Are you getting married, or is it one of your friends?
Friends the party at 5 pm and another friend says they paying for strikers
Just remember that what happens at the Bachelorette party stays at the Bachelorette party.
99% ? Wow some kind of BS lie there. Not a single man I have been friends with has done that when getting married. Not even one.
@nightflirt can u message i wanna ask u something?
Really? U don't trust him enough not to fuck a stripper.
I know he wouldn’t fuck one of them, that isn’t the problem. Is it so bad to not want your fiancé to look at, be touched by, or perversely danced on by scantily clad women? He’s never been touched sexually by any woman other than me and I certainly don’t want that changing at his bachelor party.
I totally agree with you on this one 👍
@Stephen_77 Literally how? I’m the exact opposite of a whore lmao tf. I was a virgin before I met him, we’ve been together for years and he’s the only man I’ve ever seen or touched sexually, the only man I’ve been with and hopefully will ever be with. When we get married, I probably won’t even have a bachelorette party, but if I did, I wouldn’t have male strippers at mine because I’m simply not interested in other men and I don’t think that kind of perversion is ethical to start a marriage off with. So please explain to me how in the world I meet any criteria of being a whore? This is just laughable.
What a wise and classy lady.
You make a HUGE error.Trust.You make this false reality that it is 100% about sexual intercourse. As long as they do not have sex all is fine.Her paying a man to strip for her, her toughing him and him grinding and simualting sex with her through her clothes is something I find disgusting and I TRUST my girl not to ever do.The fact you are doing this just shows your character and your ability or lack thereof to have for a husband.
A word of advice... just verify with your fiance he is fine with this.If he isn't you are playing with fire... getting sexual entertainment from other men right before marriage. Find out his feelings on this.
Maybe he meant you but most likely he meant the OP.
Hard to tell when people interject themselves into a thread where multiple people are already involved and fail to properly tag the person they’re addressing, especially when their comment is just one word and gives no context as to who they could be talking to. And considering it was a reply on MY opinion and that OP hadn’t said anything to imply she was a whore under my opinion (though she certainly did under other people’s), it makes it even more confusing. But it’s whatever, if he was addressing me then he’s just an idiot, and if he was addressing OP then he should have been respectful enough to do so in his own opinion, instead of jumping in under mine.
I wasn't calling you a whore, I was saying it to mariavazquez.
Lol she did something with it lol
That is upsetting, to put it in nice words...How would she feel, if her soon to be husband would do similar to some female striper?
Good for youIf you don't have a problem with it during the bachelor party, then you should be fine if he does it throughout the marriage because there is no difference.
If he cheats on after we get married his balls are going missing
If that's cheating then it's cheating before you get married. That makes no sense.
Nope because before marriage we ain't commited.
Then why are you marrying him if you aren't committed?
I ain't getting married my bestie is
Then why are you saying "we"? You're making no sense.
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Yeah... trust.I trust her not to pay a man to undress for her and dry hump her.Trust.
Lap... not life.
Here Stefan Molyneux talks to a male stripper. At one point he explains what goes on when he strips for hen parties. This might change your mind.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=UY5lYjfFHYg
@englisc Yeah I already know. In fact, married women in their 30's and 40's hit on me when I worked in a warehouse. Bunch of Filipino and Southeast Asian women. They would check out the security guards and joke about their butts and muscles. Very grabby and touchy feely. 🤷🏻♂️ I know there's BJ's and all that crap but you're marrying the person. If you can't trust them then what's the point.
Flirting is a lot different to having sex with someone - although it still says a lot about the respect that person has for their partner.With the trust thing, if you can't trust the person you shouldn't marry them, 100%. The trouble is that most people, guys especially I'd say today, are so naive when it comes to this that they think that means that they should blindly trust their girlfriend/wife. In reality their behaviour tells you a lot about whether or not you should trust them or not - blindly trusting them is dumb. You trust people who give you no reason at all to not trust them. You don't trust people who do and ignore reasons not to. That's "blue-pill" thinking.If she has a stripper at the hen party, she might not be a cheater, but that in itself should be enough to make you become suspicious.
What a load of bullshit.
What part do you disagree with?
