So my wifes been caught cheating?

[Tylerof98]

So me and my wife have been together for 6 years going on 7, and i've never doubted us before. Like never. But since being married this past feburary she went on a work trip[we worked for the same company at the time] and slept with my boss, andafter that had a jerk session with my best friend thats like my brother.. while i was asleep after a party.. i dont know what to do. I love her amd i can't make myself to leave. She's the only person i've ever been with. Help?

[MackToday]

She sounds like a sociopath, any supposed love for you is either fake or not to any meaningful degree. Life is tough you have to be able to rescue yourself when your hanging by your fingertips off a cliff. It's a matter of how strong you are and can you man up and get away from this sorry excuse for a human being or will you stay and let her manipulate you for some false feeling of love or perverted diseased version of it. Something is wrong with her mind to do this, if she can do this she's capable of a lot of other things too, really bad things.

[AustinMan]

I very strongly suggest you find a good couple's therapist and work this out. Get to the bottom of wha'ts missing in your marriage and how to fix it.

[Tylerof98]

Thanks man, I'm trying

[AustinMan]

Is she resistant to couple's therapy?

[Tylerof98]

Mildly

[AustinMan]

Tell her that you're the wronged party and so you get to decide the next step and it's couple's therapy, period. Who's the dominant one sexually?

[Tylerof98]

That would be me

[AustinMan]

So take her over your knee and give her the hot, bare bottom spanking she deserves and probably needs, truth be told. Scold he and order her to therapy. Is that a possibility? I've found that women often do what she did to wake their man up and get him to take charge.

[Tylerof98]

Uhhhh, i see that going very badly😂😂

[AustinMan]

Oh well. Just an idea. While you get this sorted out with a therapist, you might address the issue of discipline.

[Tylerof98]

Ik what cha sayin bro

[Avicenna]

Dump her sorry ass now. She totally doesn't care about you or your marriage.

[Dargil]

Been together since you were 15. That's forever.
Sorry to say this, but she obviously has no moral foundation. And worse, she was so indiscreet you found out. You may love her bit she clearly does not love you. It is best to get out. She will lie to keep you but she will not change. This situation will not improve and if you have children, it becomes much more complicated. GFO Now!

[munichguy]

Confront her and try to forgive if you really love her

[irwinr89]

You are not alone sir, same thing happened to me, take time to yourself if u can get really past this, don't fool yourself into trying if u feel deep down you can't ever live peacefully with it.
And if u decide to try she has to be totally remorseful and make you her first priority and she needs get into counseling to figure out why she did this.
If u have no kids I strongly recommend cut your loses and divorce, you deserve better...

[Tylerof98]

We actually got pregnant not to long back and everything was going great, but 5 months in we had a miscarriage. Before that all was well. I have to wonder if that could be part of the reason she's doing this again

[abc--123]

Sounds like you either need to break up or fuck other girls

[Tylerof98]

Iwhy fuck other girls? Whats thst help?

[munichguy]

It does not

[CubaPirate]

First thing you need to ask is are you both still in love

[Tylerof98]

She says we are

[CubaPirate]

Well talk things over if you feel forgiveness in your heart

[Billneidrich77]

Leave her butt

[Anonymous]

Better to leave her

[Anonymous]

How did you get the information on your wife?

[CubaPirate]

Good point

[Tylerof98]

She walked in the house with a half dollar sized hickey and laugh and said "so i made a whoopsies "

[Opinion Owner]

Was she high or drunk? No excuse by the way. Ah I read your wife had a miscarriage. Some people can really come unglued after such things and do things that they normally wouldn't do the woman or their partner. I"d highly suggest you try to get her to the doctor and a therapist. She might be self numbing through sex or risky behavior or the miscarriage set off a pre existing mental health issue. Try to get her into treatment if this isn't her normal behavior. If she won't go then you will have to make some hard decisions. If the behavior has nothing to do with the miscarriage just irresponsibility then the decision will be easier.

[Tylerof98]

The main behavior mas before the miscarriage sadly, the incident with my friend it what happened afterwards

[Opinion Owner]

Not sure if the marriage is going to work. If you are 21 she just might not have understood she wasn't ready for marriage. Or maybe she just isn't a monogamous person.