My boyfriend said “I can touch you wherever I want whenever I want because we’re dating.” Am I right to be upset?
We don’t have sex as much as we used to because it’s been hurting but we’ve been trying different things to remedy the situation.
Today after we kissed for a while he touched my vagina region (I was clothed) and I winced and told him it didn’t feel right and made myself more comfortable (it had hurt). Then later on I jokingly said looking at a goofy picture of him made me wet.
He tried to touch me again and I held his hand away and said Don’t but he touched me anyway. Later I asked him to please not push back when I say not to touch me and to just refrain from touching me when I tell him not to and he said “I can touch you wherever I want whenever I want because we’re dating.” I said no you can’t and he got mad and a fight ensued.
So I told him to please tell me if he felt he wasn’t getting enough sexually from me. He said he didn’t understand why it was okay for me to kiss him but when he touched my lady region I said no.
I told him I shouldn’t have to explain consent to him. He said he didn’t understand why it’s usually okay but today it wasn’t.
I wasn’t mad that he tried I was upset because when I asked him not to he resisted me and that when I asked him not to resist me saying no, that he got mad.
Girls and Guys what is your opinion on this?
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