Why would a man like to watch a girl lose her virginity on porn?

[Anonymous]

I had found some of my ex's porn videos , ok it's a choice a lot of people make to watch it. Just like it's a choice for a lot of beautiful women to do it. What makes me wonder is that the girls on some of the videos looked like they were 12 , I SWEAR. N the titles were First timers, popped cherries etc. Why would a normal man like to watch this when there's so many beautiful of age women in porn. Yes , everyone has there preferences but , what type would this fall under, PLEASE LET'S BE ADULTS HERE AND REMEMBER THIS SITE IS FOR QUESTIONS , SO PLEASE REFRAIN FROM SARCASM N ASSUMPTIONS, N STICK TO THE TOPIC, WE DON'T KNOW EACH, I am just wondering because the girls look 12, n it's a bit unsettling, because he is now trying to reconcile and this was since then a red flag for me. I appreciate your responses.

[ecfresh]

You are not really asking about his choice to watch deflowering porn, you want to know if your ex is a pedophile. Am I right?

I can tell you from past experience I also have watched some videos in this genre and for me the motivation as it has been for most of my porn searches has been seeing women in pleasure. Because I feel pleasure in sex, I enjoy watching women feel pleasure also and it was logical that if they felt pleasure they would give me pleasure.. this was a+b=c.

Now while these women appear to be young they must be at least 18 because otherwise the porn companies releasing the video could be held liable. They also are mostly fake as I discovered because they use cuts and camera angles at the moment the hymen is ‘breaking’ to show blood and all. Still it seemed like the actress felt next to no pain and felt pleasure.

So again is your ex a pedophile? No one can know based simply on his porn preference. I would guess he didn’t exclusively watch this category but also other porn? I know even these days I usually enjoy ‘porn for women’ that’s well lit and shows the woman having multiple orgasms, being eaten out, and often including lots of foreplay that the hardcore amateur porn bypasses. I am not a pedophile and would fight any person who tried to abuse someone in that manner irl.

If I missed the intention of your question my bad, just trying to answer honestly as I do with most GaG questions and I know this can be a sensitive topic for so many. In fact thankfully I was never a victim but a great uncle of mine was actually a pedophile and he sexually abused several family members many years ago so I don’t see any humor in the topic.

[Asker]

To all replies, who mentioned it being "legal" or illegal. I don't know which ones and don't have the time to read through responses so I am replying to all. hadn't had time to do so till now. Sex trafficking is a horrible but big thing in the porn industry is it not. So how can anyone talk about these girls for sure being 18 or it would be "illegal" when so many of those girls are being forced to be in it all in the first place. N please spare me because there's no way to really know. But let's not try to act like if this industry cares about being "legal".

[Bad_Man55]

Sounds like he has a fetish for the young and deflowering.. by no means is it mainstream type of porn in my opinion but there must be plenty that enjoy it since there are videos and sites to find it. I dont see the appeal but I guess some do, it's a matter of how you percieved it and it made you feel I suppose

[Asker]

To all replies, who mentioned it being "legal" or illegal. I don't know which ones and don't have the time to read through responses so I am replying to all. hadn't had time to do so till now. Sex trafficking is a horrible but big thing in the porn industry is it not. So how can anyone talk about these girls for sure being 18 or it would be "illegal" when so many of those girls are being forced to be in it all in the first place. N please spare me because there's no way to really know. But let's not try to act like if this industry cares about being "legal"

[ecfresh]

How come you don’t have the time to read the responses and give feedback? If your life is that busy, why even use GaG?

[Anomander]

Everything is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.

For some men, it is the holy grail of sex. Because it can be done only once, and it makes them feel powerful. Nobody who comes after can say they were her first.

[Asker]

What? How does that answer the question, about why a man would like to watch little girls, who are not even fully developed. I do appreciate your response but it doesn't answer the question.

