Does gay (man on man) penetrative sex hurt?

Does anal sex hurt for men? As a straight woman I tried it once using only my vaginal fluids as lubrication and it didn’t hurt or feel pleasurable.

How is it for gay men? Does it hurt?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I'm glad you asked. I am a gay man who is always a bottom during sex with guys. I simply love getting fucked in the ass, it gives me a feeling of being full and complete unlike anything else… If done right, anal sex does not really hurt, but can be a great source of pleasure for the person receiving it. I wouldn't exchange it with any other act of sex.

    The key to success here is physical and mental preparation. The physical part requires a clean hole and a lot of lubrication where water-based lubricants often work the best. As for cleanliness, I would recommend making sure you have a complete bowel movement and a good shower before getting fucked. As you can guess, food that helps digestion will also work here to your benefit, like fibers, etc.

    The mental part is about relaxing your body and your asshole. Once your hole relaxes, it can stretch beyond your wildest imagination to help take your man's cock into you...

    The position of anal sex is also important, especially for the person taking it. That could depend on gender, but also on personal anatomy. My favorite position getting fucked is the missionary position. Lying on my back with my man on top of me while raising my legs over his shoulders proved to be the most natural position for me where I always draw a lot of pleasure.

    I think, if you find the best position for yourself, you may start enjoying it too. What was the position you were taken by your man?

  • No, not usually. If you do it right, use lots of lube, go slow, and work your way up to size, then it feels great.

Most Helpful Girl

  • As the anonymous poster said before me if it is done right it doesn't hurt but genuinely for men they can orgasm from anal sex as the prostate is basically the male
    g spot

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  • Depends on the couple and what prep they do.

  • I'm not gay, but I would imagine it's like reverse pooping.

  • The guys I was fucking is enjoying, I don't think it hurts that much

  • If done right, they would use lube.