Am I boring because I’m not into fwb/ casual relationships?

I’m 21. This guy that I’m into says he doesn’t want commitment right now so I’m sure he pretty much just wants to continue sleeping around with different girls. I don’t believe that would be fulfilling for me. Am I boring bc I’m not into those types of relationships?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Fuck no
    I love a girl who doesn’t want to throw her body away for any man (not saying that it’s bad I just prefer women to care for their body more than to let scum bags have their way)
    I rather date a Virgin than a girl who’s had several partners because I don’t want someone who views sex as fun I want someone who views it as intimate and romantic

  • Open relationship? I mean, its your choice but you shouldn't hook up with him or stay near him, as you fully know his intents. You are you and you deserve what you want. There are plenty of men that are like you and want the same ideals.

    • Thanks. Would you say that girls that aren’t into open relationships boring? I just wish him & I wanted the same thing. It’s just a matter of letting go of the thought. Do you think it may be because he isn’t into me or because he just wants to be able to sleep around?

    • Most definitely to sleep around. They aren't boring. Im kind of a polyamorous. But im also fine with closed relationship (just the both of us and no one else). Its not boring. Thats what a couple should be. As long as you keep the relationship interesting nonetheless.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I don’t think so. I’ve met tons of amazing and fun people who don’t like to sleep around. I suppose it would depend on one’s definition of boring though, so ask yourself, “who do I want to be drawn to me?”

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  • No, stay away. Get married and stay married until death, and shut up with this nonsense

    • Sarcasm? I’m not hell bent on marriage or getting serious quickly. I just want a normal committed relationship.

    • Well, then you're going to have a lot of problems ahead of you. A " normal commited relationship". Nonsense. What is the meaning and purpose of a so called normal commited relationship? None.

    • Love, companionship, support

  • Nope you are normal

  • No, that doesn't make you boring.

  • Honestly good on you, for not wanting to be part of that whole thing.

  • No. The difference is you have good morals and he doesn't.

  • "Am I boring" yeah a little bit. If that's what he wants, then that's what he wants. If you don't want to give him that, then don't. If you do, then do. This is very simple.

    • I understand it’s simple. We don’t want the same things so we should part ways which we have but I can’t help but to analyze why since I am the one who wants more. How does that make one boring? What would make a guy only want sex from a girl & not more? Do you believe in a guy not being ready?

    • ... Guys want sex. Guys do not always want commitment. This is also very simple.

  • Boring to him, maybe

  • Where do girls find such guys? No, you are not boring. You are perfectly correct. Stick to your standards, values, and principles, and if he doesn't respect then reject him and move on. It's not worth compromising yourself for guys such as those.

  • Not at all. Everyone and their preferences. You not liking or wanting friends with benefits doesn't make you boring.

  • of course not. it is not for everyone nor for every relationship. just move on and find someone better.

  • Having standards doesn't make you boring.

  • Not at all. Plenty of people are purely interested in monogamy

  • not at all boring, fwb/casual relationships don't always work out anyway nor are they fulfilling.

  • It means you prefer a monogamous relationship...

  • Nope you are not, you're sensible. JMO

    • Thanks. I wish him & I were more compatible/ wanted the same things. I just can’t bring myself to settle for just sex.

    • Agreed.

  • I'm not in to serious relationships either, but, I do think you're boring because you think you ALWAYS have to have something serious. Life would be boring if everything was always serious. Girls like to laugh, right?

    it's wrong to avoid something, simply because you're scared of it

    • I’m not against those types of relationships but that’s not what I want right now. I want a monogamous relationship. I feel like there’s a lot of risks involved in casual sex emotionally.

    • There really isn't hun

  • I don't think so.
    Those friends with benefits people scare me.
    I don't know how they can ever transition into a serious, committed relationship effectively after years of screwing around.