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Is he falling for me?

So, I’m a virgin. But my best friend (a guy of 2, almost 3 years) asked me if he could have sex with me because he wanted to show me how good it feels. He told me it would just be a situation of “friends with benefits”, and nothing more.

He first ate me out multiple times, staring into my eyes and making it all about me by calling me dirty names like “babygirl”. Then he started to fuck me (God, that hurt. But I could see how it would feel really good if I weren’t a virgin.) and he made sure to not cum before me- again making it about me and passionately fucking me. Then after he went back to eating me out, without letting me return the favor.

When we were finished, we fell asleep next to each other. And when I woke up, he was staring at me while I slept, running his hand along the curves of my body and visibly getting hard again. After I woke, he stopped and said he had to go. He went to the bathroom first (which took longer than it should, so I think he masturbated to the thought of me), and then left.

Does my best friend like me? Or was he just really horny and having a good time sex wise?

This is a picture of me in case it helps your opinion about the situation.
Is he falling for me?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • How you loon doesn't affect whether he likes you that way or no. I would say he probably just horny. If you didn't wanted to be fuck buddies u should have told him or get clear about it now, just because you fucked him once doesn't mean you have to do it again and definitely not without getting clear about how you view it. But if you just want to have fun go for it. I don't think though that it is safe to post pics like this on public sites dear, u never know where they end up.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I bet he just wantedsex. If he was going to masturbate to the thought of you he could do it anywhere. Did he use a condom? I am guessing you aren't on BC since you were a virgin.

    • I’m on birth control because I have a hormonal disease. And if he wanted more, wouldn’t he hide the fact that he was thinking about me while masturbating? Aka doing it in the bathroom? If he wanted just a friendship, then he would have been fine with doing it anywhere. But maybe he didn’t want me finding out that he was thinking about me?

    • I am saying he didn't have to masturbate in your bathroom if he was masturbating.

    • Exactly. So if he was hiding it from me by masturbating in my bathroom, does that mean he might have feelings for me and he didn’t want me finding out?

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  • I never understand these types of questions-- obviously he likes you or he wouldn't have had sex with you. What are you talking about.

    • No like is he falling for me. Like he said- it would just be friends with benefits (aka no feelings involved). I was just wondering if he was feeling something more for me, as if he wanted a relationship. I don't know.

    • Why do girls always want to label everything? I don't understand. Sigh. Anyway, the answer is "maybe." Don't press him and be patient. Also why did you say "I am a virgin" as though you still are when you said that he fucked you?

    • I guess I meant to say “I am a virgin, until now.” Or something like that. Just to make the intro catchy. And he was the one that labeled it friends with benefits in the first place. I was just wondering if he wanted anything more than that because of the details that happened during and after the sex.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Sounds like lust to me :/

  • I just saw this same exact picture in association with being a virgin. What the heck is going on?

    • Oh, you are just having your sexual encounter now?

  • This isn't creepy at all...

    • Wdym? I’m asking advise on the matter lol.

  • That is a question I can' t answer. You sure look good and sexy.

  • Not to knock you. But, he probably just wanted to take your virginity.

    • I hope not lol

    • Only time will tell

  • I would eat you out and have sex with you in a heartbeat

  • I wouldn't read too much into it. He may not be falling for you.

  • I don't think he is falling for you but also I think he enjoyed what he had yesterday night.

    You look nice by the way

    • Do you like him or want him to fall for you?

    • Yeah, kinda... he is really sweet and funny.

    • Have you talked to him after morning? During th day? You can ask him how it was and if he enjoyed it and wants again.

  • Doubt it. Sounds like he just wanted to fuck a virgin. Luckily you helped him.

  • Yeah sounds like this is something way bigger than "friends with benefits"

    • I think so too, but 80% of this comment section is saying otherwise.

    • If no, i don't think it'd be this important for him to make you cum, touch you like that, then (maybe) jerk of to you.

  • Lmfao

  • Sounds like he likes you but you never know until you ask. Very nice body by the way 😉

    • Thank you ;)

    • @asker np def would have treated you like a queen and made sure you felt amazing. That's how hot you are and he is a lucky man to have you.

  • If im your Bff and While u slept i fell your curves probably i have huve crush on you but i can't explain u how i feel because i dont want to lose u or sabotage our good friendship

    • Hmm interesting...

  • He was just horny and was having a good time. And u clearly did well. by the way ur hot af

  • Clean your mirror, that is gross lol

    • Lmao I was at my friend’s house taking a pic, but go off.

  • I think he really enjoyed his time. You have a great body, I mean I would enjoy it especially eating you out. See where the conversation goes

  • Just do what you want its ok

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