Is it weird that I don’t like thongs?

I’m not talking about practicality or comfortability here- it’s the way they look. Of course they’re very revealing so people find them sexy, but I think lingerie is sexier when it leaves something to be discovered. It kind of takes away the tension and suspense if you basically already have your entire behind out. I have the same issue with cupless bras, crotchless underwear, transparent lingerie, and other items like that. They give away what’s meant to be uncovered.
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  • I think that the idea of "leaves something to the imagination" has some merrit... sometimes. But not in this case. I'm not a huge fan of lingerie... basically because I feel the opposite way you do. I think the naked female body is sexy... if we're at the point where you're wearing thongs, lingerie etc... I would find good ol' nakedness much sexier.

    In the bedroom, I'm not looking for tension and suspense... I'm looking for enjoyment. I get more arousal... much more... out of seeing the same woman completely naked rather than in any lingerie. Things like crotchless underwear, are a bit of a different story in that it's kind of the best of both worlds... there's "a sexy outfit" that doesn't cover up the good bits... I can get on board with that.

    If I'm perfectly, completely honest, anytime I've been with a woman who put on lingerie... I was thinking..."yea... nice... but how long do I have to "enjoy this" before I can take this off"

    Now I'm not saying "I just want her to get naked so we can fuck" no... just that I'd find it way sexier if she'd get naked. Then we can create tension and tease each other, that sounds great... but I don't want tension and suspense in the bedroom----until you get naked. Then sounds fun.

    I don't think my opinion on this reflects guys generally so don't put too much stock into it

  • You're not the only girl who doesn't and many guys don't like them either. They certainly don't look good on every type of ass. On some asses it's like watching your grandma chewing on a pair of panties.

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  • I absolutely agree. People have forgotten the value of subtlety. Being sexy is all about seduction, and taking your time. It’s about making them want you so bad they can’t control themselves until you finally allow them to have a small taste of what they crave. It’s not about going “bam! Here are my tits.”

    Same reason I do a one piece when I go swimming.

    • So what kind of panties do u wear?

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  • I think thongs are freaking stupid.

  • Not weird. I see your point for sure.. lingerie that is sexy but not super revealing can definitely be very hot and a huge turn on

  • I agree with you I think lingerie is way sexier, it hides more, more to be discovered I’m 100% with you.

  • I agree with you

  • I think thongs look trashy and nasty.

  • I hate the kind of ass it carries more than the thing itself. For some reason big ass butts like to wear them a lot. And it never looks any amount of pleasing or enticing ( Nicki minaj, Iggy 🤢 )

  • No it's not weird but if my girlfriend didn't like thongs it would be a bummer

  • Thongs seem like a wedgie apparel ...

  • It's funny because thongs look good but they are imho very not comfortable.

  • I agree with you 100%. You shouldn’t play your cards all at once. Never.

  • Girl im the same way. Im not a fan of thongs.. i think simple is sexy. Its like down to earth ;)

  • I prefer no panties

  • No, it's not weird, it's very cute! Thongs are actually one of my dealbreakers.

  • I like the way you think. 😎

  • I agree. I like panties that cover the whole ass

  • The mystery is the fun part of being with someone so yeah I dont like thongs either

  • The appeal of a thong is completely lost on me. It’s like a permanent wedgie the whole time you’re wearing it. Not as sexy or good looking as regular sexy clothes

  • I've found a lot of girls dont like the.

  • You can't generalize it, as to be sexy is not your own decision, it's related to your partner as well
    For me sometimes I luv to see thongs on, sometimes I prefer to see long lingerie with open cleavage
    It depends

  • Yeah. They just look so uncomfortable climbing up your ass.
    Think I'll have to make this the last question tonight. Any more and I'll be having some really strange dreams.

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