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When you have sex with someone you know, do you like to set the mood first or you go straight to the main event?

Even if that person is a person you know for like 4 years, but for you she is just a booty call or fuck buddy and you are not even in a relsationship.

When I mean set the mood first for what is coming later, is like you both go out to have someting to eat and have some drinks, catch up, relax (liek I said you two know each other and are no strangers) , then you both go to the guys place, and start making out, massages, caresses, undressing, etc or the other option is once at the guys place after the meal and drink get together, the guy does not like any foreplay and he goes straight to the intercourse or the 3rd choice is that you only meet for sex, nothing previous like something to eat to relax. You go to the guys place, start making out, thyen just little foreplay and teh guy wants to fuck right away, even if the two of them are no strangers, otherwise it would had sound like the lady friend was a prostitute.

Here iim talking with soneone you know, even if the guy considers this lady he knows just a fuck buddy or a booty call but he can go out with the lady and catch up and eat, beause they do know each other. Is this even posible for booty calls or fuck buddies to do when they are people who know each other? The lady wants to get used to the idea of being with the guy intimately so each time they meet she could learn more and thing will be less awkward each time, but the guy seems to like to go straight for the main event, even if they do know each other and are no strangers.
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I heard that a booty call or a fuck buddy do not do that even if they know each other. So how do you call a man and a woman who know each other for years, like just casual friends, they are not in a relationship they are not a couple, they are not gf/bf, but the guy only wants to see this woman he knows from time to time to get laid and maybe, just maybe not always, go out and eat and have some drinks first and catch up have a conversation but still they are not dating or seeing each other that
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Look usually in a situation like this I'd say both people are in denial, they wanna be more than fuck buddies but neither of them is prepared to call himself in a relationship. So they both take what they get, in this care they seem to get a lot.

    But honestly, now a day it's acceptable to do anything and be anything. If you're happy this way then why sweat the details just be happy.

    • Cause not even that is working for me

    • Well then you need to make a call. Either go all in with the guy or find someone else. Don't put yourself in a position that makes you unhappy life is too short for that

    • The guy does not like to be in a formal committed relationship or date the lady like hang out like normal ordinary people d, because by doing that it means they are dating and the guy does not want dating, he wants to get laid. But they have gone outu to eat something in the past just 3 times and then they get laid afterwards but still they had never been a real couple just some friends who know each other period becauae they dont actually date.

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  • I try to set the mood but sometimes just through the basic ritual of seduction. I'm too lazy to make candlelit dinners every time, but I'm not so lazy about seduction and foreplay. Well, I'm an oddball but the highlight of sex to me is often the beginning... the build-up.

    • Even if it is just a booty call? candle light dinner sounds more like the two are ina relationship but in this case they do know ech other but they are not a couple or really dating because they guy does not want to be in a relationship with this woman he iknows.

    • I never really did booty calls. I had a bit of a promiscuous streak in my youth but I think the most accurate characterization of that would be "serial monogamist". Yet if I were to sleep with a woman I had known a long time, I'd certainly want to make it special and memorable for both of us.

    • Well, I'm kind of a sentimental type but it's like "pounding throbbing dick in wet pussy" doesn't make lasting memories for me. It's that feeling of desiring each other, the gentle caress of her neck, undressing the girl, kissing, seeing her smile, working downwards, seeing her squirming, building up that desire for each other until it's irresistible -- and to see her clearly, and for her to see me clearly... that's what makes a memory for me. Sounds cheesy but I'm drawn more to these abstract images -- not spraying cum in her face.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • This guy sounds awful. Find a different fuck buddy.

    • but based on the question. Do fuck buddies or boty calls never go out to have soemmeal firsdt catch up and then go to the person place for the event or they just go straight to the persons place to fuck and that is all? I aks because that is what fuck buddies do anyway no eat no thing previously, just fuck period right? But inthis case they are people who alreayd know each other.

    • Some do. Some don’t.

    • some do? Really how come if they are fuck buddies

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  • I'm not sure I understand. You're fuck buddies but you want to be wined and dined first every time?

    • We only had fucked twice out of the 4 dates we had gone together. The first 2 no sex but we went out to lucnh have drinks some beers and a nice company conversation. then the guy wnted the following get togethers to fuck.

    • I dont raelly mean like a formal eat and drink it could be in an informal setting even burgers and soda and catch up then go to his place for the fun.

    • I mean if we had done it before why the guy won't like to do it now and he just wanted to fuck and that is all. We know each other, for 4 years now even if we are not in a relationshop

  • I've had various types of relationships. Some were serious. Some were just occasional get togethers. Some times those were nothing more than movies, drinking, etc. Sometimes an excuse like "It's too hot here, let's go down to the beach" led up to skinny dipping which led up to touching/feeling and sometimes more. The girls I hook up with are nothing if not surprising.

  • Just get it over with

  • I always set the mood first. Even with a fuck buddy or hookup.

    • eeven for booty cals u ste the mood like dinner sort of thing?

    • Yes. not dinner. But I usually meet them out for a drink, light candles, set mood music. Sometimes even for a booty call we might make some chocolate dip together or something fun like cinnamon rolls over wine. I like a whole date atmosphere experience when i fuck. It helps make me horny. I may not want to date you but I like the fantasy of the romantic experience. is that weird?

    • yes it is weird becaue booty calls or fuck buddies dont do that

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  • I always set the mood, even with my FWBs. Getting dinner, walking outside, hanging out at the beach. Then, once we get home fucking the shit out of them for a few hours. Good times.

  • I go straight to main event and wrestlmenia lol

  • There are times I do, setting the mood starting when the day before placing. 12 single roses along her stops and at work and then one in the kitchen when she gets home, etc. Then leave a trail of rose peddals from the glass of wine to the hot tub and me.
    Then sometimes no plan and the kitchen counter will do just fine

    • but that is with someoen u are in a relationship or at lest deating for a while not just a booty call friend

    • True, but we vary from fuck to fuck

    • and if it is a fuck buddy you also set a mood like also go out to eat something catch up because you two knew each othr for some years

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  • The mood is set once you go gentle naked in bed.
    Before that is a waste of time (but music helps waste it a bit nicer - only women insist on getting to know each other, and only to check if they agenda flies (which it never does, but waste your money away, the banks love it))

    • what do u mean check itheir agenda flies?

    • Well if they can get away with whatever agenda they are hiding. If there isn't one and there is attraction or even a general interest in sex, you go to bed first, then talk.

    • You know, like when you are hungry, you don't first debate what to eat with your mom. Especially not in front your favourite food. (hey mom, I am starving, you know how much I love steak, can I have one? Well of course no, just starve to death, you younger more attractive bit. h)

  • Always set the mood. 😎

  • Set the mood.

    • Even if it is just a booty call or a fuck buddy?

  • Depends on how badly I want it.

  • Depends on how busy I am right beforehand, I might need to forget about a few things first.

  • I have always set the mood and not take any one for granted

  • Main event

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