Has the current dating field devastated average guys?
Jane goes into Tinder looking for a relationship. She has 50 messages. (Of course the same guys who messaged her, sent the same copy paste message to 200 other girls)
On a scale of 1-10, Jane is anywhere between 5 to 8.
Jane is getting messages from guys in the range of 4-10. She don't bother replying to the guys in her range, why should she? She just returns messages to the 9-10 guys.
one day, one of the 9's or 10's sets up a date with Jane, but she doesn't understand that the only reason he messaged her, was because all of his 10's and 9's were busy, so he decided to go slumming. It was either Jane or just stay home and jack off.
they go out for drinks. Jane will of course spread her legs for him, because she doesn't want to risk losing him. When they are done he disappears. she's Ghosted!
it will happen again and again until she will become jaded and you will see that reflected in her profile. "If you're a lying piece of shit that just wants to get laid, then swipe left". Jane isn't going to say that players are assholes, she going to say that ALL men are assholes. So those mid-range guys who never got to get into Jane's panties, will still take their share of the blame for those who did.
But it won't matter. She will take the bait over and over and never ONCE blame herself for being a complete idiot. It's always the guys fault.
So Jane will never find that relationship that she so wants, and neither will the intelligent, funny, kind, caring guys that are at her same attractiveness level, or even slightly above her level.
Some women have been on the same dating sites for many years, doing the same thing over and over, and expect different results.
But they will NEVER settle. They deserve the BEST. Jane will never be normal again, because she has been brainwashed to think she's better than she really is.
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