Is it normal to feel a little insecure about your penis size, knowing that she was with someone that was larger?

[Anonymous]

She had told me, that she was with only one person before me, and he was noticeably larger than I... So she lost her virginity to a large guy. I am not tiny, as I am 5-6 inches in length, and about 5.5 inches in girth, but I do feel that I am going to be compared... I told her that even though she told me that my dick size is fine, and that she loves giving me a blowjob, but I still cannot help but feel that I am going to be compared...

Is there a way to speak to her about this, that does not sound redundant?

[yougurt]

It's normal to feel insecure because men are obsessed with size, but it's pointless because:
a) you can't change it
b) most girls don't give a damn about that. They care about your performance, not the size.
So don't talk to her about it. Girls like confidence. Be confident in your body or pretend you're confident and she'll love that.

[Asker]

I agree with both points, but I am a virgin still, so performance is NOT going to be a strong suit of mine. She only had oral sex with me, not penetration.

[yougurt]

If you're a virgin, make sure she knows that. She won't expect great performance then.

[Asker]

She does. :) She is willing to go off the deep end. She was happy, when I fingered her, as she really liked it. The only thing that made the encounter for me a disappointing one, was that I never came, when she sucked my dick. Is anxiety a reason for that? If not, why did I have a rough time trying to orgasm?

[angeloo90]

it'd be nonsense if you speak with her. she will think you are obsessive and have a little low self esteem. don't even talk about it again. if she wasn't happy and satisfied with you she could leave you, belive me. size is not the only important thing. enjoy your time with her instead of make an issue with little things bro

[Mister_E_Alaska]

The vagina is meant to be stretched. Even if she compares you it doesn't matter.
I've had a 3-way and immediately followed a huge black guy and I was worried that (I'm about your size) I wouldn't feel anything and lemme tell you. It was fine.
It's a closed sealed bag so it has suction built in. You're fine.

[Shiver]

Yeah, that's normal. Women find erection strength and technique way more important anyway, so don't worry about it.

If you do want a bigger one tho, look up jelqing. Even the free exercises work really well.

[meesegoMoo]

What do you hope to solve by speaking about it? What's the plan here? Not having one will just be annoying and counter-productive. What's the goal?

[Aisha122323]

Men! Always the same idea to be compared in size! Please forget this stupid idea and enjoy your girl.

[Nigjt]

Yes just talk to her an if she really loves u then she will do her best to make u feel better about it

[elduderinosupreme]

I've never been nervous about it because tongue alphabet works wonders.

[Anonymous]

She should have never told you, never. not a word ever.

[Anonymous]

Kinda something you have to get over. Obviously she isn't a size queen because she says she is happy with you. You just have to take it a day at a time till you are content with what you got.

Just because dude was packing doesn't mean it was good. I dated girls that said they fooled around with hung dudes and it was so bad.