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I feel discriminated from many females because of my cock size and race?

It is a personal experience for 5 years so it does not apply to all.

I'm an Asian guy living in NY for almost 10 years. I wanted to have sex with non-Asian girls for fun while I'm still young. But I faced a lot of discrimination from many females because of my race and cock size. Online or offline, it didn't matter. Some of you believe that the size won't matter but base on my experiences, it did.

Even non-Asian guys mocking me that having sex with white, black, or Latin female is just a fantasy. I feel offended especially since they showed me a piece of evidence that AMWF or AMBF videos are quite rare on porn sites. It can be a real problem in the future if I ever wish to date with either black or white girl and I seriously feel that I won't be able to have a relationship with them at all.

Why non-Asian females discriminate against Asian guys because of the cock size?
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  • My man one issue im seeing is that you care to much about what others have to say about you and moth enough about how you perceive yourself.

    Trust me this one thing if you’re confident, work hard in a good job, and have your life together you probably won't have any issues.

    Now lets say for some reason you are really in fact undersized in the penis category.

    Just to give you some insight and I quote “According to one study published in the British Journal of Urology International (BJUI), the average length of a flaccid penis is 3.61 inches, while the average length of an erect penis is 5.16 inches.

    The average girth is 3.66 inches for a flaccid penis and 4.59 inches for an erect penis. Girth is defined as the circumference of the penis at its widest section.”

    Meaning that you would have to be less than those perimeters to even concern yourself with having a small dick.

    Even then are still exercises and things that can be done for the sake of girth alone that would greatly impact your sex life in the positive.

    Also there are just so many numerous solutions to that issue in 2019-2020 that again you concerning about it is more moot than not.

    Now i don’t feel size is the heart of your issue I feel you not having enough confidence in yourself is. You letting others make rude remarks at you and not telling them off is.

    To be honest take stock of yourself, examine yourself think about the things you may need work on that are realistic and that will maybe make you feel better about yourself a work on them.

    Then go out, hook you the most beautiful preferably single woman that you can find, and ask her out because I can promise you now when you feel good about you she’ll feel good about you too that’s just kind of how we work as people.

    Confidence and security in yourself is the key and fuck any ones bull opinions if its not love.

    Well thats my two cents i wish you luck in whatever comes.

  • I'm thinking that if you find the right girl who doesn't care much about dick size, and there are many of them, this will not be a problem. Yes, for some girls, dick size is important, but for many, they are much more concerned about what kind of person you are, and how you use your dick, not the size.

    • I've been trying for several years and yet I never had a chance to meet just because of race and the size.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I have never heard of girls who, after getting to know and like you, tell you to go away after seeing you in the bedroom because of your size down there.
    Size doesn't matter, at least to me. At all.

  • If you’re just looking for a cock dock then size matters. If your looking for love it doesn’t matter.

    • They do care about the size even for love. I found this to be hopeless.

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  • It's all bad education, thrust me. Don't mind them and don't care too much about it. You should just show that you have the balls to stand up for yourself. If she doesn't want to date you because she said Asian men have a small penis then she isn't worth it. If she loves you, she size is absolutely irrelevant!

  • Look there's not asain pornstars bc we're too smart and we have the money to go to college. Us Asians average income is higher than white people. That being said, of Course there's not many make Asian open stars. Dick size does not matter, especially for a virgin. It hurt when he just put the tip of his finger in me.. There IS no discrimination, stop playing victim. My japanese uncle married a white girl and she was a cheerleader in high school. Stop playing victim

    • I wasn't talking about porn stars. I was talking about real sex videos shot by real people. And yet you are generalizing about Asian people. Your Japanese Uncle is not me. Do you even live in NY?

  • Come to Houston Texas. And I don't care what people say. Girls like big dick. Welcome to the normal club bro

  • As I’ve said before, I don’t recommend New York for Asian-Americans is a bad place for Asian-Americans, it’s political climate isn’t friendly towards Asian-Americans.

    my advice to you is to move out of New York and go to a more conservative state like Texas.

    • Texas is full of racist. I wouldn't go there.

    • Please, that's because you never go to Alabama or Mississipi, there, Texas racists looks like a child play

  • Well maybe it's just New York. I've seen a few Asian guys dating white women here in California. In fact my friend's cousin has been dating a white girl he met in highschool for like 4 years.

    And definitely don't compare yourself to what you see in porn. Porn is adult entertainment not education.

  • You're ugly with a tiny packer. That's not discrimination.

    • You dont even know me and my life. That's discrimination.

  • Fuck them you are choosing the wrong people and don't allow anyone to get in to your head

    • Here's the problem: those females that I met were mostly mid to high level of people and I usually meet them for my works. What am I supposed to say? That's what they are thinking.

  • and what is the size out of curiosity?

  • My white sister dates an Asian guy from Laos.
    They get along great.
    As for the penis issue, at least people don't expect Asian guys to have huge dicks.
    I imagine it's harder for the many black guys out there that have small ones.
    The white women probably don't treat them well once they find out.

  • Your size isn't something that you change in any way and as corny as this is I one hundred percent believe that you'll find someone who appreciates you. Also surround yourself with people who lift you up not down.

    • Unfortunately, I work with those people believing that fact.

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