I always use club settings or a third when things go past a certain level of Vanilla. It's very easy to lose control on either side of the line. Having third parties helps a lot.
It is concerning as well during an interview to be bragging about bagging a high school girl first conversation. Where did that go? What happened with that experience after her first taste of BDSM in an all night session? That's a hell of an endurance contest. I'd proceed with caution, and as you mentioned, you have looks, and I'd imagine lots of opportunities to train and sub for others that do frequent clubs and you can meet and get a feel for there.
Anyone with the inclination would be lucky to have you. Just be sure on your end that you don't have an unlucky experience being eager to please/be pleased there.
Yup its wise to keep everyone in check. That's why I asked if we could practice inside an official dungeon instead of somewhere else. I actually thought the all night stuff shows how experienced he is, right? My mind and body can barely handle that, and there he is with an 18 yr old doing just that. Lol either he is experienced or that girl has enviable stamina.
I don't see anything out of the ordinary in this indeed, keep in mind your a stranger to him. A dom who doesn't know you will indeed try to get in your head to make sure what headspace you are at, what kind of oppertunities there are, what to avoid with you and in general to check what you are and aren't ready for.
He wasn't unsure what sex was, he was wondering why you where wondering if you where pretty enough for him and saw your sign of saying 'Someday' as hesitation. I assume he is unsure if your ready for it and is being careful while also not immediately saying yes or no.
Thanks^^ yeah that's probably what went on. Will clarify it with him if possible.
It sounds like he's super detail oriented and doesn't understand you. But it could also be that he is looking for a very specific type of sub. Keep looking sweetie you'll find the Dom who is right for you. Just remember that YOU are the one ultimately in control of a BDSM relationship.
Thanks for the advice^^ Lol I was so confused tbh.
No problem, feel free to PM me if you want any more advice about being in a BDSM relationship.
Will do.
It's very normal for doms to be clueless. Actually, most all people are clueless.
This site is a perfect example of that.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I didn't read it all but if he's that annoying, move on or go back and set the record straight.
wait so this was an online interview?
Yes it was.
that is new to me, what job is this dungeon stuff, is it like a porn thing?
Lol its not for a job. And I'm never doing porn 🤢🤢 We were just vetting each other to see if we make a good Dom-sub match.
An interview for sex and how u wanna get dominated hmm intersting
I have no idea. I never knew there were interviews. Where do you find people like this?
FetLife, or they reach out if you are interested.
oh yeah i remember this site. i stumbled on it awhile back. lol
how was this an interview lmao
Well its def not a job interview if that's what you think this is 😂
Just passed by to say you are really hot
Do you believe everything he said?
Set up a meeting with him and the sub. Either that, or use a Dungeon FIRST!
You need him to prove he respects you and your limits.
Yup that's exactly why I asked for our first session in a dungeon instead.
I wouldn’t have sex like this with a guy you’re meeting online. No matter what he says. You just don’t know
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