade sex for other services. If a woman doesn't enjoy sex with me why would I want to be with her? My wife is almost always willing and she's happy when it happens.