What’s your body count? And how old are you?

[Isabella1100]

I am 19 and I have had sex with 9 people

[abc3643]

You are pushing the slut limit...
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This is my slut/manwhore equation regarding "body count" - a very obnoxious and revolting phrase but, considering that the people who use it are typically manwhores and sluts anyway, what should I expect?

I use a formula for both males and females:
Let Y = cumulative number of distinct sexual intercourse partners
(that is, the "body count")
Let X = age-appropriate maximum number of distinct sexual intercourse partners

X = ROUND_UP [ 1.5 * (AGE - 15) ]
So:
Age = 15, X = 0.
Age = 16, X = 2.
Age = 17, X = 3.
Age = 18, X = 5.
Age = 19, X = 6.
Age = 20, X = 8.
Age = 21, X = 9.
Age = 22, X = 11.

If Y > MINIMUM (X, 10), then "Slut/Manwhore" else "Age appropriate".

Basically, what this is saying is:
1. "Don't fuck until you are at least 16."
2. "Only fuck in committed relationships; up to 3 committed relationships per every 2 years."
3. "If you need more than 10 committed relationships by the time you are 22, then something is wrong with you or you're a slut/manwhore who is fucking too often just for fun."

More than 10 guys is really too much.

Most guys would be rather uncomfortable competing against such a lengthy history because the probability of his being the best you ever had (or having the biggest dick you've ever had) seriously goes down. He wants to be memorable and important to you and "not just another lay".

Nor does he want a pussy with "a lot of miles on it" because, frankly, they are considerably looser so the experience isn't as good for him (although it is still mighty fine!).

So, bottom line; more than 10 guys is too much for the majority of men.

For the record, my Y ("body count") is 5 and it wasn't 2 until I was almost 26!

Body 1: 21 y 09 m
Body 2: 25 y 11 m
Body 3: 26 y 02 m
Body 4: 32 y 10 m
Body 5: 36 y 10 m

[OlderAndWiser]

Are you bragging, daring us to express an opinion, or apologizing/regretting/lamenting?

Is Your Partner’s “Number” Relevant?

[Isabella1100]

No I was just wondering. Seeing if there is any type of average. And my partners number isn’t relevant to me in the least but I would still like to know it.

[OlderAndWiser]

I consider your number to be high for your age. As I said in the myTake I linked, I am looking for a long term relationship and, if I was in y our age range, I would not want to think that I would simply be #10 on a list that may eventually be in the triple digits. If you are not looking for a LTR, that may not be important to you at present. However, if you reach a point where you want to find a permanent partner and settle down, you won't be able to undo your past. Yes, you may be able to lie to your partner and not disclose a promiscuous past, but would you want a serious relationship to be founded upon a lie?

[Isabella1100]

Actually I recently entered into a exclusive relationships with one of my partners. His count is 16 and mine is 9. On average of the guys I’ve slept with I’ve actually found I have a lower count. But I’m also in college currently- I’m a first year.

[OlderAndWiser]

So, prior to this relationship, you were very casual with sex and your partners were also very casual so no one was misled or hurt by the encounters strictly being casual. In the future, you may be penalized for your past and you may not even realize it has happened. A guy who knows about your history may be attracted but just never approach you because of your past. Some guys will not judge you for your prior behavior but many will. Good luck with your current relationship!

[alice55]

Wow your body count is super high for your age O-O
I'm 21 and my body count is 0. I'm a virgin XD

I'm really shocked by the high number people have I think when I would start dating I would definitely ask their body count... Having such high boy count isn't attractive to me.

[hsshannah96]

You’re not respecting yourself

I’m 23. I had sex with two guys. The first was forced

[HazelEyedMusician]

Exactly Sorry about the rape

[Isabella1100]

If you were raped you don’t have to add that to your body count love<3 it was not consensual

[hsshannah96]

@KrakenAttackin wow douche

[hsshannah96]

Ok I will take it out

[MORPHEUS_12]

Body count is 1 and I am 45.

