How can guys complain about not getting a blow job when they refuse to give cunnilingus on a girl?

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This is the height of hypocrisy! What's good for the goose should be good for the gander too! If you give me head I'll give you head. But it doesn't seem that sex is fair. The guys get off, roll over and go to sleep leaving the girl sexually frustrated. Maybe if the girl insisted that he get her off first, and then he will get what he wants it would work out better for BOTH parties, not just one. If he refuses than he has a wet dream that night instead and she rolls over and goes to sleep leaving him to fap. That seems fair, doesn't it? You scratch my back, I'll scratch yours. I just don't see how women can put up with this cauca. I know females have no balls, but sometimes they need to grow some and lay down the law!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Accepted Answer

If i had a girlfriend i would love to open her legs and
see a hairy bush and take my tongue and bury it deep
inside of her vagina as i go slowly and little faster than
slower than faster and i don't mind smell , i don't mind
taste i love for her to hold my head down there as she
moans with extreme pleasure and i don't care if she
moans , screams 🥰🥰😍😍🤣🤣😂😂

Rixon · Accepted Answer

One of the most fascinating things before initiating sex is oral and I ensure that I always make her wet before penetrating her and also most likely give her an orgasm through it or take her close to an orgasm. I feel that this is the general norm nowadays and I don't know if this is that uncommon.

Liskitty · Accepted Answer

Wow, I haven't seen that happen too often. Mostly it's guys who justify it with gender roles, as in it's not worthy of a man's dignity to go down on me, which is super ridiculous obviously.
If you just don't like it because it feels weird, that's fine. We all have dislikes in sex. I don't mind not getting it personally, but it's still nice when a guy is in the right mood.

R_Cakes91 · Accepted Answer

This is like, the majority of my sexual experiences

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

My dear... there is absolutely no reason or justification for a guy to complain.

There is actually a very simple answer to your question. I mean, I can certainly expand on this if you'd like but it comes down to:

No decent guy would ever do that. No decent guy is ever so selfish as to not want his partner to share in the sexual pleasure.

So guy's don't complain about not getting oral sex while not being willing to give it as well.
Only selfish assholes who don't actually care about you or your pleasure could ever do this.

Guys in general might be idiots in many ways. But this particular form of idiosy isn't widespread among guys. It is widespread among a certain TYPE of guy. But those guys are douchbags in a million other ways as well.

If you find yourself in that situation... then to me that's a clear sign that the dude's not worth shit. Find a better one.

purplepoppy · Answer

That pic looks like me as a kid.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

Hell, I don't even like/want blowjobs. I absolutely love going down on my girl, though.

Just let me go down on herher as long as she can take it, and we'll both be happy. Any guy that doesn't enjoy cunnilingus has no idea what he's missing.

hellionthesagereborn · Answer

Well on one hand I do agree, on the other men do so much more for women in a relationship that I can't really feel that bad unless she is actually putting in effort (which to be frank I rarely see).

Red_Arrow · Answer

Guys have a refractory period where sex is pretty much impossible for many after they come. So it makes sense to make sure the woman is satisfied first (unless they can hit at the same time). And considerate guys make a point of doing that. Unfortunately, a lot of guys for some reason prefer not to go down on the woman, even while wanting her to go down on him.
I have always loved going down on the woman and spend a lot of time there. I can't understand guys that do not like that.

ohshee · Answer

No complaints her and I would rather please a girl before she gives me a blow job I like making it all about her because I want to make her cum more than once or twice but I also like taking my time

InfobotsMom · Answer

I neither know nor understand guys like this. Going down is not a chore 🤷‍♂️

Jjpayne · Answer

Sharing is how it should be but some guys don't care... I'm a sharing guy, in fact no blow job unless she really wants to

sawno · Answer

They have no right to, i even extend that to anal. If i get to fuck her anal it would be fair to allow her to fuck me with a strapon. Which is why i don't do anal unless she really wants me to.

LiamSawyer · Answer

No idea, not sure why they wouldn't want to go down on you. I love giving oral, it's a huge turn on.

Stockton · Answer

Your with the wrong guy. I love going down on my girl. It's a rush to be so intimate and give her such pleasure.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

I am more then willing and able to give. a woman oral or just help her rub one out. if she wants or asks me to do so. once you know what your doing / looking for. rather easy to stimulate a woman's clit and/or g-spot.

thing is at least one of my ex's had a bad experience with one of her former encounters. so she was hesitant for a while on anyone else preforming it on her again.

once she saw that if someone with a bit of skill. do it to her in an enjoyable way. she quickly learned to like it a lot.

reptocarl · Answer

They can’t

JacobRoto · Answer

I've talked to a surprising number of girls that really enjoy bjs for themselves. Some don't even like getting eaten out. I personally love going down and would absolutely do it at the first request.

Shiver · Answer

It's pretty stupid. My guess is that most guys don't think they're good at it and are embarrassed to ask for instructions, or they think it doesn't taste good and isn't fun. Either that or they're egotistical idiots who only think about their own pleasure and think women get off on penetration only.

I'm pretty good at it, I really like the taste and I think it's really fun.

dreamstar72 · Answer

I agree with you! Next time a guy ask tell him "You lick the itch between my legs and IF you find the right pleasure spot then I will reciprocate and give your sex pistol a mind blowing experience. So in simple terms you do your job well then I will finish better. If you should disagree well then all I can say is LIFE A BITCH!

Ripper_E · Answer

I am not okay with leaving my partner unsatisfied. It really bothers me and leave me feeling unsatisfied.
Although she would receive more head than she would give because her pleasure matters more to me than mine.
Of course, fake orgasms don't help. You give the wrong impression that you are actually good.

MackToday · Answer

No idea I've never complained about something so silly.

producer · Answer

Its de emasculating, I just wouldn't do it

Kaoscowboy · Answer

I never refuse lol, I'll call in to work to make it a good day! If I get it, so should she.

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