Were you nervous/embarrassed the first time someone saw you naked? How old were you when it happened?

[ElissaDido]

I just realized that no one except my mom has ever seen me naked and that I'll probably feel very nervous the moment i'll have to undress in front of someone/my future guy. It will probably take some time to get used to it.

My family is Somewhat on the strict side when it comes to clothing/nudity, and the most revealing clothes I was allowed to wear growing up is a dress just a little over the knees.

[ZeussLightningBolt]

Not even a doctor has seen you?
I don't know. I used to walk around naked in front of my friends and family when I was a kid. When you're a kid, you don't really care.

These days yeah, I think I would be a little self conscious, even if I lost weight again, because I have body hair, which a lot of girls don't like. And I'm also not circumcised, which a lot of girls, especially in the US also think is weird.
I have told some of my female friends online and they're like, "What the hell? You're not circumcised?"
One girl told me uncircumcised dicks are gross, and only a desperate girl would fuck my uncircumcised dick.
I watched those nude dating shows, and the girls were always weirded out by uncircumcised men.

I even had one female doctor tell me I have a weird penis, so I ended up googling pics and it turns out it's not weird at all. She's probably just never seen an uncircumcised dick before.

I've gone skinny dipping with other people before, back when I was in better shape. These days I wouldn't do it. I don't mind being naked IF the environment is appropriate for it. Getting caught naked in a place you aren't supposed to be, is so embarrassing.

But the thing that really makes me nervous and uncomfortable about it is getting an erection in front of the people.

I hope that answers your question. I feel a bit weird telling YOU this, but I wanted to give you an honest answer.

[OlderAndWiser]

When you meet a guy who you think is going to be the one, you can ease into it by arranging some date where it will be appropriate for you to wear a bikini, or perhaps shorts and a cutoff top that exposes your midriff. The idea is to show enough skin that a guy gets a fairly good idea what you look like so that when you finally get naked together, you don't need to worry about him being surprised.

Since you have not been naked with a guy, I assume that he will be your first sexual partner. It is not necessary for him to have PIV sex with you the first time that he sees you naked. You can engage in "making out" behaviors, agree to mutual masturbation, oral sex, or anything else that will be satisfying but stops short of PIV sex. There is no need to combine both events into one huge anxiety-provoking event.

[tiajoka]

I've been naked in front of siblings lots, and as I've gotten older I'll still invite my sisters in my room to complete a conversation as I dress myself.
When I was 15 I started dressing really skanky until the end of high school, but to be honest I really didn't think much of it in any terms other than a fashion statement.
I was pretty shy the first time I let a guy see my chest, (I was 16) and then when I let my current boyfriend see all of me I was also shy and nervous with it. I was 17 then.
But now that I've done that, truth be told I'm way too comfortable just walking around the house in nothing but a robe lol. But I do have skin issues so I've never been fond of clothes.

[Amy884]

The earliest I can remember someone seeing me fully naked ( who wasn't my mom) was at a friend's house when I was 16. I had forgotten my swimsuit, and two other girls I was with wanted to use the hot tub. They told me I should just go in naked since it was just us. I knew since they were my close friends it would probably be ok, but i was still pretty shy about being butt ass nude infront of them. Before that they had only seen me in my underwear.
Now, in terms of the first time a GUY has seen me naked was the first time I had sex, which honestly wasn't really the part I was nervous about.

[Dave-from-Illinois]

I was not embarrassed the "first time" someone saw me naked. I came out of my mom's womb and there I was "Big Jim and the Twins" staring at everyone as I was quite proud of it but then the damn doctor smacked my ass (pervert) and I cried. I really was not shy that day.

[ElissaDido]

loll

[ohshee]

Relax u are beautiful with a beautiful body I don't think u sould worry about it or anything else the future guy he needs to be the one that. Lays there with u and make you feel good about every thing that is about to happen or in time will happen if he doesn't then he's a fool. He needs to make it all about you

[WhiteShoulder]

My sister and I saw each other naked growing up, and so did a couple of my really close female friends, so that didn't bother me. I was 13 when a guy saw me sort of naked and 15 when my first real boyfriend saw me naked all the way. I was embarrassed both times.

[JustCary21]

So you never dressed with cousins or any other girls?

[ElissaDido]

with sisters yes, but never fully got naked.

