Boyfriend wants to make a porn with me?

My boyfriend asked me if i wanted to have sex on camara, he said he just for him to wack off to when im not around. It dose sound kinda hot but im worried he may be trying to black mail me. I model for extra money and i wonder if he's trying to do something bad or sell it? What do you think his reason could be?
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  • Stupid... no way.
    I don't know but if you look at the relationship statistics, this isn't gonna last... statistically. So what does he do with it after.
    If you decided to do this, then I would get a written contract signed on what that can be used for else penalties. Have a lawyer review. And why not have him pay you for it? ... lol

    That's your income and career, I woudl not. Have you seen Melania... do you recall the Mrs. America that lost her title due to a photo? You don't always know where you will be in the future and it's a bad call, I wouldn't.

  • This is a big thing for guys they like to go back and fantasize about the sex. However, there are a lot of people who are uploaded to porn sites without their consent. So make sure you know the risks and act accordingly.
    If you aren't comfortable enough to do it don't.
    If you have doubts about trusting him don't do it.
    If he pressured you don't do it.
    If it's not okay with him leave him.
    If he doesn't pressure you and respects your decision maybe do it down the line if you feel more comfortable.

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  • If you haven't had years of experience trusting him, don't do it. The only reason why I agreed to let my boyfriend film me/us is because I've known him for years and he's never leaked out any of our sexting contents and/or private pics of me throughout the years. Now that he's my husband, he can film me even more than he ever did.

  • I am quite distrustful of people in general, so I would definitely not agree to do it.

    If you decide to do it, try conceal your identity like not show your face or wear a mask or something.

    Just remember, it's too easy to get blackmailed. It's too easy for him to get something else out of it.

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  • Only do it if you're ok with it ending up on the internet.
    Not saying it would, but very well could.

  • Well, he might be whacking off to it, but be sure. If you feel sketchy about it, don't do it. Also you can record with a PGP encrypted memory card that only you have the password to for file permissions so it can't be copied. Tough to blackmail someone with one copy of something that can't be cracked before the heat death of the universe with current technology. Just throwing that out there. I get paranoid myself.

  • If you are already having such suspicions, then don't do it.
    Only you would know if your boyfriend is being an ass, requesting to make a porn and then sell it.
    My advice don't.

  • Here we go with another of your "What does it mean" questions. You need a new writer or something.

  • You revealed a possible reason why I would not do it. I personally wouldn't. If you two break up, he could use it against you. I've seen recent media stories about female teachers being fired because their pictures from years back get into the hands of students. I wouldn't do it.

  • Only ever let somebody take topless/naked/porn pictures or videos of you if you are 100% okay with it being plastered all over the internet in six months time.

  • The damage to you if a nude porn video with you being the star got out would be extreme. I have been nude in public often and even been photographed and that does not worry me as nudity is accepted in many places. But pornography would ruidn your reputation. You decide.

  • Lots of guys are into filming their girlfriend for when she's not around. I don't think his intent is to post it or sell it.

    • On the flip side of that token you can just wait to Skype, which will inform you if the call is being recorded.

  • Be careful. It's a big long story. But I ended up making a video with a girl and 4 months later an friend sent me a link of porn site and the video we made was there the girl I made it with. edited it and sold it it's messed up she did that

  • I dk does he seem genuine about it? Is he really pushy?
    I make porn with my boyfriend and it’s super hottt 😍

    • No he's not at all pushy anout it

    • Then I think he’s being fr about it. If you don’t trust he loves you enough that he would blackmail you you shouldn’t do it. Do it when you actually trust him

  • If you're doubting him enough to think this, then don't 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • Never trust anybody to record you sexually lol

  • It does sound hot. But if something should happen between you and him, and you break up; then he will have something very personal of you. If he is an a-hole or something like that, then expect the worst.
    My advice is to say no to something like that, be it pictures, movies, or whatever. Be smart about what you put out there or potentially can put out there.
    Good luck.

  • If you do it, don't show your face.

    • Or any identifying marks

  • That's a risk, so it's a gamble that you can take, worse case people on the internet see you being intiment

  • It all depends if you trust him. I've recieved nudes and I've never shown themto anyone else but some people do. So you just have to decide for yourself :)

  • If you make a video or take a picture, assume it will be posted on internet.

  • Sounds like it would be best to wait for the relationship to develop further. My husband and I do this often but we are also married.

  • don't do it... not worth the risk

  • Yeah don’t do it. It can easily become revenge porn, black mail or sold/shown to his friends or your family.

    • Im worried he. Wants to sell it to a friend. he's got a creepy friend who has asked him creepy questons like what i taste like or if i have any piercings

    • He probably will. So don’t do it. It can ruin you’re life, reputation and even put you at risk of assaults.

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