What's the typical order in which you and a new partner touch each other's body parts for the first time?

Whats the typical order in which you and a new partner touch each others body parts for the first time?
I don't have the experience to answer this question
Vote A
First the woman's breasts are stimulated, then the woman's genitals, then the man's genitals
Vote B
First the woman's breasts are stimulated, then the man's genitals, then the woman's genitals
Vote C
First the man's genitals are stimulated, then the woman's breasts, then the woman's genitals
Vote D
First the man's genitals are stimulated, then the woman's genitals, then the woman's breasts
Vote E
First the woman's genitals are stimulated, then the woman's breasts, then the man's genitals
Vote F
First the woman's genitals are stimulated, then the man's genitals, then the woman's breasts
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Most Helpful Guys

  • First a kiss. Then another. Then more kisses, moving from the mouth to the ears, then her neck. Then down to her breasts spending lots of time licking and sucking both of her nipples. Then working my way down across her belly to the inside of her thighs and around her vulva and finally her clitoris, spending a lot of time there licking and sucking, increasing the intensity. Then I insert a finger to give her G-spot some attention. Hopefully by that time she will have had at least one orgasm. Then I slowly work my way back up her body, kissing all the way and finally sliding inside her...

  • As both the male and the dominant, I'm definitely the "touchER" and she's the "touchEE", so it's usually kissing/making out, boobs, then pussy, then finally me. She might rub or stroke me a bit along the way, but most of the stuff is focused on her body for the first 10-15 minutes, usually.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Depends. Sometimes you just wanna have a quick bang so you'll just get right to intercourse.

    Although I really like foreplay. In that case we'll explore each other's genitals last. That gives us time to enjoy kissing and touching other body parts.

    • It seems sexy

    • I have yet to meet a woman who just wanted a quick bang. Might be fun.

    • Yes it is very enjoyable @indianaguy69

  • My second time I remember it started with breast fondling then we finished undressing in the bedroom and we both 69’d.. then it sort of transpired from there.. don’t remember much else after that lol.

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  • Does there really need to be in order?

  • If you eat a chick out really well she's going to put in extra effort when giving you head. Always worth it

  • 1st is 4 play and kissing. Note 4 play is all over the body not just 1, 2 or 3 places. The key is Lison and watch your partner to see if they like it then you get to know where they like to be rubbed and touched as well as how. Everyone is different

  • Other:
    1 - passport and wallet: secured
    2 - phone: locked
    3 - bra: unlocked
    4 - a good sequence is to work from top down to bottom.

  • The cheek.. holding a women's face in my right hand and then placing my left hand on her waist, I pull her in for a kiss. This is very first action..

  • It’s usually a crap shoot. Some times this some times that. No routine.

  • It's always surprise.

  • Every part should be stimulated on the woman because if you don’t fully arouse her, you could physically hurt her.

  • Its not. That im inexperienced.. its the lack of better answers... But.. the Question is rather ( Vanilla ) its made to sound as if were all computer controlled robots with a preset agenda and/or a basic protocol for sex.. ?
    Who answered Yes? Icant believe anyone did? because. Its two people exploring each others sex, bodies & minds... To be Spontaneous is key

  • I don't have the experience to answer this question.

    However, I would probably want to go in this order:

    1. Hands
    2. Shoulders/back (hug)
    3. ... Umm, I'm lost. What comes next. Maybe kissing on the cheek?
    4. Everything past this point is probably too inappropriate to think about.

  • there is no rule for that actually..

  • That depends on the situation. Each new partner gives a different experience. She may get down on me first or might get down on her first or we might both get nude and kiss together.

  • It always starts with breast

  • I’m guessing a handshake upon meeting.

  • We either do it simultaneously or I stimulate her first.

  • Depends on the woman. But really it’s eye contact, hand contact, hips, then kissing.

  • First the woman's mind/body/breasts are stimulated, then the woman's genitals, then the man's genitals.
    Sex starts in the mind, with conversation and suggestion of what could take place, maybe some dirty talk throughout the day. JMO

  • Starts with kissing and teasing

  • I prefer touching near but not completely just enough to tease

  • Catfish