Please be completely honest girls: is it horrendously painful to lose your virginity?

[Anonymous]

Everytime I have tried to lose it I get this terrible pain in the entrance and everywhere inside and it goes in like two inches only. My boyfriend is 6 inches and medium-thick in girth. I can’t even put two fingers in when I am very very turned on. We do everything and take as much time as possible and even lube doesn’t help in fact it just makes it worse. Everyone says it always hurts to lose it. Feels like there is a barrier and nothing goes past.

[elite665]

Ok so yes many girls say it’s uncomfortable but it should not actually hurt

Use lube and RELAX if your stressing out that could be why it hurts more cause your focusing on on it and your body is reacting more
At the end of the day if you doctor says your fine I would just stick a towel in you mouth and tell him to push that shit in and bite the towel when it hurts get it over with

[UnknownUsername99]

You are an absolute fucking moran who knows nothing about the female body how fucking dare you tell her to stick a towel in her mouth and have him push it in and tell her to get over it. nice fucking way to encourage her to have an traumatizing experience and never want to have sex ever again and basically tell her she should be sexually assaulted do you have a fucking vagina no you have a fucking dick and an asshole so shut your mouth and don't ever tell a female to stick a towl in their fucking mouth and to get it over it

[Astarlessnightsky]

maybe see a doctor? It could be a medical condition and not just simply loosing your virginity.

[Asker]

They all say it is normal and dismiss it. I have a thick hymen.

[Liskitty]

I had a tiny little bit of pain. In your case, I would suggest to see a specialized doctor to make sure everything is alright and to help take away the anxiety.
Other than that, lube, relaxation, the right partner, excitement.

[taleets]

It hurts yes but you just have to relax into it and take deep breaths. You also need to be naturally turned on, lube doesn’t really cut it

[moonpie89]

Wasn't painful for me. Make sure you're using lots of lube and make you're really aroused before he enters you so it'll be easier

[Anonymous]

It might be a good idea to see a doctor about it.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you are very relaxed and like while your body is telling you you are reading your mind might be saying that you aren't ready your mind and body have to be connected

[elite665]

No nope

[Opinion Owner]

@elite665 I'm a fucking female I know exactly what I am fucking talking about idoit you don't have a fucking vagina so fuck off

[Opinion Owner]

@elite665 unless you have a fucking vagina don't fucking tell me I am wrong

[elite665]

Your wrong