My boyfriend is a one minute man does he not have respect for me in the bedroom?

I read he should learn to control his orgasm.. and that because he doesn't... he doesn't respect me 😔
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Most Helpful Guys

  • You are way too young not to be having mind blowing sex every fucking day. I highly recommend that you start sleeping with somebody else or multiple somebody else's. If you're truly attached to this dude, he'll get the message as he sits on the couch wow you get serviced play some stud in your bedroom. He might act all jealous and shit, but that's just a cover because he really thinks it's fucking hot and he's embarrassed by that. That's probably why he has premature ejaculation issues. His body is trying to tell your body to seek out other penises.

  • No, that is ridiculous. You excite him so much that he can't control himself. If you start up again soon after, he will last much longer.

Most Helpful Girl

  • That's not the case at all!! Some guys can't control it well. They have an Orgasm fast when he's just starting off or if he hasn't had sex in a while. My husband went from lasting about 30 minutes to maybe 5 because I was on pelvic rest my entire pregnancy. Has nothing to do with respect!

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  • Does he watch a lot of porn? It could be a physical/medical problem.

  • Some guys just aren't in good control of it. Conflating how fast someone is to how he feels about, or respects you, is absolutely asinine.

  • Get him to work on his foreplay game. If that doesn't work, either leave or cuck him. I mean, if sex is that important to you two that is.

  • HA! do you have any idea how hard that is?

  • What about a second round?

    • Yeah that's fine but it doesn't last all that long I'd appreciate oral or something

    • Let your guy get his face between your legs,,,

  • I'm sure he Respect's you some guys body's are different.

  • He is just a quick looad blower
    U can't learn to last longer that shit is not possible TBH
    U either last for more then 10,15 mins or u dont
    Deal with it girl or find someone else

  • Guys can't control the orgasm. The pussy is probably too good. The only he can do is make you cum first.

  • thats not true at all it could mean A ur cat is just that good or B he's been watching way to much porn in his childhood which for some keeps a orgasm control low or he just couldn't hold it

  • It's not easy. Can you control when you get wet?

  • Well, if you don't like it find someone else.

    • Exactly that's what i want to say! If she's not satisfied with him, and he doesn't respect her, she should find someone else

  • Do you know how hard it is to hold back an orgasm. What he should be doing is getting you off first

  • Prolly not his fault. You might just be too good

  • More frequent sexual activity should change that.

  • You should suck him off round 1, round 2 he will be fine to give you a good time