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Should I return the favour?

I have stayed with family friends for like 7 years now after i moved out of dad's house who was divorced long back. The family friends, a couple financially helped me a lot apart from other things and never took anything in return till recently they asked me to join a party they have which is private and official and of the adult nature (nope not sex and all just that its very intimate ) they have never asked me before and even asked me to wear a dress they selected.

Should i return the favour... I dont know how it will turn out as many are elite people !
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  • I would suggest to just give them the nice and friendly appreciation they deserve.
    Do simple things: make time for them when they need a chat or helping hand. Wish them a happy birthday or happy wedding anniversary. If they have kids and you can look after them for a few hours while they go out, do it.
    All these practical and nice things can mean a lot to people :D

    • Should i wear the dress n attend the party?

    • Yeah, I would do it. Make them happy. Maybe just ask if there's something you could do for them :D After all these years living with them, you're probably like a daughter to them.

    • Can u msg?

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  • Well I think 7 years of living with them is enough for them to see you as family and not want to do anything that might hurt you.
    You need to be careful but I see no problem in going to the party, personally I wouldn't turn down a party invitation for any reason, just look out for yourself and don't do anything you don't want to do.

    • Can u message

    • Yeah ok

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  • I don’t know what you mean “family friends”... is that friends of your parents, or who? That would make a huge difference to me,. And how you look, might tell me something too...

  • I don’t fully understand this “party”. It’s hard to respond without a clearer picture of this party. Go ahead and follow me

    • Followed... done

    • U csn message me

    • You must be thinking it’s a big deal to them whether or not you go. Is it just because they bought you this dress? Or is there another reason?

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  • Base on what you're saying it seems that they helped you a lot, you should at least go to that party. However, you should tell them what type of "adult" party that is because its already odd from what you're saying.

    You just have to use common sense, be careful and know what's your limit (I don't know if you drink or not). If you're not comfortable with going to the party then see if you can go with a friend.

    Hope this helps

    • Can u message me

    • would ask more

    • sure

  • 🤷‍♂️ technically you being younger and then in a position of trust and power makes it not the best situation. You’ve likely been groomed and you feel like you owe it to them... I’d say stay away

    • Okay how should i make them understand as it is the first time they asked anything

    • Be honest, say the concept makes you feel a bit uncomfortable. You blend well with your close friends but most likely will feel awkward around theirs

    • The dress is a bit too much but i dont know how i will feel around them as i met a few in dinners and was okay and normal but the interactions were very limited

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  • They asked you to this dinner because they believed you would add to the enjoyment for everyone. This sounds like an event which the host/hostess correctly guard the guest list to prevent drama and ensure a good mix of personality. They invited you because they like and trust you.

    Perhaps take the friends to a nice dinner somewhere, but I would not try to duplicate their private dinner.

    • didn't get you.. can u message

  • Yes you should go to the party and you said there is nothing adult in it

  • As long as you are comfortable with it go for it I bet you look damn good in dress you do in pants

    • The dress is revealing n have never wore anything like it

    • Well I say go as you are tees and pants I know I would give you a second look just like that

  • It isn't a smart move to do so.

  • Yes! Return they favour !

  • Might be fun

    • Msged u

  • You should go to the party and slay that dress, your only young and beautiful once. you never know who you might meet also that can benefit your life

    • Its a very private intimate party and majority are twice my age

    • Oh they want some young peach around I see, you might find a sugar daddy

    • message please

  • If your not comfortable with it you still have every right to say no. Things of this nature never become something you have to return the favor.

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