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Is there anyone who preferes normal sex?

I am serious. Why do people except more and more extrem shit when it comes to sex? What is next? Choking your partner to death? Like since when it is not normal anymore to NOT want anal sex/deep throath/cuming on face/choking or any degrading shit.
Is there any guy who can survive by having only blow job/hand job/ breast play and vaginal sex aka normal sex? Ok maybe some harmless kinky stuff like using a blindfold in bed or period sex is ok.
Dont get me wrong, I respect everyone preferences but it scares how many men (/women) have high exceptations when it comes to sex. I think it is because of porn and now being "vanilla" aka being normal is something bad and everyone act like he/she is kinky.
I can survive by having only blow job / hand job / vaginal sex
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No, anal sex/ deep throath/ cuming on face/ choking etc. is a must
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Indifferent
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Other/results
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I did not mean to disrespect someone but some men start to leave their partner when they dont get deep throath for example. You can do what you want, I just want to say that a relationship is not only about sex.
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Ok sorry. You can define kinky sex normal too haha. I should not have defined it
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  • I'm pretty kinky but will tailor my kinks to the partner I'm with at a given time, coz i want her to have a fun memorable experience. If she likes getting choked then choking turns me on, if she hates being choked then choking doesn't turn me on. I'm really just trying to meet halfway between my turnons and hers.

  • Love vanilla ! but sometime chocolate, strawberry , cookies and cream break the humdrum and makes you look forward to a fancy dessert every once in a while or a little more often than that. Besides you have to let swelling go down LOL.

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  • I'm extremely vanilla. I don't even like receiving BJ/HJ (although I don't mind giving, and find it important to arouse a woman).

    Well, my kink is that I crave feeling very close to a woman -- like souls connecting, "mind-meld", that sort of thing. So actually if she starts getting kinky, it's like an obstacle to that feeling. Maybe I didn't get enough hugs as a kid or something.

    I'm the opposite of the role-playing type. There's nothing appealing to me about mystery or putting on an act. It's like I crave the most "genuine" side of a woman. It's okay if it's goofy. I don't even mind a bit of laughter in the bedroom, like when we bump heads trying to simultaneously kiss each other.

    It was actually pretty hard to find someone who was similar that way. Fortunately, I found one and married her.

  • I voted A and I never had anal, choking, etc with my girlfriend.

    I'm satisfied with my sex life. With her for more than a decade already.

    So my Opinion is, extreme sex was advertised by porn, and desired by most who have uncommitted, non intimate sex.

    Vanilla sex tends to be more satisfactory with feelings. Lack of make sex quite mechanical and probably this is why extreme sex is seek and practiced.

    • Come on there's a whole world out there with all different types of people from all walks of life, and some like kink and some don't, and some like rough sex and some like soft sex. There's even some way mixed up crazies out there that like both. I've been married for over 25 years and together for 27 and my wife likes rough sex. She never was with anyone that was rough until me and she was embarrassed to ask for it so she loved it when I made her feel that she had nothing to be embarrassed about with me. And not to sound like a jerk but when I was young I was fairly popular and had a lot of friends with benefits and I learned from some of the best. I have been rough and open to all kinds of crazy sex pretty much as long as NO guy on guy I was all about it. I wasn't nothing special but every female I was with loved rough sex kinky sex and majority of them I was the first to ever introduce them to it. So just because you like something a certain way doesn't mean it's only supposed to be that way. If a chick doesn't like things the way I do, doesn't mean she's a square or doing it wrong she's just an individual that has her own likes and dislikes. Free your mind

  • You do realize that being kinky isn't a realistic expectation to happen every night? Well... at least none of the ways you described. What you described as more Vanilla is what's par for the course unless it's a particularly frisky mood or something.

    I always thought deep throating was a part of blowjobs? Like not holding a head down or anything. A mouth has teeth, I'm not tempting fate like that. Not joking, being serious, sounds like half a blowjob without my whole penis getting attention :/

  • I do like slightly choking if riding but i get where you’re coming from. I’m only deepthroating if his dick less than 5 inches 🤷‍♀️ Ill let you cum in my mouth but im not swallowing. I dont do facials and i really dont like to be cummed on. I like sex raw but prefer gentle rather than rough. Im not into doggy style nor rimjobs nor anal sex nor period sex. Im more into handjobs, fingering, nipple play, and sex In positions like spooning, sitting upright positions (like on couch), or standing in center of floor/against wall. So call it vanilla if u will but thats what i like.

    • Like u said in your other post, if he tryna force me to deepthroat then ima shove a banana down his damn throat and tell him to deepthroat that first. Dudes can foh with that porn obsessed shit

  • What's "normal"? I feel like it's normal to try things especially if you're know your partner for a long time. It's weird to do something just because everyone else does but I don't think there's such thing like "normal sex". People should do what feels right. Period.

