I am a Necrophiliac, what do I do?

I don't know but I get turned on by dead women, sometimes I fantasize about the girls I have a crush on getting murdered and then me sneaking in the morgue to... well y'know. But am not a violent person and I am pretty sure I won't kill anyone. Am 21 and never had a girlfriend, am I likely to be dangerous in the future?
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  • Hi, I'll be honest with you. I'm no expert here. Please don't "take my word" for anything BUT... my understanding of necrophilia is that it's a paraphilia--a sexual attraction to something 'strange' (in other words almost any fetish' is a paraphilia)

    Generally, necrophilia isn't associated with violence necessarily (mostly). It CAN co-exist within the same individual who also has violent paraphilia. So it's not that necrophiliacs are violent. It's that some violent people are also necrophiliacs.

    SO IN MY OPINION, the short answer to: will you be dangerous in the future is, "no".

    Please don't take my word for this: but my understanding of the motivations for the development of necrophilia is related to a "fear of the judgment of others" as applied to sex/sexual performance. Again, do look this up for yourself, but basically It's the idea that a dead woman couldn't possibly pass judgment on 'sexual performance'

    So whether its best understood through the lens of "fear of judgment/rejection"; or if its best to approach it from a "performance anxiety" lense. It seems to have elements of both of these as I understand it.

    I really think your best bet is to do a lot of research yourself on necrophilia. Not so much the "open forum" variety (like GAG) but some serious research. There is A LOT of information on this from all kinds of perspectives: psychological, criminal-justice, sex and sexual health, anthropology and all sorts of varied aspects of the paraphilia are focused on in each.

    You want more psychology-based and sexual health-based articles. You're looking for ideally "peer-reviewed academic journals" However, you won't be able to find those all that easily for free unless you're a student. In which case check the school's library website. The school likely subscribes to hundreds of academic journals you can access.

    Even if you're not a student. Just make sure you're looking at high-quality, RELIABLE sources. Stay off YouTube for example.

    There's a lot of information out there for you. I think that you'll feel A LOT better once you learn a bit more about what's going on with you mentally/emotionally/sexually.

    If you've been putting off looking into the subject because you're frightened about what you might learn about yourself. I can say that you don't have anything to worry about. From what I remember from learning about this years ago... it's a "socially unaccepted" (for the most part) but fairly harmless paraphilia.

    BUT again, I have NO special knowledge or training on this. I'm remembering some things from some university classes I took more than a decade ago. DO RESEARCH THIS.

  • As long as you don't act on your urges, you're gonna be fine. I guess seeing a Therapist might help tho.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You have to ask a professional about that. I am not sure if there is a way to overcome that. Anyway, if you don't mind me asking, when did it start? I mean, when did you first realize you were into that? Did anything happen?

    Also do you have "normal" fantasies as well?

  • Um, I'd suggest talking to someone professional about this. I don't have enough knowledge to help you or tell you 'if you'd be dangerous in the future'. But it's not a normal or common thing to fantasies about. Try to get in contact with a professional to unbox all this

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  • Ask for a weekend job at a hospital or at your local undertaker

    • Yes work as a funeral director or embalmer I hear it’s only a misdemeanor if you get caught but dont take my word for it

  • You have serious issues that need to be discussed with professionals.

  • Your fine, we all have werid fantasies

    • NO that is not a normal or healthy fantasy. Something is psychologically wrong with a person if they’re fantasising about dead bodies!

    • @Renae_85 me and my spouse and both fantasized about this and have even watched necro porn so I think it's pretty normal

  • Since necrophilia is illegal, you should see a therapist to rid yourself of these thoughts.

  • Well at least when you get with the one you like, you don’t need to bring flowers. They’re usually already there.

  • Your kink is unlikely to go away.
    If its really an issue, seek professional help

  • Get some therapy also start reading the Bible.

  • you go and get professional help. that's what.

  • Pretty sure. Lol well alright man well kinda spooky. Just tell you girl to play dead while you go at it. Dont go doing anything crazy and you're good.

  • Follow laws.

  • As long as you don't fuck fresh corpses or make them, you'll be fine.

  • get help

  • go see a therapist bro, ASAP

  • Gross, you should get help

  • I've jerked off to all kinds of crazy shit but never acted on any of the violent shit. People are weird

  • Time to cut your dick off

  • That's pretty cool, I love such things as a future psychiatrist.

  • This is not right this is so fucked up

  • Well you don't have to worry about getting her pregnant or not wanting to have sex. Best thing to do is become a funeral home director or get a job in one or maybe a job in a morgue. They cannot tell on you.