How do I approach asking him to let me watch him finish?

Question

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together 6 months. When we have sex he always finishes inside me, and a few times in my mouth from bjs. However, I LOVE to watch things happening. Like, I love watching him go inside me, I love watching his face while I go down on him, I love watching him stroke it and I really want to watch him finish. He seems to enjoy finishing inside me and honestly we haven't really shared any of our kinks or fantasies yet so I'm not sure how to approach it. I want to ask him to pull out and finish on my tits so I can see the eruption but I dont want him to be disappointed I asked him not to blow the load inside me or weirded out that I want to watch it happen. Is this an offputting request and how should I approach it?

TCredo · Accepted Answer

While everyone is different, I don't think he'd find it "offputting" - he might also have it in mind and not sure how to ask... or he might just want to try it based on your suggestion or explaining how you think it would be hot... and being cummed on your tits is a rather innocent or "common" type of kink so you two might find this opens the door to talking about other things you'd each like to do.

One idea on how to bring it up... do you watch porn with him? If you do, you could find a vid where the guy cums on her - could tell him how hot you think that looks...

Be very cool if you update this if he does do it to share what you and he thought about it :)

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

For MOST guys, being asked to fulfill their girlfriend's kinks is anything but off-putting. Even if other things are his favorite, I think it's very likely that he'd enjoy doing this for you from time to time.

Yes, it's possible that he's in the small percentage that would be weirded out, but you kind of have to take that chance. The worst that would happen is that he'd say "no".

Jasmin0701 · Accepted Answer

I don't think he'll be angry if you ask him not to spray when he's inside you. You can tell him you want to blow him, but you want him to cum on you or in your face. I bet he'll agree.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Err, if you're already letting him nut in your kitty then I think it's safe to say he won't be opposed to it.

AustinMan · Answer

I'd include it in a larger conversation. You've been together long enough to talk about kinks and fantasies. You can make seeing it a fantasy so he can feel good fulfilling it.

IamStag · Answer

you should start talking to him. I am very similar to you, I love watching every part and reaction of my wife. which leads to several fantasies and games we can experiment. just talk honestly with your boyfriend.

Berethor · Answer

Well to make sure that your boyfriend would not get disappointed about his load being wasted, you can lick his load from your tits after he has finished. :)

reptocarl · Answer

“Cum on my tits”

JacobRoto · Answer

When sex is initiated, you should mention it's what you want before any clothes come off. Remind him of it somewhere in the middle, and remind him one last time when he's about to pop.

oldguystillhasit · Answer

After about a year and a half of good, but vanilla sex, out of the clear blue sky my wife asked me very nicely if she could tie my hands up. I was already aroused so I said yes. We proceeded to tie legs and thighs also. after this we were open to share our kinks and fantasies with each other Introduce what you want from him slowly don't overwhelm with everything you want right away

DOGMA1954 · Answer

Go ahead and ask him. He will enjoy it just watching.

jamiepagepro · Answer

I'm sure he'll do whatever you ask

Zebadee88 · Answer

Hello boyfriend, can I watch you cum? How hard is that!

automatic812 · Answer

Tell him, it's that easy.

COMMODOREII · Answer

Just ask him to blow it on your tits then afterwards he can go again. Lol

Cannuck22 · Answer

Just ask him. I am sure he would be happy too

zoanero · Answer

Sounds like you know what you want. I'd say just mention it to him. Surely hed be into it

rockrewls · Answer

Ask him to stroke off onto your tits, tell him it will make you very horny?

ando90 · Answer

No It's not off putting. I personally don't mind if she wanted me to cum on her tits

Anonymous · Answer

Wanting him to finish on your tits is a common desire. It's also common for guys to want to finish on her tits. If your tits are large enough, you can lubricate your tits, and he can slide his cock back and forth between your tits. However, that will make him eject close to your face, where you may have some difficulty seeing just what is happening. You may want him to eject as you sit by him, he jerks off, and you get a real good look. However, he understandably will want to cum in your most of the time.

Anonymous · Answer

No you can tell him to cum on your tits and he will definitely do it and get turned on doing it

Anonymous · Answer

Why not just say it? Are you totally silent during sex? If not, just say in the moment, that you want him to finish on your body and ask him to get on top of you stand and stroke.