  • Yes... Why do weird stuff when the normal stuff feels soooooo good.

  • chill. The vast majority of people do vanilla sex. And if you are in a relationship and don't like that kinky stuff, you can always stop. Communication is key

  • i love normal sex , that pegging thing its a joke im not going no where near that and that deep throat thing its stupid as well i just want normal but most women think if they go out side the normal there better, it just makes them a part of the look what i can do age which im not a part of

  • If people are having high expectations due to porn, they're ignorant. Porn is fake. Anal isn't clean like they show on porno.

    Also, "normal" sex is without feelings and purely for the purpose of reproduction. I'm sure there are some people who do that, though I doubt it.

  • I personally don't like to do anything hardcore or mean to my girlfriend however I don't mind if she wants to degrade me and make me take all sorts of hardcore action tie me up slap my fave spit choke take anal or cum whatever I do anything so long as there's no poop im your girl/ guy whatever Im kinda fucked up but I tend to commit completely to my girl and don't like to do anything in the typical sence I'm girly and like to be treated like a pos whore in the bedroom and being submissive and not the type to do the whole male dominance thing unless I'm told to specifically then I do as I'm told and will throw you over my shoulder and give you the best vanilla three to 4 hour bone you could ever ask for granted it's wise to install a water cooler or minifridge with bottled water and a fan on the head board to help with obvious heat and all basically I have no problems with normal sex but I don't exactly stick to the normal standard exactly I don't like doing all the hardcore stuff but do like having it done to me so I'm a weirdo sue me then slap me spit on me maybe dress me up like a cheap stripper and walk me around like a dog and anything else you want I'll love you forever and be as loyal as a dog lol to bad tho cuz as far as I have gotten so far is my undying honesty loyalty and willingness to do anything to please my girlfriend's sexually they all lie and cheat and get all jellous and pissy cuz I look better in shirt shorts and a halter top then they do and have better makeup and hair and a massive wardrobe big enough to make value village seem small but whatever maybe one day I will find a girl who wants all that's good in a girl with the best parts of a boy in one till then I'll go way off topic on a tonne of things I comment on lol sorry

  • normal sex is fine except for mean men who want to beat their sex partner for they are to ignorant to be nice ! people like these have mental problems and should be avoided at all costs ! thanks

  • I don't know if this is the correct choice to pick but I will explain to you the way that I like sex slow not fast ever no slapping or choking even on the ass no gagging coming on a person is okay anywhere on a person blowjobs are okay anal is okay vaginal was okay mutual masturbation is okay some types of k i n k are okay my big Kink is water sports but that's as far as I'm willing to go well except for cumshots and squirting of course although squirting is part of Watersports but I actually have a huge fetish for ejaculation any kind but to me that's all normal stuff but if you want to see nasty look up two girls and a cup it's freaking nasty pork production companies couldn't even legally get away with it in California it would be illegal seriously like you would actually be banned in the United States if it wasn't only on the internet thanks Al Gore no I'm just kidding Al Gore's pretty cool what made a better then President George Bush sorry I just had to add that on the end because it was about George Bush and Al Gore

  • With the internet, and available porn, I think some might get bored, with 'normal' sex, and go to more, and more extremes, when the 'kink' of the last fails to appeal to them, alone, and not having a person to love?
    At some point, there is so much 'kink' that no sane person wants to be with a person so obsessed with that crazy sht!

  • For me, just normal vaginal sex.

  • People are so afraid of being normal that they'll stick pineapples up each other's asses and pretend that they enjoy it. Then they'll tell others that we should enjoy it too and mustn't shame them for it.

  • I prefer vanilla. I don't like blow jobs either so I could definitely survive without them and whatever else. I'm willing to try some moderately different stuff because my wife is just the kind of person who likes to try new things, but I wouldn't go very far off in any direction.

  • Sorry, but what is normal sex? Please explain.

  • GIRL THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS 👏👏 you just spoke my heart out and you deserve a salute cuz you're a freaking HERO. As much as it is fun to try out stuff and be adventurous, if you need to hardcore at all times that's not a good thing. Girl I love you for saying this!!!

    by the way I asked a very similar question a while ago 😂 great minds 😉 I don't like vulgarity, does that make me a boring prude?

    We need to start a movement against vulgarity getting out of hand.

  • I only want normal sex. Anything demeaning of women loses my erection.

  • I can definitely appreciate the usual, but I adapt to most kinks. I'm never the kinky one myself.
    I think less aggressive choking, anal play (ass eating and fingering), deepthroat and cumming on face fall under normal sex tbh.

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