Is it best to let the guy pick the size?

Is it best to let the guy pick the size?
My boyfriend is going to take me to the toy store to pick out a toy.
I'm kind of nervous about being the one to pick the size. Should play I just play it safe and let him choose the size?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • You are the one using it so it is better for you to pick it. Or, let him pick it for you just for fun and see what he goes with. If he is going with you to buy a toy, he is probably the type that isn't insecure about comparing himself to toys. Which is good. Insecure man aren't fun.

    My fiancé is the one who buys my sex toys and he always gets the bigger sizes because he knows that's what I love. He also knows it is just a toy and his penis will always be better :p

  • Get the one you want, he may choose something too small, because he's insecure about his own penis size and wants you to think his is the best. Or he may go with something huge and it ends up being too much for you. You know your body and what you want better than he does.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No you pick the size.. it is going inside you after all! Also consider a vibrator... my fiancee loves hers and likes it when I use it on her before sex. Have fun and enjoy the great orgasms!!!

  • Let him pick a size but if its too big or too small reccomend a size up or down

    • Going down in size would be easy. But saying I want one substantialy bigger than him, could pose a problem. 😂

    • Hahah then yeah just downsize by one then 😂

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  • You pick. It's going inside you, after all.

  • You are more aware of what would be comfortable and exciting for you. You should choose it.

  • It’s your toy and do your choice.

  • Who wanted the toy in the first place?

  • Don't use that shit. Ask him to learn how to use his!

  • Get a vibrator

  • Yes let him for sure. If you pick a bigger one than him, he may develop issues.

  • Naah. Just pick the one on the right.

  • Unless he's using it too, pick it yourself.

  • No men don't have any idea how much your body can take and they most time will pick something way to big for you.

    Your best choice would be start small or close to his size.

  • Hell no. A guy will come home with one that is closer to being a weapon of mass destruction than a sex toy.

    • I'm going with him.

    • 😆😆 she knows us lol.

    • Thats what i did. Njoy eleven, the destroyer of worlds.

  • Who is for? You? Him? Or Both?

  • Get the biggest one and tell your boyfriend you hope his ass can take it.

  • Yeah, let him pick (with your consent, of course.). by the way, the one on the far right looks like me lol.

  • No. You wanna pick what you think you can handle. These are expensive and non refundable

  • You choose. Your toy , you're the one using it. You have to choose. If he's enough open minded to take you to a sex shop he should be enough open minded to understand that you'll choose whatever you want. Not whatever his ego wants.

  • Nah let your desires play out my friend. 😂

  • Pick the size you want, my penis is quite small, and love watching my girlfriend play with a big toy,

  • Pick the biggest penis possible and tell him sorry, but you just lack the equipment and have a good laugh at his man hood.

  • You better let him pick it out, but if he asks you to pick it out, just get one of the smaller ones.
    You can always go back later by yourself and get the one you really want.

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