[Cynicaldreamer]

34, and two. Both guys I was in a relationship with

[thegirlfromthething]

18 and zero. I think it’s pretty standard.

[sejla]

2 is my number.

[IHateBeingaMan]

and you are almost 60?

[sejla]

@IHateBeingaMan yep. dang it went by fast.

[sejla]

@IHateBeingaMan I know women whose number is 1. They got together young and the woman has only been with 1 person. Same with my mom her number was 1. Another female friend 1. These women all had marriages that have last 20 to 54 years.

[Marilynjuana]

Two men.

[razelove]

Cool, I always ask the same question whenever people ask this, because I honestly don't remember. Why would you keep count anyway? Even the military stopped keeping kill counts. I just have memories of good times, great times, really messed up times, and hold onto those. So, forget 9 people, I remember I picked a girl up one time, absolutely gorgeous, we didn't jive well in conversation, and we went hiking. We got a little bit down the trail and she said she needed a break. I sit down next to her, she looks at me, puts her hand on my leg, I kiss her, she kisses me back, I start exploring, she's touching me, next thing we're both naked in the woods on side of this trail with me pushing her face into the leaves and her saying harder harder. That sticks with me. What's a crazy good memory like that you've had? Numbers mean nothing

[coveredinmaplesyrup]

I'm 22 and I've had sex with 4 people

[Dave-from-Illinois]

50 and still a virgin :P

[Emily_R]

I'm 19 and im at 12.

[Sheyhoney]

Im 19; I have 10 bodies

[HazelEyedMusician]

Go figure

[Sheyhoney]

@HazelEyedMusician what 😯

[HazelEyedMusician]

I'm just sayin'

[VIVANT]

He’s a troll

[summiter]

Before getting engaged I slept around tons... The umber is not important just use a condom every time

[Ephermerallhama]

Zero and I'm 26.

[AN1995]

My body count is 7 And im 24

my girlfriend however is at 31 guys including me. Im #31 she's also 24

[hammo21]

I am at like 5 fml

[WhiteShoulder]

I’m 31 (not 25) and I’ve slept with 12 people.

[WhiteShoulder]

All but two were boyfriends

[KrakenAttackin]

I would never consider marrying a woman who had been with 12 men prior.

[WhiteShoulder]

@KrakenAttackin I wouldn’t marry you either sweetie

[KrakenAttackin]

You don't even know me, but I know all I need to know about you.

[Agape93]

There is no higher law than to do what thou wilt ❤️

[VIVANT]

@KrakenAttackin She knows all she needs to know about you. You’re a hypocrite 🤷‍♀️

[KrakenAttackin]

@VIVANT Not a hypocrite, I think men and women are different. Do you think men and women are the same with different plumbing? Do you want to marry an effeminate man? Do you want to get even more masculine?

[Sarahr123]

I’m 21 and I have only been with my boyfriend since I was 15 so just one and it will always only be one until I die. I’m not a frivolous person I have respect for myself, my soul and my body.

[foxrider77]

Nice, ever 2 at the same time?

[Isabella1100]

Not yet

[foxrider77]

I’m sure you’ll enjoy it.

[kaitylatte]

18 and I've had sex with one

[Agape93]

27 and about 25 people

[Physics-Man]

Lucky... I can't even get 1.

[Agape93]

You will one day :)

[Dargil]

How old your first?

[Isabella1100]

I had sex for the first time when I was 18

[Dargil]

So approximately one every six weeks. Is that good for you?

[Isabella1100]

I personally don’t have too much emotional attachment to sex so yeah it’s good for me. But also recently I became exclusive with one of these people so

[Dargil]

Good to put the brakes on your field research and keep your resume to yourself.

[HazelEyedMusician]

I guarantee you, the way you're going hun, it won't last

[Dargil]

@HazelEyedMusician Unlike Meth, the damage is invisible and not really detected until its too late. But sooner or later, they discover that have no heart left. High mileage women become hollow.

[Dargil]

"I personally don’t have too much emotional attachment to sex " sounds like "sooner".