Guys if your soon-to-be wife had a bachelorette party, would you be upset if there was a male stripper at the party?

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  • Any guy who answers yes is forcing a double standard. 99% of soon to be married men end up either at a strip club, or at a party with strippers at their bachelor party. Just because strippers are present doesn't mean the bachelor (ette) is having sex with them.

    • Okay thanks

    • Are you getting married, or is it one of your friends?

    • Friends the party at 5 pm and another friend says they paying for strikers

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  • I’m not a guy, butt if my to-be-husband had strippers at his bachelor party, I would no longer be marrying him.

    • but* yikes

    • Really? U don't trust him enough not to fuck a stripper.

    • I know he wouldn’t fuck one of them, that isn’t the problem. Is it so bad to not want your fiancé to look at, be touched by, or perversely danced on by scantily clad women? He’s never been touched sexually by any woman other than me and I certainly don’t want that changing at his bachelor party.

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  • What is the problem with her looking at pipe? As long as she is not using it, she can look, but nothing more.

    • Lol she did something with it lol

    • That is upsetting, to put it in nice words... How would she feel, if her soon to be husband would do similar to some female striper?

  • Yes and I'm positive she would be upset if I have strippers at mine.

    • I wouldn't.

    • Good for you If you don't have a problem with it during the bachelor party, then you should be fine if he does it throughout the marriage because there is no difference.

    • If he cheats on after we get married his balls are going missing

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  • I probably will not want one, but don’t men have strippers at their bachelor parties often? Or is that just a stereotype? If it’s not, I’m kind of disgusted to see all these men saying the relationship would be over if she had a stripper when he’s allowed to have one...

  • Personally it's not my thing, I find the whole stripper thing quite cringy and I'm not into it, my idea of bachelorette party would be a spa getaway and some partying, minus strippers. But if both parties of the relationship agree to have strippers I think it's okay, I've even heard of couples having like a three way lap dance. As long as it's agreed then there's no issue.

    But if you spent the night before your wedding pressed up against the body of some other guy... they guy you are marrying should seriously reconsider. So yeah, just talk about it.

  • Voted yes. I come from a country in which bachelor/bachelorette party didn't exist. Now some people celebrate it due to the influence of American TV shows.

    I understand that life as a married person and building a family will change someone's life. That's why I understand what some people do, going on a great trip with friends, because after marriage you won't have as much time for them as you had.

    But I've never understood the stripper point. Feels like a desperate move to feel single before the wedding, or desperate to have a sort of last chance to be or see other men in sexual context. If someone needs to feel single before their wedding, maybe they don't want to marry that much? That's how I feel about it.

  • Honestly no.
    The point is a last hirrah and his friends are there to monitor him. as long as he does nothing but look, how different is it to porn or a horny woman trying her chances? The problem is if he takes the bait.
    I went to a hen party which had a male stripper and we actually put a complaint in. He was so rough with the bride it was beyond sexy. He dragged her off her chair and sat on her and pulled her round. Me and the younger women were confused but the older ladies (like bride to be) stepped in and said this isn’t okay. It’s the behaviour I would expect from the grooms party as well, step in and go “nope that’s too far”.

  • Yes, I mean its really disrespectful and quite frankly I've heard to many horror stories to be particularly comfortable with it.

  • I'd call off the wedding.

  • With me, woman like that would go from "soon-to-be-wife" to "never-will-be-wife" in a matter of seconds, it doesn't matter the context.

    I have no taste for disrespect.

  • Not upset if she doesn't touch him.

  • The only male “stripper” I’d have at my bachelorette party would be if my fiancé jumped out of a cake. That would be so funny and awesome.

  • no and yes:) the person I'd marry, it wouldn't be a problem because I'd trust her.

    to be honest, the person I'd marry wouldn't do that. her wild a__ friends might put her up to it for THEIR OWN benefit. So the question is, which one of you is the wild a__ friend:)? go ahead and fess up...

    The one time I went to a "gentlemens club"... aka place where slanky girls dress in customes and flaunt their bodies around men in a lame tackless way... pathetic... was when a friend getting married went because his brother insisted. Not for me, Id rather have class!

    you are some cute girls for sure, guys... be careful of this bunch...

  • Nope, especially because I strongly believe my future wife (current girlfriend) wouldn't want a male stripper that isn't me lol

  • No. As long as she enjoys herself.

  • Yeah I would it’s pretty disrespectful considering marriage is the next day but that’s just my opinion

  • Shitt I'd be wanting female strippers

  • I wouldn't wanna be with a man who isn't protective enough or jealous enough to be ok with me being around naked men wiggling their genitalia in front of me.

    It's not about trust. I'd trust him and I hope he would trust me too. It's about respect. If I'm at my bachelorette party it means I'm already in a committed relationship, the marriage contract will just make our relationship legally official. It won't make me go from single to taken on an emotional level.

    What;s the point of having a shaved weird looking man wiggling his genitals at me? What's so entertaining about it?

    • Yeah... trust. I trust her not to pay a man to undress for her and dry hump her. Trust.

  • It just wouldn't occur. Any woman I'd consider marrying would have no desire for strippers at her bachelorette party, and any woman who wanted strippers is a woman I'm not the least bit interested in marrying.

    • And just to entertain this hypothetical scenario: If she did have a stripper at her party, clearly she is not the woman I thought she was, and the wedding is off. That's that.

  • Upset? No. But I would think her and I aren’t on the same page in terms of beliefs in relationships. I’d be rethinking the wedding. Out of all the days to get “that part of you” out of your system, you choose one close to the wedding?

    I get that part of me out of my system before I ask a girl to be my girlfriend. The whole point of relationships is commitment. Watching a man take his clothes off for you as a form of entertainment is pretty disrespectful. Impress me and tell your girls you don’t want him at the party and that you never asked for a stripper.

  • no...

  • Why the hell would anyone want a male striper anyway? You should be thinking about your life with your future husband not about seeing some cheap naked manwhore.

  • No. Watching is allowed but touching is a clear deal breaker.

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