Guys, is it weird that I give my friends blowjobs to help them relax or for fun sometimes?

[Emily_R]

How common is this? Is it really that weird?

[SteveSmith1985]

Well, I would say it's both really weird and common. I'm going to just be straight with you. No guy can ever respect a girl like that. They'll pretend they do... after all... nobody's going to offend you and get cut-off from random blowjobs... but that level of promiscuity is not something any guy could ever take seriously. It cheapens you in the most literal sense possible.

It makes it seem as though you don't place reasonable limits on who gets sexual access to you. Which makes it seem as though you don't have any self-worth. I'm not saying that's the case, but I'm saying that's 100% the way every guy on earth looks at it.

The unfortunate reality of that is, to these guys, you become dehumanized. Not so much a person with hopes, dreams, emotions, or any real substance whatever. Again, I realize that you do indeed have all of these things. It's just... once guys look at you as (honestly not meant offensively) cheap whore, then they no longer have any interest in you, as a person.

The biggest problem is when you decide that you want an actual relationship. That's where you're going to run into a very sad reality... no guy who's worth anything will overlook that you've been the way you're choosing to be. It essentially takes you off the market as someone anyone is willing to invest in emotionally to have an actual relationship.

[SteveSmith1985]

I'm really not trying to be an asshole. And I know you're going to chalk this up to just one guy's opinion... but I really hope you at least give it a little thought. It may not be fair that women can't be as free with their sexuality as a guy might. I can't say I'd have any more respect for a guy acting the way you are either... but i'll admit it's more socially acceptable. But in reality... what I've said applies pretty univerallly to all guys. There are two kinds of girls in the world 1) Regular women and 2) "Sluts" If you choose to decidedly place yourself in the latter category... the reality is... you are signalling to men everywhere that you are an object to be enjoyed and discarded, not a person who's worth anything more than that. The saddest part is how badly guys will pretend they don't see a "slut" as such to her face... just to be able to get off. I urge you to reconsider this. I realize it seems like not a big deal, harmless fun that hurts nobody. But trust me. I'm telling you an undeniable, univeral truth here. If you don't seem to respect yourself (and sucking off your friends casually unarguably sends that signal) no guy will be able to either. Again, no offense. You asked, and this is my honest answer.

[razelove]

It is not weird at all, in fact, I think it's a shame you live in Canada and we can't be closer friends. Everyone should have a friend like you. I give my female and male friends back massages all the time, but for some reason my female friends aren't so much into receiving head as your male friends, their loss I suppose.

It just means you like sucking dick, nothing more or less, and especially of people you're close to so they feel better. If you said you were having unprotected sex the same way... that would be concerning, but hell, again, everyone should have a friend like you.

[AustinMan]

Unusual maybe but not weird. Is that you in the profile pic?

[Emily_R]

It is now :)

[AustinMan]

Your friends are very lucky guys. Are you having sex with them? If not, why not?

[Emily_R]

I'm not. Sex is more for a relationship.

[AustinMan]

I see. I'm really curious about you.

[AustinMan]

A follow, if you please.

[dchapsuli]

what just happened?

[Red_Arrow]

@dchapsuli tw people conversed.

[Sabretooth]

You're engaging in oral sex.

[Lliam]

I think you're a really nice friend to have. :-)

[OlderAndWiser]

It is not "weird," but it is classic slut behavior.

[ohshee]

I want a friend like you but I would have to do the same for you

[Emily_R]

Then it wouldn't work sorry.

[Robofeet]

Definitely unusual, but I think it's a really kind thought.

[ZackBan]

Honestly it seems you've built this reputation for yourself and now your friends are taking advantage. It's no wrong if you enjoy it, but it's clear tha, if it's a regular thing, they're hanging out with you hoping to get some

[GuildLegend435]

hahaha, i guess you'll be pretty busy, huh.

[Truthatanycost]

Good way to catch something, unless you know where those sausages have been 24/7.

[Guardian45]

Excellent point if they are strangers, but I do believe they are special friends.

[Truthatanycost]

@Guardian45 Yes, but even though they are her friends, she still has no idea of his current activities since it is technically none of her business. For example, say he caught something from a one night stand.

[Guardian45]

Well, as a friend, I would imagine he would tell her first.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Its defenetly something out of the ordenairy. I never heard of any other woman doing this. Besides in Pornos

[Emily_R]

Ugh so it is weird :(

[Astarlessnightsky]

Yes, i guess or maybe uncommon fits better.

[bluecircle]

Do men not realise that what she's saying is bs and she's most likely fake... how are you people so dumb and thirsty for fucking real... she posts a pic of some girl in a swimming suit and everyone believes it's her... no wonder it's so easy to catch fish men, most of you are dumb horny morons

[sala12]

+ one

[Games_]

Agreed, I knew this was entire bullshit Even so, what men is gonna agree to getting sucked off right after another guy got sucked off. Best way to get STDS

[bluecircle]

My comment was supposed to say " ... no wonder it's so easy to cat fish men..." lol People make good money cat fishing these morons.