Trust is overly used as some all encompassing excuse for all types of things. You view everything through the narrow guise of "are they gonna have sex" and then throw out the red herring of any objection to anything as "mistrust" and that they must not trust me to not screw someone. Having actual sex with the stripper is not even part of the conversation.You see... trust can work both ways. One can say they trust their mate to not pay someone of the opposite sex to strip naked and dance and grind on them.Not doing stuff like that is pretty normal for monogymous relationships and marriage.
Yeah, I guess you're right... If you 60 years old. Kiss those days good bye. Marriage had a good run but we were never meant to have just one partner. It just doesn't work like that anymore. you're setting yourself up for failure if you get married. I wish it was different but humans are terrible creatures. But with all that being said, while someone is married the least you can do is be honest and don't sleep around (unless that's the couple's arrangement). If you are trying to seem like the holier than thou dude on this site, I would just stop lying to yourself. It seems like you're implying that you couldn't be bothered by the sex that you're attracted to. Your eyes are meant for only one person. If that's the true implication you're probably a serial killer or something equal to. If you can't enjoy looking at a nude (gender) that is attractive then your cheating yourself out of one of the greatest sights imaginable from your everyday sights. This wouldn't include staring at the Grand canyon or the stars above or the Pyramids. This is a thing of beauty that you can see a lot easier. Don't cheat yourself out of a simple pleasure that is harmless. Finally, I am not sure if you have looked at a calendar in the last 20 years but it's now 2020. It's a lot more common than you would think for people to be somewhere where a stripper is working. Pre-marital parties, work parties, guy and/or girls weekends away. It happens. You will be ok. People typically don't have intercourse when they see them. It's just a group enjoying what we are attracted to. No one dies. Kids go to school the following Monday. Marriages are not ruined. People can do people things BUT sometimes it can be ruined by a whore.(male or female) and those people should get married in the first place.
And just to entertain this hypothetical scenario: If she did have a stripper at her party, clearly she is not the woman I thought she was, and the wedding is off. That's that.
The stripers have nice cocks
And I'm sure the stripper is going to have nice tits ass pussy
Yeah I guess I should have read more of the colonists before I responded to that because if you're just wanting a stripper male stripper to f*** then yeah I be pissed if you're just looking then you're just looking there's two different things just posed to be like the other guy said a night of fun. Not a night of sex
Anal why didn't guys are hypocritical because you know damn good and well you have strippers to your f****** bachelor party but she can't have strippers at her party that's bulshit
Thanks for fixing the typo.
What does that have to do with anything?The OPs question wasn't about having sex with a stripper.
I think that there's a bit of a line between looking at someone in a sexual way, and actually having sex with them.
@weasley8 welp i mean ehh having a stripper can lead to sex
I guess it could. But I think that most of the time, especially at bachelor or bachelorette parties, it doesn't. It's usually done more as a gag than as anything serious.
@weasley8 well you may or may not be right but honestly i wouldn't be able to look at her for a bit if i found out she went to a stripper club i mean i understand with porn but strippers are different
That's fine. I wouldn't be too happy if my future fiancé did it either. I get that sometimes it is a surprise planned by their friends, in which case it would be the best man that I'd be mad at, not the groom. But I wouldn't be happy about it either way. I think it's a discussion to have early on in wedding planning, with both partners and the wedding party members who will be planning it. You and I might not be okay with it, but again, for a lot of people it's more a joke and a tradition than anything else.
@weasley8 well would you like to be friends
As in online? Sure. I don't give away my name or anything like that over the Internet. But I'm perfectly willing to message people.
@weasley8 yea sure and i dont mind it so you wanna follow me
also why don't you give ur name out
Lol you are 17 and calling it facts? You've never even seen a strip club, so what you blabbing about? No one has sex at the club lol. Bouncers would beat you and throw you out.
Never said you have sex at a club you dummy he could easily take her home and have sex then or some where far away from people
Easily? Not that easy lol. They are there for your money, and nothing else. But it can rarely happen.
Well it is what it is and you have a wonderful day peace
You have no say on heterosexual marriage, faggot.
@EmperorOfRussia 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 My wife and daughters have no idea... if you're going to try to troll, then try not to sound like a complete and utter moron... I often talk to objectionable people here but you seem too stupid to have any decent conversation... blocked