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I got drunk with my bfs daughter and she told me stuff about her sex life (she's 15 ) should I tell my boyfriend about them?

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  • You’re in a tough position on this. I wouldn’t tell her dad unless you think she’s out of control and needs intervention. You don’t want to betray her confidence but you have to balance that with what’s best for her. This is a judgement call you’ll have to make. I would encourage her to be open and honest and consider telling her dad (or mom) she’s sexually active, so the parents can make decisions on birth control and how to parent her through this.

    • Okay ill continue being there for her

  • Me personally, I would not say anything she said to you in confidence as far as her experiences. If you break that, she may not trust discussing these matters with you.
    But, I would probably ask my boyfriend if him or the daughter's mom ever had the"sex talk" with his daughter and tell him if not, maybe it's time to do so.

    • Okay this morning when she woke up she ran up to me and hugged me.

    • It's nice you are bonding with her. If you are developing a closeness maybe you should try telling her you feel her father needs to know she's being sexually active. But more as suggestion "I feel" than a demand "You need to" .

    • Because her parents should know so they can make sure she's protecting herself. Especially at 15.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • A couple of things here...
    Getting drunk with a 15 yo is kind of bad.
    Second, she probably told you in confidence... like she trusts you. So don't break that trust or you will be hated every time you come to the house.
    Best thing you can do is to advise her what is the better thing to do for her life. Like be smart about what she does, and don't drink with minors!

    • Thanks for the MHO... I hope it all worked out for you.

  • It seems she's testing you to see how the two of you will get along in the future. Will you be Cinderella's evil stepmother or the big sister she can go to for help.
    It's your choice either way, if you care about your relationship with the kid then keep her secret.
    If you care more about being a parent to her then tell your boyfriend.

    • I keept her secret. she appreciates that i did.

    • Good for you, but be careful just in case she gets in trouble it's your responsibility now to look out for her it's too late to say "she's not my daughter I don't care" you already chose to care.

    • I do care about her. She super nice and i feel like her parent hurt her more then they help her.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Yeah, this is a hot mess.
    Strange that you are not much older than her.
    You need to tell him. It's his daughter and he needs to know this.
    Next time... no, there is no next time. Don't drink with her again. It's muddying the waters.

  • Absolutely not. She told you in confidence.

  • Of course you should

    • I don't know i think i shouldn't

    • play fortnite

  • Did she drink as well?

    • Yes she did

    • Is that legal where you live? But, you should tell him. I'd want to know if my underage daughter was sleeping around. She's not an adult. And kids tend to make very dumb decisions. If you feel that she's being irresponsible, it would only benefit her to be put back in line. Having a kid while young is no joke. If he's okay with it, then you all should still talk with her about safe ways to have sex. Just to clear up any misconceptions.

    • Nope but everyone drinks underage.

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  • This is a tough one. First of all, you shouldn't have let her drink because she is underage. Secondly, I think you should keep it to yourself and try to offer her personal advice to keep her away from having intercourse at her age. It's for her benefit. If all else fails, then I think you should consult her father

    • Her dad let her. I will help her

  • Awkward...

    • I know

    • I have to agree, not to say anything. You could always offer her advice about her life choices though.

  • No..

  • I'd say keep it to yourself it will only upset your boyfriend and break her trust with you

    • Okay.

  • Nope. And you shouldn’t be broadcasting sex with a minor on here.

    • What?

    • Oh sorry I misread it. Never mind

  • No. You should adopt a mentor role and caution her about what she's doing.

  • No. Respect her privacy, unless she's in imminent danger.

  • No...
    But you need to advise her and encourage her to go talk with her dad.
    She needs to see a gynecologist and get tested.

  • I don't think you should I am sure she told you in confidence and just wants your advice and guidance not betrayal!

    • I wouldn't tell

    • we all need to be able to confident with friends - smiling! I am here

  • You got drunk with a 15yo? You can go to jail for that you know.

    • Why?

    • It's called 'contributing to the delinquency of a minor'. It's against the law. You haven't heard about the parents getting busted for letting their teenagers party with friends in their home? For reals.

    • No i don't watch / listen to the news

  • No, just keep it to yourself

    • Okayy

  • Yes.

  • Only if she is being abused or in a terrible situation. She told you in confidence. If she needs intervention then tel the dad otherwise if things are normal and healthy then it is not dad’d Business unless the daughter wants to share

  • Depends on the answer to this question: Are you an idiot?

    • No why.

    • It was a rhetorical question.

  • No. She trusted you. If she's putting herself in danger or at risk, you should counsel her and help correct it. If she's not, you keep the channels open and keep an eye on her, but you maintain her trust by keeping your mouth shut. If your boyfriend is clueless that she's sexually active, find a way to open his eyes without betraying her confidence in you.

    • Okay I'll try my best.

    • Learn how to keep a secret, especially if there's no benefit to letting it out, and because someone trusted you.

  • No she trusted u

    • Okay. thank u

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