Is sexting with a complete stranger cheating?

Irishman41 Xper 4

If you sext with someone u know you'll never meet. Is it cheating?

Yes

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Depends on how far it goes

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+1 y

All valid points and let me be clear.. this is a random question. I am not sexting with anyone lol

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Brainsbeforebeauty Editor
+1 y
In my opinion, If you're in a relationship the only person you should be sexting, video sexting, sharing nudes with is your SO.
Would you want your SO doing those things with another man?
The time spent doing those things with a stranger is the time you could "actually "be doing those things with your partner/SO.
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- Irishman41
  +1 y
  But os it really cheating if u aren't touching each other.
- Brainsbeforebeauty
  +1 y
  I still feel it is. Just me but why if someone has a partner they love and who loves them, why would you even talk sexually or share pics with someone else? I ain't sleeping with no man if he's thinking about or already worked up by someone online and you're what, just the physical outlet? If two people promise to be monogamous than I feel I should be the only one seeing it and only one seen.
- Irishman41
  +1 y
  Well put
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- Irishman41
  +1 y
  Now if u caught your husband doing it.. is it auto divorce or something that can be forgiven
- Brainsbeforebeauty
  +1 y
  I can't say but the"caught' instead of him coming clean would lean towards not being able to trust that person and without trust🤷‍♀️there is no relationship. But if there was trust/ respect he wouldn't be doing that in the first place. Do you mind, would you be ok with your SO doing that?
- Irishman41
  +1 y
  If I'm answering honestly, and she didn't did it in front of me and it was someone she probably would never meet... and I was privy to it.. then I don't know maybe
- Brainsbeforebeauty
  +1 y
  But then that's probably something that should be discussed at the beginning of relationship. Instead if getting into it add then finding out about it. To me, its still giving the wrong attention to the wrong person. But if two people pre agree to it🤷‍♀️To each their own. Me, personally I couldn't accept that.
- Irishman41
  +1 y
  Well if there was 10% about me she didn't like but 90% she loved, giving her an lol outlet like that's seems a better option than divorce
- Brainsbeforebeauty
  +1 y
  I guess. I'm just old fashioned. Why stay single since my husband died. People's ideas of what's ok in a relationship differ from mine.
- Irishman41
  +1 y
  So u aren't committed but still go out?
- Irishman41
  +1 y
  And I'm sorry bout your husband
- Brainsbeforebeauty
  +1 y
  Thank you.
- Irishman41
  +1 y
  So and u can choose not to answer this. But have u been asked by a date to stay over and all he wanted was to give u oral sex?
- Brainsbeforebeauty
  +1 y
  I'm a very sexual person but at the same time, not just with anyone. I don't just jump into bed right away or have any kind of sex, oral included on"just a date ". I take time to get to know someone. That being said, what's the point of"just" oral? Isn't the whole point of"foreplay" play, build up before sex? So, no to just a date and no to just oral. And no if he's dating or involved with someone else.

Most Helpful Guys

CharlieBadger Yoda
+1 y
Probably, it really depends on the nature of your relationship. If the boundaries include sexting then yeah it would be.
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ecfresh Master
+1 y
If your SO knows about it and has approved it then it’s not cheating. Otherwise yes
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