Buying a sex toy?

Question

Please no weird or creepy comments.

This is mainly aimed at girls but guys can answer too. How old were you when you bought your first vibrator? I’m at the age and I feel like experimenting with that stuff but I’m scared of buying one because I still live with my mom (I work as a care giver for her). I don’t want to go out and personally buy one because I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone lmao. But ordering one online makes me nervous that it’s going to come in some obvious packaging, then there’s the issue of hiding it. Any advice? 😦

mrfoox · Accepted Answer

I've ordered from two sites. I wish I could link them, but they're from my country so not in English. But they usually state 'we have descreet packages' at least where I've browsed. Mine come in a medium package, just to my mail box. If you buy something bigger you may have to go get it from a mall or wherever you pick up bigger ones.
But no one would know, it's usually just a package with your address on, nothing weird.
I got my first toy around 20 and don't regret it, I hope you find something fun

Justacatlady · Accepted Answer

It will come in a plain box if ordered online. I would say go start with something basic. Either a vibrator with clit stimulation or just a magic bullet. Which can be held against your clit or placed inside depending on where you want to be stimulated

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Go to a neighboring town to do your shopping. Buy a rechargeable bullet vibrator. They are very small (about 3" length) but the rechargeable battery means it has more power than a traditional battery operated vibrator. Most of them have a number of variations of intensity and pulsing vibrations. However, it does have a charger unit that you will need to store somewhere.

MikeGaveO · Accepted Answer

I don't think buying online would come in a obvious package. Most parcels come into boxes or something like that, not wrapped up like a Christmas dick.
That being said, if you are going to buy it, make sure you have a proper place to hide it, unless you wanna have that weird tall with your mom

simmu32 · Answer

Better try some good guy n let him come in Ur life vibrator and dildos can give pleasure but can't give that feel which a real intercourse gives

wankiam · Answer

they are always wrapped descreetly

Dargil · Answer

Do you live near a city of considerable size? Do you have access to a car?

JustRollTheDice · Answer

I got mine at 20 and was a mortifying moment because the box was empty and I had to go back😐 And buy it online it'll be in a box just might have a label saying what it is

Shiver · Answer

Most sites do discreet packaging.
Also, don't get a huge 12" extra thick one as your first one, keep it reasonable.
I mean, finding a guy who can satisfy you is always a better option, but I guess a toy is more convenient.

BobbyC65 · Answer

When you buy on line every thing in the package is hidden and you can order sex toy's on Amazon two. Plus the only thing listed on the package is your address and the place it came from. I've ordered porn DVD'S and butt-plug's and penis vibrator's through the mail and nobody I know's what I ordered. And I was 34 year's old when I bought my first vibrator sex toy and nobody new about it but myself.

oncpl · Answer

I bought toy about 2 years back, not for my personal use but my ex asked for it. She was single being divorcee, living with mom and brother, hence no chance to have sex at home. She was over-sexed and as herself admitted, had been masturbating very frequently, also using some objects like cucumber or any other long object. Once we were discussing toy and she enthusiastically asked for one to use when alone and desired sex. So I bought for her. She was very happy.

oldermale · Answer

I was in my late 30's when a girlfriend suggested toys, started out just with her vibe against me and over the years had fun with fake pussy toys and vibes/dildoes even strap on ;)

Meatunnel69 · Answer

Well my fleshlight (sex toy) explicitly says on the website that the package is discreet and non-indicative of the contents and I assume there are a lot of sex toy retailers with the same offerings.

other than that you could try an electric tooth brush, vibrating back massager, or vegetables like cucumbers and zucchini

COMMODOREII · Answer

I bought my first fleshlight right after my ex left me. In 2014. My first vibrator 2 years later then another 2yrs later my aircraft cup.

Potatocream · Answer

I order some aswell nervous for the same reason lol but thehre not stupid dw lmao theyd have no business if they shipped boxes with GIANT 12 INCH DILDO MASTURBATOR 😂