When to know you’re ready for sex after a breakup?

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I know this guy who was a business partner at my last job. He’s hot and he knows one of my friends so he knows I’m single now. I’m trying to get over a hard breakup and not feel like my body still belongs to my ex. I’m thinking of having my first casual hookup to get it over with.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If you are having thoughts of it, that’s when you’re ready.

    Typically after a traumatic breakup you don’t want to associate yourself with anyone other than friends and family.

    So I’d say go for it if you and him talk on a regular basis.

    Just be prepared cause you might catch feelings, especially since after a breakup you feel vulnerable

    • I just feel confused. I want to be with a man so I don’t feel like my sexuality is based on my last relationship. I also don’t want to just casually have one night stand.

    • I understand that love. I don't know just hang in there, when that time comes it’ll come

  • you guys broke up? what happened? you ok? its understandable how you feel I tried that myself after my breakup with my 2nd girlfriend it didn't work i made myself feel worse and i realized i just needed time to myself. but i do know what you mean always feeling a certain way and it reminds you of your ex. good luck my love. * hugs*

Most Helpful Girls

  • Go ahead and do it! I promise it will take your mind of your ex plus it will be fun and feel great! Don't compare him to your ex when having sex with him. Sex is very different with each guy and no dick looks or feels the same.

  • You should hook up with this guy if you want him. Your body belongs to you.

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  • Damn uck_uckGoose I'm sad I thought I was going to be that Guy? , I wish ,,, well your body belongs to you and only you , so I think you are wise enough to do as you please so in saying that. If you do go out with him for a Casual hook up maybe him if he has a Casual sister I really need a Casual friend lol well good luck ,, have fun

    • I don’t know you

    • Fucken weirdo. Leave her alone

  • When you’re prepared and in the mood. How ready do you have to be? Contraception, a condom and a willing partner seems like enough.

  • If u feel like u want it then it's time

  • The same night to get over the pain

  • When you see a person and think "I wonder how he/she looks naked?"

  • After 5 maby 6 seconds have passed

  • You'll want to have to sex with other people.

  • You will feel ready

  • Your ready when you feel you are and trust me your body won't feel like it belongs to you ex when your having amazing sex with someone else

  • Go for it! Fuck his brains out and enjoy yourself!

  • Right after he leaves your place.

    • Go for it!

  • The next decent person you walk past after the breakup

  • As soon as possible to get the ball rolling so you won't be heartbroken and down

  • For me it's not a problem and I could go that night but some people take years

  • go for it :D

    • follow me? pm me?

  • Go for itt. Live your lifes

  • When you are completely done with the rebound phase.

  • So do it

  • You will know. You clothes will cum off

  • When you get that tingling feeling down there😉.

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