Is it a turn off for guy to hear woman said "i want you" many times - like three times a day?

So he is all about work since days ago (like 8am to 8pm) 😕 and whenever i tried to initiate sex, he always says later. And tbh i kinda feel frustrated already, it has been almost a week without sex.

And tbh I start to feel like saying "i want you" too many already. Is it a turn off for guy to hear that many times?
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  • It's not a turn off for me. Maybe he needs a little behind the scene assistance, if you know what I mean. He doesn't need to know that he's getting assistance. He might be relieved that you are not 'bothering' him as much. Where are you? I'd love to help him out.

  • He's either actually busy.. something happened.. or he's playin w you

    • Playing like how? You mean cheating?

    • And playin w you does NOT mean joking. This means fuck with your emotions, and his own in the process. He's probably anxious as hell if the relationship is only based on sex. I wouldn't wanna f*** all the time after working 12 hours either, without some... something! Connection. Offer him a back rub, damn. Something. Respect is a two way street ✌ If y'all are a hookup i get it, you dont wanna send the wrong message but if this is your man... yea he's prob just tired.

    • Eh no, i wouldn't jump to that unless you're positive. Asking if he's cheating and you like him is a bad move too cause then he's suspect, feels like you dont trust him. Gotta be sure.. not just paranoid. Open up communication w basic shit first. "How was your day? Why aren't we talking lately? Talk to me... i want to cuddle and watch something when you get home.." thats my girlfriend's move lol. Gets me everytime. then you guys can talk... things like that can lighten the mood so he's comfortable to talk, and you're prepared to hear it 👍 if he's suspect he should show more signs of that eventually, just act natural and ask good questions... all i can suggest 🤔

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  • Depends on the girl and if the sex is good

  • Monogamy kills love and sex.

    Remember that

  • No it's not bad, but not more than 3 times, and wait until the weekend

  • Not for me. I wish i could get that.

  • Wow I'm shocked guys are normally the one the initiates sex some isn't right with him

  • It turns me on. But why isn't he interested in you?

  • It is not for me. Just say it once and I’m ready

  • Not at all, for me it would be a huge turn on. It sounds like your partner is literally collpasing under the weight of stress and fatgiue.

    I think you guys should go away somewhere nice for some quality time.

  • No it's the opposite... Having that shows you are attracted to him

    To me personally I think that's a huge thing