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Why am I soooo horny? And how do I control my horniness?

I'm 20 and a virgin (it's common for an Indian) but I've had oral sex before. Why am I so horny all the damn time? I masturbate 6 times a day and I think about sex all the time! How do I control my horniness. Everything I see gets me horny. I'm not even bisexual but seeing a girl with cleavage gets me horny too. Wtf is wrong with me. I can't really have sex now because I'm in a long distance relationship and I won't cheat on him.
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  • Well maybe that's nature. Well try and not cheat the guy. I guess it you are that horny there is very little you could do. Maybe controlling your screen time could work. Or you could even try and develop some hobbies. Look even I'm an Indian guy and even I can be very horny at times. A few years ago even I used to masturbate a lot but now I'm able to control it because I have developed some hobbies like painting and debating which keeps me distracted. But when there is nothing to do. I get horny again. So I guess it is all about how you can keep yourself occupied!

    • Yes.. thanks I hope this works ❤

  • Oh my! It looks to me that you're a Nymphomaniac! PLEASE take that as a compliment, it's VERY special to find a Girl who desires Sex that much! (I hope to find such a Girl)
    To control Horniness is a very difficult thing... I'm sure they have medication for such, but I think that shouldn't be the case. What you CAN do is contact Him! Maybe request a video chat or phone call from your Significant Guy, and ask Him for advice! If He's a sweetheart, maybe He'll assist you in your horniness, and get you off every once in a while!

Most Helpful Girl

  • have you ever tried being with a girl? are you sure you are not bi?

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  • Where is he?

  • Well you are only a technical virgin if you already had oral sex.

    https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TechnicalVirgin

  • When you're horny, your body is telling you that it wants to make a baby. It's an itch that wants to be scratched. You're scratching it yourself which is good. But perhaps you should find a guy. It doesn't have to be a serious relationship. Some of the best sex that you will ever have will be in friends with benefits situations. Don't limit yourself to just one person. And also don't stop scratching the itch on your own. It's completely normal to have a wank and a shag in the same day. :-)

  • Go have sex or use sex toys

  • I think you may be a guy. Say something that only a girl would say, or somehow prove that you are in fact who you say you are?

    • Girls get horny too... what's wrong with you!

    • Ok... I stand corrected... only a girl would have said that- amazingly... 😂🤣😅

  • Dunno do you have depression? I knew a girl who was super horny and she had depression when I talked to her a few years later she wasn't the same anymore she was way more balanced.

    • I do stress over little things.. I won't call it depression though. How's your friend now?

    • She's doing well :)

  • your normal. you should see some males. can't leave the house sometimes due to a erection.

  • Damn girl. I mean would you like some help with that

  • try keeping your mind away from anything sexual

  • LDR's a complete waste of time. Your hormones are raging.
    You've put yourself in an impossible situation.

  • That's normal xD just do the mastion thing as you already do.

  • Cheat on him trust me

  • Buy a dildo

  • I think you might be bi. Fee free to message me if you’re about to talk more?

  • It's normal i have high sex drive too like you, reduce watching porn, and only masturbate with your long distance boyfriend

  • Its human nature. You just need to learn to control it if you can't be with your guy.

  • Suffering in silence is the way for you or buy a dildo and do it yourself

  • Perfectly normal at your age. At your age I often got to ten times a day.

  • Welcome to the tragedy of the typical teenage boy! hahaha
    Such a level of horniness is much less common in teenage girls, but the good news for you is that abstinence is much more of a choice on your part as a woman, whereas men are at the mercy of the gods XD

  • I’m so horny right now too and doing the kinkiest things right now. You should message me or email me

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