[Anomander]

Hmm, I see i wasn't clear there. The initial question was about why someone likes to watch a girl lose her virginity. I think it is because they want to see this moment of someone being "pure" to be defiled. It makes the one doing it feel powerful, and so does the one watching by proxy. Now, when you talk about watching sex with the very young, which is not always the same thing, I guess it is something similar for a reason. Children are innocent, and sex is everything else. To change a girl from innocence to something else could be a turn on, I guess. Even if it is an adult pretending to be younger, it could be enough stimulance I suppose. It is not something I am in to, and I guess a Google search on this topic would be more helpful. At the end, I doubt anybody who actually enjoys watching it would admit it.

[Asker]

To all replies, who mentioned it being "legal" or illegal. I don't know which ones and don't have the time to read through responses so I am replying to all. hadn't had time to do so till now. Sex trafficking is a horrible but big thing in the porn industry is it not. So how can anyone talk about these girls for sure being 18 or it would be "illegal" when so many of those girls are being forced to be in it all in the first place. N please spare me because there's no way to really know. But let's not try to act like if this industry cares about being "legal"

[JackSmy]

If it is 'PORN' I doubt they are really virgins!
Any underage things, in porn is just wrong and ILLEGAL!!

[Asker]

To all replies, who mentioned it being "legal" or illegal. I don't know which ones and don't have the time to read through responses so I am replying to all. hadn't had time to do so till now. Sex trafficking is a horrible but big thing in the porn industry is it not. So how can anyone talk about these girls for sure being 18 or it would be "illegal" when so many of those girls are being forced to be in it all in the first place. N please spare me because there's no way to really know. But let's not try to act like if this industry cares about being "legal"

[Dargil]

I have seen a little of that out of curiosity. My guess is that guys want to see the reaction of a young girl having their first time. And... some want to see the blood.

[Asker]

To all replies, who mentioned it being "legal" or illegal. I don't know which ones and don't have the time to read through responses so I am replying to all. hadn't had time to do so till now. Sex trafficking is a horrible but big thing in the porn industry is it not. So how can anyone talk about these girls for sure being 18 or it would be "illegal" when so many of those girls are being forced to be in it all in the first place. N please spare me because there's no way to really know. But let's not try to act like if this industry cares about being "legal"

[HoratioCaine]

Guys like virgins, yhey get a kick out of deflowerinv oone

[Asker]

Not if they look 12

[HoratioCaine]

They sure likem young

[chriscdi]

maybe he is trying to feed that pedophilia shit

[Asker]

Thank you, because like I said watching porn is one thing, there's a lot of gorgeous women on there I'm sure, but watching little girls that are not even completely developed yet is on another level , to my opinion.

[chriscdi]

im pretty sure pedos look for small petite girls that look like children to stroke it too, sick mfs

[Asker]

Thank you , you seem to be the only one who has the capacity and character of a real mature Man. I appreciate it

[chriscdi]

yep like a wise old man stuck in a teenagers body, get that a lot, when i was in school there was minors lying about age on porn sites all the time and they used to do porn, im hoping there's better security for that when signing up now or that might have actually been child pornography you saw there, it just seems like they found a loop around that with that title too.

[Asker]

Yup, because there's no way the girls on there were 18, I am a woman and I should know, n with so much of the sex trafficking you can never be sure these girls really want to be there. But most live by double standards, anyone can watch porn but if someone disrespects their daughter, sister, girlfriend, wife , mother etc, or they can't picture them on there but it's all good when it's someone else's child. Grown beautiful women choose that industry , I think it's totally different when you're watching young girls that don't even have a fully developed body , but thank you so much again. Having the balls to think the right way, n not just go by what everyone else is saying shows a lot of character, you're a mature Man. Thank you

[chriscdi]

i was taught to say the truth and i grew up telling the truth even if it was something i had to take responsibility for, i was also taught not to run away from my consequences and to instead face them so ig iron balls in just in my blood and runs in my family, but thanks for the compliments lol 😁👍

[Asker]

You're welcome, would love to meet someone with the same mature man mentality. 🙏 You gave me hope 😉

[chriscdi]

i hope you find that person 😁👍

[chriscdi]

and thank you ☺

[Cloudsofnevermore]

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