Guys, Would you lose interest in your girl if she didn't want you to “finish” in her/on top of her?

[DizzyDesii]

I like to rawdog but of course I’d be in a longterm relationship if im having sex anyways. Of course i’d love for the dude to cum in me but honestly, thats if we’re fine becoming parents and i mean come on... most guys are not interested in that rn although I am. Plus, I dont believe in birth control so if you cum in me I meeeean 🤷‍♀️ well anyways, that leaves two other options... him cumming on top of me like some wacko porn star or us turning this back to high school times of “pulling out and cumming on the ground/floor”. (Damn by the way that stain never came out of my moms living room carpet!!). So yea, I personally dont like the feeling of being cummed on. I tried it once and it made the biggest mess and just felt icky. I tried it another time and dude came on top of the bare area where i shaved all the pubes off and he freaked when his cum starting running everywhere fearing he got me preggers 😂🙈 Oh yea wait i forgot there's the option of him pulling out and cumming in my mouth. I technically do like to taste myself off the d*ck so i guess i’d take that ftw 😁😏 But honestly does it bother y'all if she doesn't want your cum on top of her (face, tummy, tits, azz, etc)?
#CumOnOver #FeelFreeToList #TheDesiiDiaries #TieMeDown

[Jjpayne]

I've never had sex, but it's tough... To have all those emotions and build up feeling but to cut it off before the best feeling hits... I feel that's a bit unfair. I clearly get your point. But it's all about the experience for the both of you. Now it's just an idea but maybe you could pull out and find a baggie to help him finish. It sounds a little weird but at least to him, he would still reach his high point without being stopped. I say this though with the idea that it's better to wait until you are in a strong committed close to marriage relationship, just stating my believe there :) but hopefully that helped answer your question :)

[DizzyDesii]

I said i’d take it in the mouth 🤷‍♀️

[Jjpayne]

I suppose that would work

[TremorJay]

If I can't cum on top of her, then the condom is the best option for me. I've got projectile sperm and I came in a girl's mouth once. I hear it hit the roof of her mouth and I don't know, it wasn't satisfying to me and seems uncomfortable for her.

If you track their period cycle, there are a few good days you can cum inside with near 0% risk. I've done this several times. If she has a below avg cycle less than 28 days, I wouldn't try this.

[DizzyDesii]

My period skips 3 months a lot 😂

[TremorJay]

That could be stressful lol. Technically, that should give you more of a window of opportunity, but I would be more cautious just because it's irregular

[DizzyDesii]

Either way im not letting anyone cum in me if they dont intend on becoming a dad

[TremorJay]

Makes sense, I'm definitely up for the task. Does that mean you'd want to be married first?

[DizzyDesii]

I prefer to be married before a kid but if im not then so be it. Im just saying that if he intends on cumming on me then he better be prepared to be a dad too

[liketopullout]

See my username.

[DizzyDesii]

😂😂😂😂

[razelove]

I just see no point whatsoever in pulling out if I'm not using a condom anyway, me and my two siblings are products of the pull-out method... winning lol

[DizzyDesii]

Lmao well pullout method always worked for me. Its not like i wanna use it. But if dudes not tryna be a dad then its the only option ig. But i wouldn't have sex with someone not wanting to be a dad anywya

[razelove]

That's a good point, you take the wrapper off and know there's a good chance that's going to happen dipping that wick enough times. Eventually you make a candle lol

[razelove]

It's also why I don't see the point in pull-out, so much less pleasurable, and no one I've seen can offer any compelling math on how much it would decrease the chances on getting pregnant. As you said too, I'm not going in loud and proud with a good chance of getting a girl pregnant unless it's a consequence I'm willing to deal with, and want to begin with, whether a down the road, or now type thing.

[Herbie_Otch]

Often I don't finish at all. It's all about what she wants. There are definitely guys out there who won't want you to do anything you don't feel like doing, and who enjoy giving you the kind of pleasure that sets you off the most.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea but i prefer to please them

[Herbie_Otch]

Totally valid. As a pleaser myself, I can certainly relate. Just saying in answer to your original question, no, I definitely wouldn't lose interest if I didn't get to come in or on my partner. I also don't lose interest when a partner WANTS me to come.

[aljohnson7899]

Do what makes you happy. Look, it's your decision. Tell him how you feel about this, if he doesn't get it then don't bother and do it anyways. Love isn't all about sex, there are many other factors like loyalty, intimacy and respect.

[DizzyDesii]

I agree

[Lliam]

If I'm with a woman, I don't want to jerk off to finish. Cumming inside her or in her mouth as she sucks and tongues me are equally good. But every girlfriend I ever had was on some kind of birth control, so I never had to worry about it. There are a dozen forms of birth control for women. The only ones available to men are rubbers and vasectomy. And rubbers suck.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i dont believe in any BC

[cheapshotbob]

never had the opertunity because i was always interested in tasting her orgasm but if i had t let that happen i guess i would let her spit depending on what she liked if she did not want it in her.

[UniversityDDS]

If he gets a vasectomy he's good. He can cum inside and you don't have to be concerned about getting pregnant.

[DizzyDesii]

I want a baby so not an option

[Mystery1900]

I think the man should plant his sperm. It's a deep, satisfying feeling to cum deep inside and know that I am planting my sperm there.

[DizzyDesii]

Ikrr

[ShortCircuit]

Yes. Once we are sexually active (which would likely be after several years of being in a relationship, to be fair), there is only one acceptable option: I finish inside every time we have sex, one of us is on birth control (besides condoms), and we never have kids.

There is no negotiation. If she doesn't like it, I'll show her the door.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i dont do Bc

[ShortCircuit]

Thats the whole issue. Why on earth not?

[DizzyDesii]

Religious reasons plus i want a baby

[ShortCircuit]

On what grounds does BC conflict with your religion? And having a baby is no reason not to use BC any other time when you're not trying to concieve.

[DizzyDesii]

It'll be pullot method whenever im not trying to get pregnant. If it happens, it happens. But im trying to get my tubes tied around age 32 anyway

[ShortCircuit]

Why does BC conflict with your religion but not getting your tubes tied? Getting your tubes tied is just (semi) permanent BC.

[MrTuxedo]

It's not a must that I need to cum anywhere near her. I'm not into cumming inside her, as I don't want to risk it that much, but I love cumming on top of her. In my past experiences, girls always liked to be cummed on, either belly, tits or face, but I wouldn't mind if she said that she wants me to cum on the side or something similar, it's not a big deal for me.

[DizzyDesii]

So what if she said she didn't like cum on top of her? Would you be turned off

[MrTuxedo]

I wouldn't be turned off, I would just finish somewhere else. It's not a turn off for me.

[DizzyDesii]

If masturbating do you like how it feels when your cum lands on yourself?

[MrTuxedo]

I do kinda like it, but I kinda start to dislike it as soon as I stop being horny, as then it comes to my mind that I have to clean it, which I hate. I'm not into cumming into my own mouth tho.

[DizzyDesii]

Oh gawsh i hope not 😖

[MrTuxedo]

Nah, that's gross.