This is appalling!!! On absolutely no account is this acceptable. This is cheating, plain and simple.
Make no excuses. To be sure, the natural male instinct is to want sex with as many females as possible, but a real man steps up to the plate. He commits to the woman who have him such a beautiful gifts.
My girlfriend and I have lived together for 11 years and have three children together. We don't want to get married but I can never imagine - EVER - doing to my girlfriend what your HUSBAND is doing to you, and his baby in the bargain.
It breaks my heart to tell you this but this is not acceptable. You need to go to couple's counseling and failing that to end this marriage - and take him for every dime you can get.
Your job is to protect your baby. Your next job is to save your marriage. The latter gets primacy as that little person has no one but you to depend on. He needs loving caring parents, not a mother who is so unaware that she is being cheated on that she goes to a website to ask advice. Definitely not a father whose first interest is sex with some other woman.
Get out and get out fast!! It IS natural for a man to want sex with many women, but we are more - and are expected to BE more - than the sum of our instincts.
My heart goes out to you, but this is not going to end well. So take your future - and that of your baby - into your hands. As a legal matter, he has betrayed his wedding vows and depending on where you live you will get generous child support benefits.
So get up, and turn your life around. Not just for yourself, but for that little baby who needs you to be the best mom and the best person you can be.
Sit him down and have a serious talk with him about it. Find out from him.
You aside, why her and not porn, it's different when you actually know the person, and if she's showing interest back, that's directly at him, you don't get that with porn. It's real.
As far as being attracted to you still, that may not be the issue? Again, talk to him to find out. Let him know how you feel. The bigger issue to me is he's doing this AT ALL. I've never been married, but I wouldn't be doing this if I had a wife. Even a girlfriend. I'd be having sex with her! lol
He’s told her he’s not attracted to me and he was drunk when he got me pregnant
Why did he marry you?
Money I think
Of course this is wrong and a form of cheating. Super red flags to more than just... cyber cheating. Girl I dont think I could still b w someone who is doing this, trust is kinda broken unless ur doing the same and u have an agreement on it. But if I'm married it's me and nothing else except porn.
He told her he’s not attracted to me and he was drunk when he got me pregnant
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I would never do what he is doing. I would suggest seeing a marriage or sex counselor. It is just weird what he is doing. How is your sex life with him?
He told her he’s not attracted to me and he was drunk when he got me pregnant
Dump him!
Is it really that bad? Do you think it has something to do with sex life? My thought is that he’s in love with her because he could do that to porn but he chooses her to masturbate over
Nothing to do with your attractiveness, craving novelty is a normal part of sexuality.
That said I think couples therapy might be in order as he’s crossing some pretty important lines if he didn’t get your ok to sext her (which I assume he didn’t). Novelty is normal and healthy (role playing, new places, etc) but cheating is an obvious issue.
He told her he’s not attracted to me and he was drunk when he got me pregnant
Sounds like he’s lashing out for some reason
Also like he’s being pretty immature right now
If you are married to a woman that wants to have sex with you then you have sex with her. The fact he is cheating on you may be something deeper than just the sex.. does he know you know?
Yes he knows! He even admitted to her he’s not attracted to me and was drunk when he got me pregnant
O wow that is terrible. That is awful to hear I'm sure.. I'm assuming you are only staying with him because of the child..
The lady who is giving advice on here says it’s perfectly normal and he loves me
I have no idea why he dies it. He's not right for doing that when he has a loving wife. You are a loving wife. Is that correct?
He told her he’s not attracted to me and he was drunk when he got me pregnant
He doesn’t love or respect you
I can't imagine why he's even in contact with her. I sure wouldn't be.
Ummm did you tell him?
I won't do that if I'm in a relationship. what he is doing is not healthy at all and you need to have a serious talk together to resolve the issue before it gets out of hand
This is a problem, you need to talk with him about it, I hope you can work it out with him. It's not normal at all and you should be concerned. good luck!
He's a douche bag
He's probably attracted to her tits or ass or both or to her face and hair it's more lust than love but if they have a past he could still have some feelings for her or thinks her body is better than yours it's hard to say without knowing all the facts and details or what the two if yous look like. Why don't you just ask him and find out for yourself
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