Take ginger teas Sounds like a circulation problem or fresh ginger water for faster and better results. I personally do it and oooof o my i almost tear up from how good it feels. And if you eat a lot of fast food i suggest you stop its terrible for you and also refined salt, sugar and flower im just trying to help.
No I’m a plant based vegan so it’s definitely not a health issue. But I’ll try the ginger tea
O ok im glad your healthy hopefully its just your Mind then. I mean sometimes wgen i try to masturbate it just doesn't work and i loose interest fast so i stop. But it probably happens due to my anxiety I've read a few good comments on here about having to do with anxiety you should talk more deeply about your situation to them or me if you want
You say you’re having problems having an orgasm and that you don’t feel pleasure through penetration. Do you feel pleasure and orgasm when masturbating or is that only through sex when you don’t feel it?
It is quite possible that you are lesbian. But it is also quite common for women to need direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. Experiment with your body to find out what it needs.
Maybe I should buy a clit vibrator?
You can get a decent one for under $20. Get one that is waterproof that uses AA or AAA batteries. If you want to take it further you could invest in a hitachi but those can get expensive. It also sounds like you might just be too far in your own mind while trying.
Yes I’m definitely far in my own mind. I’m young so I have to worry about my parent busting in. My brothers walking in on me. I don’t have space to experiment with myself. Even though I’m 18 my parents still don’t want me having sex and they’re very stick. I open look at my phone every couple minutes to see if they called.
Try stimulating your clitoris at the same time as penetration.
You will find that the majority of women, me included, have this very same problem.
Thank you for the MHGirl.
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Maybe but I can’t see myself with a woman. Maybe it’s because from young I’ve been taught that I have to be with a man and that being a lesbian is wrong
that doesn't mean you're into women. you're into guys. just ease up during sex
Sounds like you need to relax 😅
Sounds like anxiety and little to do with your vagina.
You just need to relax and enjoy the moment
Maybe so. I can’t seem to focus.
Don’t! You’re doing the opposite, you have to let yourself go and let things happen.
You too much in your head, and not relaxed.
Make a lot of foreplay and fingering before the penetration and during sex foucs your mind inside your pussy you definitely get the pleasure.
Buy a dildo
You're mind is racing. That's the problem. Relax.
Is your vagina like stretched out?
Maybe you need bigger dick
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