Virginity and First time?

[Anonymous]

I want to become sexually active with my boyfriend but I'm a virgin and am a little scared what my first time would feel like. How does it feel? Does it hurt the whole time?

[PrudentGuy]

Since you're a virgin,
The Worst Case is:

you bleed, you feel pain like a razor cut inside, no orgasm; and after you fuck, the guy leave you the next day.

Having tell the Worst Case and if you're prepared, read on.

1) if the guy is also inexperienced, then prepare lubricant, condoms and NEVER allow him to penetrate you until you are very wet and relax.

Note: you may crave the sex and rush, but no. You may not orgasm and the pain is real.

2) insists only he penetrate you in Missionary Position.

This does not mean you cannot let him see you naked in doggy style or let him finger or eat you in other positions like 69.

3) and if you feel awkward nakes and have to switch off the lights, then you're not ready for sex. Lack of sexual confidence is a big turn off.

4) and remember this by heart: He will leave you one day, if not the next.

So get ready for a broken heart. This is the price of promiscuity.

And it's better to have sex with a guy you love and whom you believes loves you in return.

While not hoping for a lifetime relationship, at least have it last more than a day or a month.

So understand that everything else are known everywhere and many had written.

So have fun and relax. It's just sex.

Finally, don't stop at first time. When you start, aim for a sex-filled lifestyle thereafter. Sex gets better with experience and of course a caring partner.

[yoitsjosephuk]

It won't hurt the whole time. But you need to tell him to be careful with you, don't let him get carried away, try and do as much foreplay as possible as you want to be as wet as you can. You may bleed, so put down a towel, and it will. probably hurt the first time, but try and enjoy the pain, as you won't be able to have that moment ever again!
Have you done anything sexual at all yet?

[Duckysback]

I’m sure I can give you some tips. Two things you need to know before you start. First, get to your own body. What it likes and what it doesn’t like. Second, communicate with your partner. If you like something, make sure they know, if you don’t like it, tell them that too.

If you are worried about penetration and the pain associated with it. Well it varies from person to person, but if your hymen is still intact and you just try to ram a dick in there yeah, it’s gonna fucking hurt. Start with something smaller, like a finger, don’t force it. Sex isn’t a good experience from the start it’s going to take a lot longer before you actually enjoy it.

[kathy1121]

If you prepare before it won't hurt and will just feel good if you don't prepare it will sting a lot for a few mins

[Randomawkwardness]

I didn't really prepare or anything and it was really a spur of the moment thing and I didn't even notice he had started. I would say to not worry too much and just remember roleplay

[Randomawkwardness]

I meant foreplay lmao not roleplay

[markscott]

It just depends on the situation, how relaxed you are, if you have good lubrication, if you are really emotionally ready, is he is gentle with you, etc. It can hurt the whole time through, as I know girls where this has been the case. And I know where it has not hurt at all. Every girl, has her own unique experience with the first time.

[Anon_loser]

I’m scared too lmao

[chriscdi]

I've heard many stories, sometimes it hurts the whole time and some hurts only in the beginning, just tell your mans to go slow

[Nahid1707]

You should have sex when you’re reedy