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Do you think that "hot" people don't put in as much effort in the bedroom because they don't really "need" to?

So I have a friend that hooked up with a really hot firefighter. She said that even though he was hot, the sex was just "meh" even though he didn't seem to think of it that way though. She said that he seemed like one of those guys that's had a lot of sex and has never had to try because he's so good looking.
So, do you think there is some truth to this? Maybe they think you're lucky enough to have landed them so they don't work it.
Do you think that hot people dont put in as much effort in the bedroom because they dont really need to?
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  • Maybe it was kind of false expectations... like when you see an amazing dessert, but doesn't live up to expectations. Vs the average dessert that blows your mind? or maybe he was tired from putting out fires or cleaning his "firetruck"? not fair to judge by one time. I say she goes back 3-4 times, ... do this scientifically good grief... make some charts, I'd suggest orgasms on scale X, and intensity Y mapped against time duration. Consider comparing against police, EMS, pilots. Then we have some real info to go on. Lets get with this ladies, time is wasting away and we need info.

    ok... enough sarcasm out of me tonight. I don't know:)

    • Ok, that's fair. I think it happened twice, not sure if it happened more than that.

    • thanks mho, hope you enjoyed my humors:)

  • Lol
    ya I’ve noticed they either go all out because they think their the God’s gift to mankind or they are lazy af because they think they’re too good. Either way it’s because they think they’re all that lol

    Girls always say how the big dick guy thinks he can just wiggle his big dick in her and it all works out without him doing much cause he loves his dick 😂 hear that one a lot

    On the flip side you might have a girl that’s been doing hot yoga all week and just itching to show It off

Most Helpful Girls

  • While it is absolutely true that there are people who think their physical appearance is enough to keep someone satisfied it isn't a direct correlation. I've known a 6 who may as well have been a wet towel, and a 9 who set records that still haven't been broken.

    • Awesome, thanks for sharing 😊😊

  • I don't know, I've never fucked a hot person. 😭

    • sis same tho

    • My first love was very good looking but we were both virgins. So I can't answer this question either... lol

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  • I think it's true because super hot sexy people seem to get anything they want.

  • ah, could be true. i would like to propose an alternative explanation as well: an idea or proposition that average-looking folks like to convince themselves of to raise their egos.

  • People deserve to have mind-blowing sex. Sure, everybody likes boning a hottie. But the allure of a hottie wears out fast. You're selling yourself short if you don't demand that they up their game. If they're not able to bring it, then open up the relationship. That way you can keep them around as a trophy and have somebody else around to rock your world. :-)

  • I can’t really say from experience. The best looking guy I’ve been with has been the best in bed and the least cute guy was the worst.

  • I'd disagree... But I can't deny that their might be vain people that feel their attractiveness is entitlement to slack on their performance but I think that's stupid...

  • I agree with @duckysback

  • Yep, I do believe that very attractive people tend to think this, but especially very attractive women. They more often have the attitude that already as a woman they think they will automatically be good for a man in bed anyway, and to be very attractive tops the cake where they also feel that they really don't need to do anything for the guy to nut his brains out but simply bask in her beauty and/or physical attributes.

  • The last hot guy I was with put in the most effort I've experienced out of all of my partners.

  • Yes, I do.

  • "Mantras and the Seven Spiritual Laws"

    "Yoga and the Law of Least Effort"

    "The mantra that corresponds to the Law of Least Effort is Om Daksham Namah ―"

    "My actions achieve maximal benefit with minimal effort."

    --Deepak Chopra

    "So I have a friend that hooked up with a really hot firefighter."

    What POSSIBLE reason would the hot firefighter have for "making her day?"

    I'm quite sure he got what he wanted, so kudos to him.

    Did she learn her lesson? Fuck no!

  • I never had sex , still a Male virgin but i don't look for Hot Women
    i look for a plain Jane she is just as good for me.

  • I think in a sense yes. They feel like they dont have to work for anything, because it's always given to them.

    • Yours is the ONLY intelligent response I've read on this question. Kudos to you.

    • well, you're quite attractive. so by your logic, everything's been given to you. i am certain of it because you said it yourself.

    • @DianaWest why thanks for the compliment, and i bet you're just as attractive. I am however very humble, and always want to please.

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  • Fire fighters are arrogant fucks. It's like cops only they don't suffer enough to give them any maturity.

  • What I would say from my students days is that alcohol levels probably had more correlation with level of performance than any level of attractiveness. I'm far more grown up since those days now though! lol

  • Not relevant. He was just a dud.
    That said, don't judge a guy's sexual prowess by his looks. How many hot models have you seen with a beast of a guy? Wife and I always laugh, "He must have a huge dick". ;)

  • No. Either you are great at sex or you aren’t. Even if you have a lot.

  • That has been my general experience, however I’ve nails a few lazy 7’s too.

    • *nailed

  • Sounds logical. Then again i'd have to know your friend. Maybe there's no such thing as satisfying her.

    • She has never complained before.

  • The lazy starfish partners in bed aren't remembered for their sexual skills so your friend is better off trying to find an friends with benefits or another relationship partner where there's delicious sexual chemistry 😉👌

  • i'd say that only goes for girls, cause well guys are expected to do the "work" either way.

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