[Citizenkirk]

People have seen me naked all my life, but remembering the first time some females saw me with pubic hair was extremely uncomfortable at first, until it became clear that the only person uncomfortable with them seeing me that way was me. When it became clear privacy wasn't an issue, since I didn't have any, hygiene was where I could take pride in my body. I couldn't prevent females in my life from examining my private areas anytime they decided it was necessary, being complimented on my hygiene, being told I did a good job washing my nuts, dick, butthole, feet, ears, was high praise coming from ladies ranging in age from 8 too 89 years of age. My mom saw me nude, sporting morning wood a couple months ago. I'm 50 now, she 67, and neither of us embarrassed by her seeing me that way. I guess we've outgrown such silly inhibitions and anxieties. I rather enjoy the thought of her seeing what her DNA has produced.

[Agape93]

Nervous and a bit scared

[BrokenMoon]

Most of my female friends and brothers/sisters have seen me almost naked (like bra and panties), all times were embarrassing af. But the last time some one saw me naked was my mom when I was 4. So, I'm sure being completely naked in front of anyone is going to be embarrassing..

[Guardian45]

Don't worry about it. When it happens, you won't care. Your mind will be elsewhere. Trust me.😂

[Crowejerms]

I would lik 2 c u. that

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

My Mother ( late) saw me naked as a teen and i had a boner
i feel embarrassed now cause I'm telling it. LOL

[sixndrama]

Embarrassed for sure, since I was naked in the bath tub and it was one of my brother’s friends who had walked in on me. I was 13. He bragged he saw my boobs.

[Phoenix98]

Yeah I was embarrassed the first time someone saw me naked but to be fair I was like 8 years old at the time to so *shrugs*

Now a days it doesn't bother me really at all, plenty of people have seen me naked and I regularly walk around my house in nothing but boxers a lot of the time, even when there are female friends over.

[ElissaDido]

I guess men are more comfortable with nudity

[Phoenix98]

Well I didn't use to be but, I used to work at a gym as a personal trainer so it was pretty common for me to either be naked from taking a shower there or just being in a towel and coming from the sauna or being in front of people and getting naked or changing from work clothes to working out clothes. So you know you get comfortable with it pretty quick plus it helps that I have a fairy decent and attractive body so I don't mind people seeing it *shrugs* Just comes with maturity and experience I guess.

[FakeName123]

As someone who grew up in eastern Germany - which has some of the most nude beaches worldwide - and regulary being taken to (nude) saunas here, I am naturally used to nudity. The human body is the human body either way.

That being said - I was still nervous the first time, because you put yourself into a vulnerable position with someone you are emotionally invested in.

[NickiB]

Yes i was. I felt like i had to throw up i was so nervous and I was 17.

[XavierSteele]

I was mortified. My two cousins convinced me that they could teach me how to masturbate, and to prove how stupid and young I was they were both girls. After convincing me that the only way anyone anywhere ever does it is if you take off all your clothes. So after they had me there the plan was in motion. I never noticed my one cousin sneak behind me, the rock I was sitting on, and my clothes. The last of which she grabbed and they both took off running through the park with my clothes and I am trying to keep up. I don't remember even try to cover anything as I ran. Eventually they slowed about 10 feet from the main road. Eventually I did get my clothes back but it wasn't before them blackmailing me into letting them "escort" me back the trail a good bit to the water all the while I remember them each holding an arm behind me far enough that my miniature hard on was in view

[datgirl]

No one has ever seen me naked, except of course my parents lol. And yes, i am a little shy

[Guardian45]

Not even your SO?

[datgirl]

@Guardian45 I've never had an SO, otherwise i would've mentioned that, right?

[Guardian45]

Oh. Ok.

[MysteriousDarkness]

When you are born you are naked so that is the first time anyone sees you naked. Outside of that and getting your clothes and dipper changed I would say it was in the locker room in middle school. I was not nervous at all.

[zagor]

I can't remember, but I'm sure it was very young. I do remember sometimes when I was 9 or 10 I'd be in the bathtub and my older sisters would barge in with their friends to do their makeup. Then in high school we had to change for P. E. and shower with a bunch of people. My college dorm had a clothing optional sundeck on the roof so both guys and girls would lay up there nude.

Didn't you have to get naked in front of other girls for sports in school?

[Quidthonian]

Not embarassed. It felt awkward. It was her first time naked in front of the opposite gender too.

[Gedaria]

5or6, my sisters...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Nope. First time was in the bedroom with some chick back in college when I was 23. We both were naked.

[COMMODOREII]

I was 24. And i was a bit nervous.