Does sex create a stronger bond?

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Would sex with someone you've been seeing casually create a stronger bond? even if the 2 of you are looking for nothing serious?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • C. It depends. I know after sex I feel closer to the person, but if there was no emotional intent, that feeling goes away very quickly for me. But I'm not really one that gets attached easily. I like the single life, generally speaking.

  • These guys are weird. From the guys I have spoken to they never fall in love with someone they use for casual sex. It’s just sex for them.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Sex in a committed relationship absolutely increases the bond between people. Sex behind the bar dumpster after 15 beers and 4 Jaegerbombs, not so much.

  • Depends on your feelings towards this girl

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  • Sex involves the couple to bare their bodies. And if they are already in love, becoming vulnerable for each other creates extra intimacy.

    On top of that, the tender caress and kissing during foreplay creates a sense of belonging.

    And the finale of physically joining together that results in mutual orgasms is highly intimate.

    So yes. When done right, sex creates a stronger bond.

  • When you do it right, yes. Do it with mindful intention, breathe with your partner and listen to their body and it will bring you closer every time. Or just bang it out, sometimes that's ok too. Every time is a little different

  • In some way, depending on the Context, Situation and Who you are with.

  • Our female body is made to surrender to men more we surrender more men love it

    • Female body is made to surrender to men? Seriously?

    • I do it to my hubby

    • Yes u can do it to a person u love it deepens Ur Love not just to any men on street lol

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  • yes it does / should and especially when it is going on between a husband and his wife ! Thanks

  • For me it does,, it because its our time alone and i get one on one time and I can shared all of me from the inside out with her every emotion and desire I have I want her to feel it

  • Yes. It can. Especially if there was a bond beyond horniness when you had the sex.

  • I think so but I'm a virgin so I chose the last option

    • you're always posting about sex, im suprised

  • It definitely does. It reinforces an already stable relationship. Like icing on the cake :)

  • I would say that it can but often it does not, or at least not bilaterally. Guys don't tend to bond through sex. Girls are more likely to.

  • For me sex as a one night stand is nothing it makes no bond no feelings nothing.. BUT if it was between 2 who are attracted to each other and have feelings also well in that case it is a huge bond because they will no be having sex in this situation.. they will be making love and it tastes totally different!!!

  • It can, but don't count on it to be the only time. Sex is fairly interchangeable. If there is love or affection in play, then you can bond with sex sometimes

  • All depends

  • It's more than just 2 people getting naked thrusting one another.
    If the both of you take it slow and get to know your partners body, know when to move with the motions, keeping it unique with your own little twerks..
    It's such an amazing thing.
    Sex sex is lame.

  • It's not the sex, it's positive perception when I think about the person.

  • Yep, me and my friend trusted eachother the time we started making out and doing stuff.

  • If there is a bond already, yes! That is why a mature Friends With Benefits can be the best sex of all.

  • I think it definitely does. I've always noticed that girls are more skeptical in the beginning of a relationship, that it's usually me who has to take the lead and push things forward in the early stages. What usually changes that is good sex. Once that happens, usually she will almost seem to feel more involved in the relationship and more solicitous in a way. It's like things even out, and she gets as much into the relationship as I am.

  • It can and usually does at some kind of level. Unless it wasn't any good. Every female I messed with back in the day even though we weren't together together. We had a friendship that went without saying. I was popular.

  • Yes, the physical connection is priceless.

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